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Episode Description

If you have tried every diet, tracked every calorie, and still find yourself overeating at night or regaining the same weight over and over, this episode is going to hit uncomfortably close to home. Chris pulls back the curtain on five real-life roadblocks that most people never want to say out loud. These are the deeper life choices and dynamics that quietly keep you overweight, out of shape, and exhausted, no matter how badly you say you want to change.

Drawing from his own 125 pound weight loss and years of coaching people through morbid obesity into a thin life, Chris calls out the hard stuff. The job you hate. The kids who take everything out of you. The way you hide in helping everyone else. The spouse you blame or fear. The principles and beliefs you have never updated since your twenties. This is not about shaming you. It is about finally telling the truth about the life you built and how that life is shaping your body.

If you have ever thought “I just do not have time to take care of myself” or “I cannot change this without blowing up my whole life,” this conversation will challenge that story and give you a way to start taking your power back.

In this episode, you will learn

1. Why a controlling, draining, or boring job can quietly drive emotional eating and long term weight gain, and what it really means to consider changing it.
2. How a lack of boundaries with your kids teaches them that self care is optional and keeps you stuck in chronic self neglect.
3. Why constantly helping everyone else first can be a socially acceptable way to avoid facing your own body, habits, and limitations.
4. How an overbearing spouse, or the story you tell yourself about your spouse, becomes an excuse that blocks your progress and what you can actually do about it.
5. Why outdated principles and unexamined beliefs from your past are running the show and keeping you from becoming the thin, healthy, happy version of you.

This episode is for you if

1. You feel trapped by your job, your kids, or your relationship and you keep saying they are the reason you cannot lose weight.
2. You are the reliable helper for everyone else, but your own health keeps getting pushed to the bottom of the list.
3. You are ready for straight talk, tough love, and real responsibility without shame.

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This episode answers questions submitted inside the Becoming Thin Facebook group. Chris breaks down why so many people believe they are starting over every time they fall down. He shows how that story is a lie that destroys momentum and confidence. You will learn a new frame for consistency that feels possible in the real world and you will hear powerful examples of how tiny adjustments compound into becoming thin.

Chris also addresses body acceptance, emotional eating, Netflix routines, motivation, and why failure is not a problem if you use it correctly.

Major Topics Covered

• the unseen identity trap behind “starting over”
• how to accept your body at any size without settling
• consistency as getting back up not perfection
• momentum and why missing twice is where danger lives
• how emotional eating reveals itself during stress
• motivation vs micro actions
• the difference between intentional enjoyment and escaping feelings

What You Will Learn

• how to neutralize the voice that says you failed again
• how to measure progress in real life not fantasy perfection
• how to switch your focus from removing negatives to adding positives
• how to use the next tiny action to activate motivation
• how to stress test your personal strategy instead of judging yourself

Ever notice you only feel safe when you’re in total control? In this episode, Chris explains how control is really about self-trust—and how to finally find peace without perfection.

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Episode Summary

Do you only see results when you’re hyper-controlling everything—tracking every bite, counting every step, micromanaging every habit—and yet still fear losing control the moment you ease up? This week, Chris Terrell unpacks why that happens and what it really means. You’ll learn how control often hides self-distrust, how to recondition your subconscious to support your goals, and how to build trust in yourself so you can stop living in constant tension around food, the scale, and your habits.

If you’ve ever felt like peace only exists when you’re perfect, this episode will help you shift from control to confidence.

In This Episode

• Why control is often a symptom of self-distrust
• How hyper-managing your weight loss actually prevents maintenance
• The power of subconscious reconditioning in long-term change
• Why mastering the basics beats chasing perfection
• How to make maintenance feel like victory
• Emotional eating, explained as a spectrum—not a failure
• Real tools for moving from “trying to lose weight” to “learning to stay thin”

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What If You’re Not Stuck… You’re Just Afraid to Move On?

You’re not broken. You’re not trapped. You’re just standing at the edge of change — and fear is whispering that you’re not ready.

