Buying into our stories takes no effort at all. We don't even notice we’re buying into a story; we just believe it's the way things are, and nothing is going to change. The problem is how limited these fear-based stories keep us. We think only certain things are possible for us, even though we want so much more. It's like living in a fog and the truth is clarity. Playing small leads us to dissatisfaction in dating and relationships; we tend to settle for much less than would feed our souls. Why? Fear.

Fear shows up in a variety of ways from ambiguity to anxiety... making it seem impossible to believe reality could be any different. Fear keeps us single. It keeps us in relationships we wanted to walk away from long ago. But if you make space for possibility, it can change your reality.