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The Intrigue Framework — Presence That Does the Talking
Ever wonder why some people light up a room the moment they walk in? That’s not luck — it’s aura. In this episode, AJ and Johnny unpack the science and strategy behind building an authentic magnetic presence. From making people feel good in your company to inviting them into your passions and showing up fully present, you’ll learn the repeatable steps that make others naturally gravitate toward you.
Drawing from behavioral psychology and emotional intelligence research, they share how to master attention, turn validation into connection, and transform your energy into influence. Whether you’re leading, dating, or networking, this episode gives you the blueprint for developing a presence that people remember — and want more of.
What to Listen For
[00:00:00] What “aura” really is — and how it’s built
[00:00:40] Why attention is the first step to influence
[00:01:16] Turning any attention — even negative — into opportunity
[00:02:08] The first pillar: make people feel good around you
[00:02:34] Science of emotional validation and active responding
[00:03:46] Emotional intelligence vs. being “just nice”
[00:05:10] How to respond when others struggle or fail
[00:06:08] Second pillar: invite people into your passions
[00:07:21] Why hosting beats talking — and builds closeness fast
[00:08:53] The “power of the invite” and how reciprocity builds aura
[00:09:43] Third pillar: presence is the new status signal
[00:10:50] The posture and body language that kill your aura
[00:11:42] Final recap: feel good, share passion, stay present
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Ever wonder why some people light up a room the moment they walk in? That’s not luck — it’s aura. In this episode, AJ and Johnny unpack the science and strategy behind building an authentic magnetic presence. From making people feel good in your company to inviting them into your passions and showing up fully present, you’ll learn the repeatable steps that make others naturally gravitate toward you.
Drawing from behavioral psychology and emotional intelligence research, they share how to master attention, turn validation into connection, and transform your energy into influence. Whether you’re leading, dating, or networking, this episode gives you the blueprint for developing a presence that people remember — and want more of.
What to Listen For
[00:00:00] What “aura” really is — and how it’s built
[00:00:40] Why attention is the first step to influence
[00:01:16] Turning any attention — even negative — into opportunity
[00:02:08] The first pillar: make people feel good around you
[00:02:34] Science of emotional validation and active responding
[00:03:46] Emotional intelligence vs. being “just nice”
[00:05:10] How to respond when others struggle or fail
[00:06:08] Second pillar: invite people into your passions
[00:07:21] Why hosting beats talking — and builds closeness fast
[00:08:53] The “power of the invite” and how reciprocity builds aura
[00:09:43] Third pillar: presence is the new status signal
[00:10:50] The posture and body language that kill your aura
[00:11:42] Final recap: feel good, share passion, stay present
A Word From Our Sponsors
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Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns.
Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off.
Ready to turn your business idea into reality? Sign up for your $1/month trial at shopify.com/charm.
Need to hire top talent—fast? Claim your $75 Sponsored Job Credit now at Indeed.com/charm.
This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm
Save more than fifty percent on term life insurance at SELECTQUOTE.COM/CHARM TODAY to get started
Curious about your influence level?
Get your Influence Index Score today!
Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence.
Check in with AJ and Johnny!
AJ on LinkedIn
Johnny on LinkedIn
AJ on Instagram
Johnny on Instagram
The Art of Charm on Instagram
The Art of Charm on YouTube
The Art of Charm on TikTok
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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