The Four Sabotages, Part Three: The Wrong Tools = You Thinking You're A Failure 

There are four factors I see that sabotage a student's healing efforts.

These four factors sabotaged me and my efforts for over a decade, leaving me feeling discouraged, frustrated, and even hopeless.  I didn't believe I could heal because nothing was working.

Today, we focus on Factor Three: The Wrong Tools Create The Wrong Results

Have you done this?

- Found a tool and tried to use it to address everything you encounter?
- Tried a tool once and if it didn't work, stopped using it?
- Sought out a "magic bullet" tool that would solve all your pain and problems?
- Tried a tool over and over even though it wasn't working, thinking you were the problem?

This is the impact of not having the right structure, support, or knowledge to guide you to the correct tools for you as a person and your particular situation.

In my work, the student does not adapt to the tools.  The tools adapt to the student and their needs.

This was a crucial shift in my own healing when I started learning what tools I needed and didn't have.  It wasn't that straight forward, however.  

Usually I'd be using a tool and keep encountering a place where I felt blocked or things wouldn't quite work right.  So I began experimenting with asking what I needed at that point, and my body would guide me.  

This is how I create the toolsets I teach today and this is what I teach my students: when tools don't work, there is a need involved and we need to find out what that is.  So we do.

This is where right knowledge and right support are absolutely crucial components in your success (this is why they're core parts of the Codependency Healing System).  

This is where students start to feel seen, known, cared about, and start seeing changes for themselves.  

So, how do you know if you've got the right tools in your healing work?

Learn what these are in today's episode!

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