THIS WEEK: Is Cody a good texter? How soon do you text back? Are thumbs up emojis cringey? How do you behave in the group chat? and Is there actually such thing as a bad texter... or is he just not into you?!

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HAPPY HALLOWEEN BOOOOOS!!! Cody & Andrew discuss the BEST and WORST ideas for couples costumes AND their FAVORITE past Halloween costumes! PLUS: Ren's costume suggestions, a heartfelt PSA to all straight men, What's the hierarchy of Halloween Candy? What's the deal with haunted house actors? Andrew shares how crazy his Halloween birthdays were as a kid, What to do if you're a pillow princess forced into role playing, Cody gives advice on what costumes to AVOID if you're looking to hookup, AND Cody shares his feelings about Moo Deng costumes (much to Andrew's chagrin)!

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What's the upper limit of your dating range? Cody & Andrew talk all things AGE GAPS! Would YOU ever be a sugar baby? Which celebrity couples have notable age gaps? And Andrew shares how an age gap played a BIG role in his family! PLUS: Cody's thoughts on Joker: Folie a Deux, Andrew's obsession with Love is Blind, What to do if you're the cougar in the relationship, and a fun new segment - I'D LIKE TO SPEAK TO THE MANAGER!

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This episode was recorded on Tuesday September 24th.

Tony and Grammy-winning star of the stage and screen, Jonathan Groff, joins Cody and Andrew to talk about his upcoming Broadway musical about Bobby Darin, how Jonathan landed the Hamilton gig and became friends with Andrew, and a rumor that's been going around about him! PLUS: Silent meditation retreats, why Jonathan deletes his texts, doing Spring Awakening and eventually Glee with Lea Michelle, the most scandalous scene from Looking, BTS from Knock at the Cabin, and a Marry F Kill of Jonathan's career!

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Doing impressions. Smacking your lips. Not having female friends. Walking on the balls of your feet. Being too obsessed with your family. Having a lockscreen photo of yourself. Cody & Andrew break down ALL THINGS ICKS & RED FLAGS! PLUS, How did Nicole Sherzinger do on Broadway?, Cody shares which article of Sabrina Carpenter's clothing that he found offensive, and will Ren get her money back after Chappell Roan dropped out of a festival she bought tickets for??

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Cody, Andrew, & Ren breakdown all things dating app etiquette INCLUDING How important is location? Should you post a group picture? Is it okay to date a bodega owner? How suggestive should your pictures be? And where is Tinder hiding all the hot people?? PLUS: Andrew goes to Red Rock, Cody & Ren go to Charli XCX and why Cody hates a coffee date and audience participation.

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Cody & Andrew review the contestants for the upcoming season of DANCING WITH THE STARS! And Cody shares some juicy BTS about his experience on Season 30! PLUS: The guys share their thoughts on the VMAs including the performances from Sabrina Carpenter, Chappell Roan, and Taylor Swift!

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Cody & Andrew get into the minutia of Hookups vs Dating including the difference between situationships, friends with benefits, and being exclusive. PLUS: Cody shares his thoughts on Tennis and all the celebrities who watch it, a tribute to James Earl Jones, Jojo Siwa's appearance at New York Fashion Week, Katy Perry receiving MTV's Video Vanguard award, Chappell Roan's adjustment to fame, Which celebrity ghosted Ren?? And what to do when your partner comes out to you?

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THIS WEEK: When was the last time you took yourself on a solo date? And can it lead to an ACTUAL date? Andrew shares about his time in Nantucket (which is in fact an island), Cody shares why you should never trust him on a boat, Ren shares all about her recent European adventure including a broken wrist at the Eras tour and a Greek fling! PLUS: Andrew shares about the time he was almost KIDNAPPED (as a child), Cody tells why does NOT love going to the movies with Andrew, AND everyone lets their feelings be known about RAYA!

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Remember the 2010s?? Cody & Andrew do!! Join them as they breakdown the biggest scams INCLUDING Elizabeth Holmes and Theranos, The College Admissions Scandal, What Color Was the Dress?, The Fyre Festival, and TWO big Oscar kerfuffles!!

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