It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People

The High Conflict Personality Experience: Insights from Joe Rogan and Dr. Andrew Huberman


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Joe Rogan and Dr. Andrew Huberman Discuss "5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life"

In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill and Megan discuss a recent Joe Rogan Experience podcast episode featuring Dr. Andrew Huberman. The episode, number 2195, focuses on Bill's book, "5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life," and delves into the topic of high conflict personalities and how they impact our lives.

The High Conflict Personality: Understanding the 10%
Bill and Megan explore the concept of high conflict personalities, which make up approximately 10% of the population. These individuals thrive on drama and conflict, and their behavior is evenly divided between men and women. The hosts break down the different types of high conflict personalities, including borderline, histrionic, narcissistic, and antisocial personality disorders.

Detecting Lies and Manipulation: A Challenging Task
One of the key points discussed in the episode is the difficulty in detecting lies and manipulation, even for trained professionals. Bill emphasizes the importance of being humble about our limitations and consulting experts when necessary. He also notes that changes in a person's behavior can be a potential red flag for lying or dangerous behavior.

Gender Differences in High Conflict Personalities
Bill and Megan delve into the gender differences among high conflict personalities, noting that while some personality disorders, such as narcissistic and antisocial, are more prevalent in men, others, like borderline and histrionic, are evenly distributed between men and women. They also discuss the built-in biases and stereotypes surrounding these personality types.

Questions we answer in this episode:

  • What are high conflict personalities, and how prevalent are they?
  • How can we detect lies and manipulation?
  • Are there gender differences in high conflict personalities?
  • What role does trauma play in the development of antisocial personality disorder?

Key Takeaways:

  • High conflict personalities make up approximately 10% of the population
  • Detecting lies and manipulation is challenging, even for trained professionals
  • Borderline and histrionic personality disorders are evenly distributed between men and women
  • Trauma can contribute to the development of antisocial personality disorder, but it is not the only factor

This episode provides invaluable insights into high conflict personalities and how they impact our lives. By understanding the different types of high conflict personalities and their prevalence, listeners can better navigate difficult relationships and protect themselves from manipulation and harm.

Links & Other Notes

  • JOE ROGAN PODCAST FEATURING ANDREW HUBERMAN 
    • Joe Rogan Experience #2195 - Andrew Huberman
    • Andrew Huberman website
  • BOOKS
    • 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life
  • ARTICLES
    • New Ways: training for professionals mediators; workplace leaders; workplace coaches; and divorce coaches and counselors.
  • OUR WEBSITE: https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/
  • Submit a Question for Bill and Megan
  • All of our books can be found in our online store or anywhere books are sold, including as e-books.
  • You can also find these show notes at our site as well.

Note: We are not diagnosing anyone in our discussions, merely discussing patterns of behavior.

  • (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault
  • (01:38) - Joe and Andrew
  • (02:37) - Lying
  • (09:30) - Manipulation
  • (13:14) - Threat Sensing
  • (17:40) - Conflict and Drama
  • (28:46) - Protocols
  • (33:50) - Spidey Senses
  • (34:33) - Bill’s Book
  • (35:10) - Reminders & Coming Next Week: Five Types of People that can Ruin Your Life

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