Sex for Saints

In this special episode, I spoke with Maddie and Matt. I have been coaching Maddie for a little over a year now. We talked about what my coaching program is and what it isn't. We talked about how Maddie being coached has changed not only her relationship with her husband Matt, but also with her kids and other relationships in her life. Matt talked about how even though he doesn't get coached directly, he has learned the tools right alongside Maddie and he has been able to become more like the person he wants to be. If you have ever wondered if my Embrace You Elite Society membership is right for you, this is the podcast to listen to!

If I had a dollar for every time a woman told me that their kids were keeping them from having sex, I would have added a lot to my piggy bank. What I have found is that the kids are often a convenient excuse, but really aren't to blame for our lack of sex. In this episode, we're talking about 5 common reasons women give me for children interupting their sex life and the strategies to overcome them. After all, your spouse is the most important relationship you have so let's work together to help you have a better relationship with him.

I think it's safe to say that we all want a great sex life. But most of us just don't know how to get it! When we run into problems with having the sex life we thought we'd have, especially when we waited until marriage, many people, men in particular, feel like they have lost the opportunity to have the best sex of their life. While studies do show that women reach their sexual prime in their thirties, and men in their late teens, this doesn't mean that you have missed your opportunity! In this episode, we talk about what a sexual prime really is and why we haven't really missed out on anything. We can have a great sex life at any age!

In this episode I'm talking with Mike Frazier, MD of Strong Men, Strong Marriages. I share what the woman thinks when she says that she doesn't care if she ever has sex again. And then Mike lets us in on what the men think about. This is a great episode where you can really see what is going on in your husband's mind when it comes to sex and intimacy and he could get a glimpse into what you think as well.

If you'd like to learn more about Mike, go to www.mikefraziermd.com or find his podcast, Strong Men, Strong Marriages, on your favorite podcasting app.

Stop settling for bad sex! I talk to a lot of women who just think bad sex is what sex is or that bad sex is better than no sex. This isn't true. You can have a great sex life that is fun for both you and your partner. Listen to this podcast where we talk about what bad sex is and, more importantly, what good sex is. Never settle for bad sex again!

Have you heard the phrase "sex drive"? I'm sure we all have. But in truth, sex isn't a drive, it's a mindset. Why is this important? Because when we think that we need it, or should need it, it becomes a release rather than a way to get closer to our spouse. Listen to this episode to find out what a biological drive actually is, and why it is so important to know that if you don't want sex, you aren't broken.

Sex is NOT a Drive Like Hunger, and Here are 2 Reasons This Fact Matters

Come as You Are by Dr. Emily Nagoski

Passionate Marriage by Dr. David Schnarch

What is duty sex? Duty sex is when we have sex with our husbands because we "should." Because it is our duty as a good wife. Because he "needs" it. Because we don't want him to look elsewhere for it. Or because we are trying to manage his emotions and behavior with it. We have been convinced that we don't have to want it too. And this simply isn't true! Duty sex is passionless and doesn't create the connection that either of you want. So, how do we stop having duty sex? It isn't an easy process but in this episode, I'll share with you the two steps to take to fix it.

One of the topics I get the most DMs about is female ejaculation. Either women who do it all the time and want to stop or women wanting to know how to do it and everything in between. In this episode, we're talking about female ejaculation, how it works, why we shouldn't be afraid of it, and why it actually is pretty amazing. So, why not give it a try?

She Comes First by Ian Kerner

Women's Anatomy of Arousal by Sheri Winston

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I think most of us want to be righteous. We want to do what is right. But where is that line when it comes to sex in our marriages? That's what we're talking about in this episode. Where is that line in the sand is? And which side do you fall on? The answer may surprise you. Have you been thinking you are unrighteous for too long? Listen in!

Do you feel mentally overwhelmed with everything you need to do to take care of your family? With all of the activities, and the doctor's appointments, and the school calendars, not to mention dinner, it gets overwhelming. The answer isn't to "say no more" or "you're doing too much." But what is the answer? Listen to this episode as we talk about how to lighten your load so that you have time to have the wonderful sex life you deserve.

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