In this episode, Chris breaks down why so many people mistake fear for stuckness and how that illusion keeps them clinging to the very things holding them back. You’ll learn how to recognize when fear is trying to protect you, how to move through it, and why real transformation always begins the moment you let go.

In this episode:

• Why fear disguises itself as “stuck”

• The difference between restriction and release

• How to find freedom on the other side of fear

• Practical steps to start letting go — for real

If you’ve ever said “I just can’t move forward,” this episode will help you see the truth behind that feeling and finally start walking toward the life you want.

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Understanding Emotional Eating: Key Insights and Strategies for Lasting Weight Loss

In this episode of the Becoming Them Podcast, host Chris Terrell shares his journey of losing 125 pounds and breaks down the key elements that lead to permanent, meaningful, and lasting changes in weight loss. Chris emphasizes the importance of modifying habits, routines, belief systems, community, and environment, and delves into the often overlooked aspect of emotional eating. He explains psychological reactance and how perceptions of control impact our eating behaviors. He also discusses the significance of understanding emotional cues and countering them with mindful practices. Chris shares insights from the book 'Eight Keys to Ending Emotional Eating' and announces plans for an intensive one-on-one coaching program. This episode is a deep dive into the underlying causes of emotional eating and offers practical strategies for achieving sustainable weight loss.

00:00 Welcome to the Becoming Them Podcast

00:38 The Six Pillars of Lasting Change

03:37 The Reality of Emotional Eating

05:32 The Basics of Weight Management

06:50 Understanding Emotional Eating

09:20 Join the Live Streams and Community

11:59 The Power of Books in Weight Loss

21:47 Psychological Reactance and Food

27:27 Understanding Psychological Reactance

28:58 Personal Experience with Reactance

32:10 The Forbidden Fruit and Emotional Eating

35:35 Defiance and Control in Everyday Life

38:49 The Flaws of Traditional Dieting

44:30 Introducing the Guaranteed Success Plan

48:12 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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You say you want freedom — peace with food, confidence in your body, consistency in your habits — but somehow, every time you get close, you find yourself back in the same loop: overthinking, overeating, and starting over again.

In this episode, Chris Terrell breaks down why you keep doing that.

You’ll learn how the mind becomes addicted to struggle — not because it’s good, but because it’s known. And how that “familiar captivity” convinces you to stay stuck in patterns that quietly destroy your self-trust.

This isn’t about food or fitness plans. It’s about freedom — real freedom — and what it takes to walk away from the version of yourself that’s still chained to comfort, control, and shame.

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In this episode:

• Why your brain prefers familiar misery over unfamiliar freedom

• The subtle ways you recreate struggle in your life (and call it “normal”)

• How to recognize when comfort has turned into captivity

• What really happens when you stop believing your excuses

• How to rebuild trust with yourself one decision at a time

• Why failure isn’t bad — and how it’s the key to finally being free

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Key Takeaways

1. Familiar pain feels safer than unknown peace. Your brain equates predictability with safety — even when that predictability hurts.

2. You’re not broken. You’re conditioned. And conditioning can be unlearned.

3. Freedom feels unfamiliar at first. It’s supposed to. That discomfort is growth.

4. Self-trust is rebuilt through action, not perfection. Every time you follow through — even a little — you’re rewiring who you believe yourself to be.

5. The cage isn’t locked. You’re holding the key. You just have to decide to turn it.

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Listen if you’ve ever said:

• “I know what to do, I just can’t seem to do it.”

• “Every time things start going well, I mess it up.”

• “I feel like I’m addicted to struggle.”

• “I don’t trust myself anymore.”

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Most people think weight loss is all about calories, carbs, or exercise. But what if the real reason you keep regaining weight is hiding in your belief system?

In this episode of the Becoming Thin Podcast, Chris Terrell digs deep into the psychology of change and reveals why unquestioned assumptions and hidden beliefs are the true roadblocks to lasting weight loss. From the myths about “healthy” food to the lies we tell ourselves about emotional eating, Chris shows you how your ego quietly re-installs old habits and pulls you back to your starting point—unless you learn how to challenge and rewire the beliefs that are keeping you stuck.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything right but still not losing, this episode will help you see the blind spots that are holding you back. More importantly, it will give you the tools to finally start changing them.

