FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal

Rewrite Your Betrayal Story


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Everyone loves a good story. The intensity of the drama, humor, and love keeps us in rapt attention as the story unfolds. Throughout history humans have told stories, learned through stories, and lived through stories more unbelievable and fantastic than anything that could have been imagined.

When we are knee-deep in the middle of our own story, it's easy to lose perspective. Especially when that story is the story of infidelity and betrayal.

But here’s the thing - while infidelity or betrayal may be a chapter in the story of your life, it is only a chapter! It is not the complete story. It's up to you to take control of the narrative and rewrite your betrayal story. 

How? Begin by asking yourself is: Who is writing my betrayal story? When something devastating happens, it causes you to feel victimized, because let’s face it, you were victimized! When that happens, it’s easy to turn the story over to the villain and let them take the lead. But in reality, your story is not about the villain, it's about you!

What would it be like to take back control and start telling your betrayal story, your way? Let me show you how!

Top take-a-ways:

  • Framing your betrayal story in a way that serves you instead of limits or brings you down.
  • Identifying the characters, plot, setting, and main lesson learned from your betrayal story and using those elements to launch into the next chapter of your life.
  • Using the “choose your own adventure” framework for making your affair story a catalyst for something good instead of something terrible.
  • Why writing and then closing the chapter on your infidelity story moves you powerfully into the rest of your life.
  • BONUS! Grab a copy of your Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit, with a chapter of Lora’s book, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, and Spiritual Self on re-writing the screenplay of your life, a beautiful, downloadable journal, and a guided meditation. All for $19.99. Snap it up here! https://loracheadle.com/product/infidelity/

    Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!

    Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!

    Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!

    Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT 

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    FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or BetrayalBy Lora Cheadle

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