Stop trying to partner with your kids in parenting! In this episode, Ryan and Michael delve into the concept of authoritative parenting, challenging the idea of children masking their true selves due to ADHD. They explore the importance of pushing children out of their comfort zones and discuss practical strategies for effective parenting. What are the three key parenting rules shared by a pediatric emergency doctor? How can parents model emotional regulation for their children?

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[00:00:00] Start
[00:01:51] Children's role in parenting.
[00:06:16] Pushing children out of comfort.
[00:09:06] Boys and therapy resistance.
[00:11:00] Resilience and Anti-Fragility.
[00:15:54] Parenting challenges and decisions.
[00:19:18] Building self-confidence in children.
[00:21:33] Varied experiences for child development.
[00:25:41] Strategies for handling child's resistance.
[00:28:47] Clutch and cringe video segment.
[00:32:27] The negative impact of masking.
[00:36:32] ADHD masking on social media.
[00:38:08] Parenting rules and discipline.

In this episode, hosts Ryan and Michael delve into the intricate world of social executive functioning skills in children with ADHD. They explore the difference between social skills and social executive function skills, highlighting the challenges faced by kids with ADHD in social interactions. With a focus on perspective taking and cognitive flexibility, the hosts provide insights into how parents can support their children in navigating social situations. Tune in to discover the crucial role of front-loading information and the impact of social relationships on long-term success.

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00:00:00 Intro

00:01:22 Social executive function skills.

00:03:27 Differences between ADHD and autism.

00:07:15 Disorder of self-awareness in ADHD.

00:10:41 Difficulty with perspective taking.

00:15:01 Social challenges in ADHD.

00:18:38 Social executive functioning challenges.

00:22:19 Social executive function challenges.

00:24:18 Social impact of ADHD behaviors.

00:26:14 Male youth development.

00:29:19 Social relationships and success.

00:34:17 Teaching social perspective taking.

00:36:26 The ADHD parent.

00:40:22 Front loading for social skills.

00:43:26 Pushing kids out of comfort zones.

00:45:26 Parenting through discomfort and anxiety.

00:50:00 Social dangers of Discord.

00:50:48 Social executive functioning groups.

The ADHD Guys podcast hosts, Ryan and Michael, delve into the lack of men in the mental health and speech language pathology fields, discussing the challenges and implications of this imbalance. They explore the impact on boys' social development, highlighting the importance of natural social interactions over structured groups.

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00:00:00 - Start

00:01:48 - Lack of men in respective fields.

00:06:26 - Men in speech-language pathology.

00:07:25 - Speech pathology misconceptions.

00:11:30 - Creating a welcoming environment.

00:15:32 - Social skills and speech-language pathologists.

00:16:47 - Neurodiversity affirming therapists.

00:20:48 - Social pragmatic language groups.

00:23:10 - ADHD and social executive functioning.

00:28:00 - Social skills groups for boys.

00:31:00 - Cultivating and sustaining friendships.

00:33:31 - Male loneliness epidemic.

00:36:24 - Social activities for skill development.

00:41:35 - Stark differences between boys and girls.

In this episode of the ADHD Guys podcast, hosts Ryan and Michael delve into the crucial topic of emotional dysregulation in kids with ADHD. They challenge traditional views on executive functioning, emphasizing the importance of self-regulation and cognitive flexibility. How can parents navigate emotional outbursts without falling into the trap of parental accommodation? What strategies can help children develop better emotional regulation skills at home? Tune in to discover the evidence-based treatments recommended for kids with ADHD and learn how to empower your child through effective parenting techniques.

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Find Ryan @ ⁠⁠⁠www.adhddude.com⁠⁠⁠ & on ⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠⁠

00:00:00 Start

00:02:09 Cognitive flexibility and emotional dysregulation

00:03:34 The power of attention

00:08:24 Ignoring negative behaviors

00:10:22 Affective calmness

00:15:16 Parenting and child's discomfort

00:19:36 Brain breaks for self-regulation

00:23:12 Developing self-regulation skills

00:24:16 Less language for better parenting

00:27:10 Teaching kids emotional regulation skills

This episode delves into the challenges parents face in pushing their children out of their comfort zones. They explore the concept of the "ADHD comfort zone" and discuss the importance of exposing kids to new experiences to build resilience. How can parents navigate emotional manipulation and noise from their children? What strategies can be employed to help kids develop self-awareness and overcome anxiety? Tune in to discover the answers, plus how episodic memory plays a crucial role in shaping a child's perspective and decision-making.

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References & Links: 

Get comfort zone image Mike references HERE.

