When your spouse is doing something that’s bugging you, the first (and most natural) thing your survival brain tells you to do is to tell them what they’re doing wrong. Of course, you expect they’ll be ever-so-grateful that you told them how wrong they were because, after all, you were just trying to be helpful.

On today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’ll show you why your “helpful” habit of trying to teach and correct your husband is actually creating bigger problems in your relationship.