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Why can't they just change? Why don't they just stop hurting you?
Sometimes they've built such a huge wall of protection around themselves that nothing can penetrate it. They keep doing what they're doing because they don't want you to see what's behind the wall. It's too vulnerable, and it might require them to express a part of themselves they've hidden away all their life.
By Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert4.7
832832 ratings
Why can't they just change? Why don't they just stop hurting you?
Sometimes they've built such a huge wall of protection around themselves that nothing can penetrate it. They keep doing what they're doing because they don't want you to see what's behind the wall. It's too vulnerable, and it might require them to express a part of themselves they've hidden away all their life.

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