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What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• Why weight loss always begins with beliefs, not behaviors

• How hidden “sacred cow” beliefs quietly sabotage your progress

• The sunglasses metaphor: why your worldview is tinted by assumptions you don’t even know you have

• How your ego re-installs old habits when you’re trying to change

• The surprising truth about emotional eating (even if you think you’re not one)

• Why awareness is always the first step to breaking free

• How to practice changing small beliefs so you’re ready for the big ones

• The ripple effect: how shifting one belief can unlock a cascade of positive changes

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Key Takeaways

• Beliefs are the real diet you’re on. Until you change them, old patterns will always come back.

• Awareness precedes control. You can’t stop what you’re not conscious of.

• Your ego will fight to reinstall old habits. Recognize the “pull back” as belief systems reasserting themselves.

• Healthy doesn’t mean calorie-free. Unquestioned beliefs like this create hidden traps.

• You are not your ego. You are the awareness behind it, and you can choose new beliefs.

• Repetition is power. The more you repeat and affirm new beliefs, the more your brain rewires to match them.

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Next Steps

• Join Chris live every Monday on YouTube for Monday Morning Motivation

• Connect with others who are challenging their beliefs inside the Becoming Thin community

• Explore the Core Four goals (thin, healthy, happy, in-shape) and start defining your own

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Ever feel like you’re doing everything “right,” yet the scale barely moves? You might be turning the difficulty setting up without even realizing it.

In this episode, Chris Terrell—who lost 125 pounds after a lifetime of yo-yo dieting—shows you how to stop making the journey harder than it has to be. You’ll discover:

• Why chasing perfection destroys momentum and how to replace it with true consistency
• The hidden ways we overcomplicate eating and tracking (and how to simplify without losing results)
• How to stop letting setbacks define you and start using them to fuel your comeback
• The single mindset shift that turns weight loss from a grind into a process you can actually enjoy
• Why slow and steady really is the fastest route to lasting success

If you’re ready to lower the difficulty setting on your own quest and finally make sustainable progress, this episode is your wake-up call.

👉 Want ongoing support and a community that gets it? Join the free Becoming Thin Facebook group and check the pinned post for details about the Guild of Champions—where community, courses, and coaching come together to help you reach your goal weight and stay there.

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If you swing between restriction and overeating and feel food rules running the show, this episode gives you a calmer path out. We map the binge restrict cycle and the guilt and control loop that keeps it spinning so you can spot exactly where you are in real time and choose the next step on purpose  . 

You will learn a simple two question practice to use at every meal. Ask why am I eating and why am I eating this. Do it for two weeks to build in the moment awareness that makes new choices possible  . We drop the good versus bad labels and treat food like a tool so you can match the right food to the job and still honor your goals and your life, including birthdays and social moments  . You will hear the difference between restriction and regulation and how playful rules like planned treats can lower drama without losing momentum. 

We also reframe the scale by shifting focus to behavior first progress so you stop quitting when the number bounces and keep stacking wins that actually move the needle over time  . Save this for your next evening craving, practice the two questions, and if you want more coaching on this work, hop on the Guild waitlist. Doors open next week and the invites go to the list first  .

Most plans obsess over what to eat.

This episode flips the lens to who you eat with and the beliefs your circle normalizes. We dig into the six forces that actually drive lasting change lifestyle, habits, routines, environment, community, and belief systems and how one social shift can cascade through all of them.

You will hear how holiday traditions, “food vacations,” and friendly pressure quietly script your choices, plus the ice cream with your kid example that exposes a belief you can rewrite today.    

From there we get practical. How to build Only Supportive People, why encouragement partners outperform accountability buddies, and how to drop your defense reflex so change can get in.

We talk about failing on purpose to find the next skill to build and why your approach must be customized to your real life instead of copied from a one size plan. If people shape outcomes, engineer your circle so the right choice becomes the easy one.