Relationships Uncomplicated

Are you wondering if you're healing at a normal pace? Well, in this episode I will not be telling you how long you and your spouse "should" be taking to heal. Instead, I'll provide you with tools to make an educated estimate based on important variables.

Links mentioned in this episode:

Infidelity Recovery Program consultation

It's Okay To Stay recovery program

Program reviews & testimonials

Are you hurting badly now and wondering whether infidelity pain will ever go away? Are you concerned about what life will be like after you heal?

This is not unusual. This, or some form of this line of thinking, is a concern both hurt and unfaithful partners share. This is particularly true for couples who are trying to heal and go back to normal.

Even that very word, "normal," can be triggering. So many questions and concerns come up for couples and to help get some answers, I talked things through with a guest therapist.

Tune into this episode to learn tips to better handle the aftermath of the aftermath of infidelity.

You are also invited to learn more about our infidelity recovery coaching program. If you like what you read, schedule a 45-minute free consultation to see if it would be the best fit to enhance your healing process.

Links mentioned in this episode:

45-minute Infidelity Recovery Coaching Program Consultation

Yael Haklai-Neagu, LMFT - senior couples therapist at Idit Sharoni - Relationship Experts

Episode #68: How to Recover From Infidelity PTSD

State of Affairs - book by Esther Perel

In this episode relationship expert Idit Sharoni discusses the symptoms of infidelity PTSD including intrusive thoughts and how to help your hurt partner get past the triggers. She also shares about whether it is even possible to help a hurt partner with this and the do's and don'ts around that.

I recently met with Dr. Marie Murphy on her podcast, Your Secret is Safe With Me to discuss how an affair recovery program can help couples in the aftermath of infidelity. We also shared about how unfaithful partners can get help ending affairs or making decisions on how to proceed with an ongoing affair.

Dr. Marie and myself discuss the most difficult shame ridden topics that most do not even try to understand about infidelity and betrayal. We look at the multidimensionality of relationships and the healing after infidelity.

One of the most common yet difficult issues hurt partners experience in the aftermath of infidelity is post trauma symptoms or PTSD.

I interview relationship expert Yael Haklai-Neagu, LMFT who specializes in helping hurt partners handle their intrusive thoughts and Hypervigilance as a result of their partner's affair or betrayal.

As a certified hypnotherapist, Yael shares tips and ideas about how you can utilize hypnotherapy to recover.

This Episode is Brought to you by It's Okay To Stay Program - A Roadmap to Healing After Infidelity by Idit Sharoni, LMFT

Links Mentioned in this episode:

Yael Haklai-Neagu's Webpage - Yael is an expert team member at Idit Sharoni - Relationship Experts, a private practice offering marriage counseling, couples therapy, and affair recovery programs.

In the aftermath of infidelity, what does a hurt partner need most?

What comes to mind?

Most people, unfaithful partners, or even therapists routinely answer the same way: hurt partners need true remorse from the betrayer, to forgive, and to know why among other things.

Of course, these are all true and important. Yet, the more fundamental and vital concern any betrayed partner needs to be addressed is for their pain to be heard.

Relationship expert Idit Sharoni shares 6 tasks hurt and unfaithful partners can start implementing right now to facilitate hearing the pain.

Episode Sponsor:

This episode is sponsored by Idit Sharoni's infidelity recovery and healing program: It's Okay To Stay.

'It's Okay to Stay' is a complete 8-week coaching program that involves an online roadmap course and one-on-one work with an affair recovery specialist.

If you have faith in your relationship, if you want to stay together, and heal—

Idit is offering a 45-minute free consultation for couples who want to save their relationship after infidelity and need expert guidance.

Schedule your free consultation today at www.iditsharoni.com/45 *Both partners have to be present for the consultation.

Episode Full Blog Post:

https://iditsharoni.com/what-hurt-partners-need-most-in-affair-recovery/

Links mentioned in this episode:

The Monogamy Myth.

Not Just Friends

When we think of healing from an affair, we focus on the betrayal of the faithful partner.

We rarely think of the unfaithful partner's wounded mind.

In fact, the unfaithful partner's ability to recover from the affair is quite routinely ignored.

And when it comes to women's affairs? Well, there's even less attention paid to healing for unfaithful women.

That's where the expertise of Debbie Rose comes in.

Listen to my interview with Debbie to learn the steps to ending an affair.

Infidelity Recovery Free Masterclass:

Idit's infidelity recovery masterclass

Links mentioned:

Debbie's website aftermyaffair.com

Debbie's Facebook group

Idit's support community on Facebook

The book Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass

Idit's infidelity recovery online program

Contact: [email protected]

Tackling a big relationship issue that has the potential to end it? You know you need an expert to help you, but how do you get the best of the best to work with you?

This episode is mind shifting because it will change your understanding about how to get help from professionals you normally can't afford or can't reach.

The world of service is totally changing, and with it the world of couples counseling. Gone are the days where experts were out of reach, too expensive, or too far. Tune in to find out how you - yes you - can get an expert to help your relationship.

Links mentioned:

Infidelity Recovery Free Masterclass:

Forgiving & Forgetting is NOT the Key to Healing After Infidelity

Contact: [email protected]

Are you and your spouse equal partners in your relationship? Or has one of you become more of a parent to the other?

When a couple starts to fall into a parent-child dynamic, codependency, rather than a balanced, cooperative relationship starts to emerge. Essentially, this means that the overall patterns of communication and behavior push one partner (either the male or the female) into a parent or a child position within the relationship.

In this episode, I do the following:

• help you take a closer look at what this destructive dynamic may look like
• share why you shouldn't promote this in your relationship
• suggest two strategies to avoid it

Links mentioned in this episode:

FREE Masterclass: Forgiving & Forgetting is NOT the Key to Healing After Infidelity www.iditsharoni.com/masterclass

for more information go to: www.iditsharoni.com