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[00:00:00] Start
[00:01:19] The ADHD comfort zone.
[00:06:50] Shifting Parenting Trends.
[00:10:48] Temporary discomfort versus trauma.
[00:12:43] Parenting Expectations vs. Choices.
[00:17:13] Emotional manipulation and noise.
[00:19:16] Negative attention-seeking behavior.
[00:22:29] Emotional manipulation with screens.
[00:27:10] Controlling the home environment.
[00:30:31] Building resilience through exposure therapy.
[00:34:18] Memory and positive experiences.

Hosts Ryan and Michael debate the controversial topic of screen use in children with ADHD, and whether it should be treated like an addiction. They explore the impact of screens on the developing brain, discussing the correlation between ADHD and addiction. Are screens truly addictive, or is it just compulsive use? How do screens affect executive functioning skills and social interactions? Tune in to discover their nuanced opinions and recommendations for parents struggling with screen time limits and the potential consequences of excessive screen use on a child's future success.

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[00:00:00] Start
[00:01:35] Screen addiction in ADHD.
[00:07:01] Screen addiction and gambling comparison.
[00:08:05] Screen time and child behavior.
[00:14:37] Screen time limits for ADHD.
[00:18:09] Managing video game usage.
[00:22:16] Screens and refusal to brush.
[00:24:18] Screen time impact on children.
[00:27:13] Video games and social skills.
[00:32:37] Big tech concerns and parenting.
[00:36:51] Visual time management for kids.
[00:40:33] Importance of varied experiences.

In this episode, hosts Ryan and Michael delve into the world of evidence-based treatment recommendations for kids with ADHD. They explore the common misconceptions surrounding therapy and coaching for children with ADHD, questioning the effectiveness of traditional approaches like cognitive training and social skills groups. Are these methods truly helping children make real-world progress, or are there more proactive and impactful strategies to consider? Tune in to discover the key concepts and insights shared by the hosts, as they navigate through the complexities of supporting children with ADHD.

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Find Ryan @ ⁠www.adhddude.com⁠ & on ⁠Youtube⁠

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[00:00:00] Start
[00:00:32] Evidence-based treatment recommendations.
[00:04:25] Treatment recommendations for kids with ADHD.
[00:10:45] Social skills training for ADHD.
[00:11:57] Requirements for social skills groups.
[00:15:40] Ineffective school support systems.
[00:19:39] Neurofeedback training pros and cons.
[00:24:02] Parent behavior training programs.
[00:26:38] Parenting challenges with ADHD.
[00:31:44] Behavioral peer interventions.
[00:34:18] Executive Functioning Coaching Importance.
[00:39:27] The red countdown timer
[00:43:20] Shifting focus to real-world progress.

In this episode, hosts Ryan and Michael delve into the rising trend of late autism diagnoses and the implications for parents and children. They question the surge in inaccurate diagnoses and discuss the importance of looking beyond labels to focus on a child's unique needs and potential. What is behind professionals teaching fragility and how does that impact children's development? How can parents navigate through questionable diagnoses and prioritize their child's quality of life? Tune in to discover the answers and gain valuable insights into supporting children with ADHD.

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Find Ryan @ ⁠www.adhddude.com⁠ & on ⁠Youtube⁠

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[00:00:00] Start
[00:00:00] Rise in mental health fragility.
[00:06:25] Social struggles in ADHD.
[00:08:36] Misconceptions about autism.
[00:11:33] Autism and ADHD misconceptions.
[00:15:03] Label obsession in child diagnoses.
[00:20:48] Teaching independence and resilience.
[00:23:16] Three areas of focus: home, academic, social

In this episode of the ADHD Guys podcast, hosts Ryan and Michael delve into the misconceptions surrounding ADHD evaluations and treatments. They challenge outdated recommendations and emphasize the importance of parent coaching in strengthening executive functions. Do therapy and social skills groups really help kids with ADHD? How can parents navigate the overwhelming evaluation process to ensure effective support for their children? Tune in to uncover the truth behind ADHD treatments and discover the key to fostering growth in children with ADHD.

Find Mike @ ⁠www.grownowadhd.com⁠ & on ⁠IG⁠

Find Ryan @ ⁠www.adhddude.com⁠ & on ⁠Youtube⁠

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[00:00:00] Start
[00:00:36] Misunderstanding of ADHD treatments.
[00:04:50] Evaluations for ADHD diagnosis.
[00:07:52] Executive functioning and success.
[00:12:34] Executive functioning and behavior therapy.
[00:15:10] Misconceptions about therapy.
[00:20:29] Parent coaching in executive functioning.
[00:23:18] Ineffective social skills groups.
[00:26:10] Kids thriving without phones.

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