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Today we discuss guilt. 

•  Guilt is pure excess potential.
• In nature, there is no such thing as good or bad. Like the quote says, "There is no such thing as good or bad but thinking makes it so." Shakespeare
• The payment for feelings of guilt will always be punishment in one form or another.
• Truth in the saying "Impudence is second happiness." Cocky boldness.
• Feelings of guilt will always produce a script that includes punishment where you are conscious of what is happening or not.
• The 10 commandments - recommendations for how to remain in balance. They are simply a warning.
• As soon as a person indicates that they are willing to absorb guilt, a manipulator will stick to that person like glue and feed on their energy. This dynamic can be avoided by simply refusing to take on feelings of guilt.
• If you have a tendency to justify yourself, start letting go of it, once manipulative individuals realize they no longer have a way of hooking into your energy they will leave you alone.
• Only you can give others the privilege of being your judge.
• If you are free of the feeling of guilt it will never occur to anyone to assert themselves over you.
• Feeling guilty is a foreign concept to cynics and other types who have no conscience. Their way of progressing in life is to wade through the slaughter and walk over other people. It is not surprising that it is often unscrupulous that come to power.
• Indulging in feelings of guilt can only undermine your position.
• Asking for forgiveness, admitting your mistakes, praying for forgiveness, and confessing are all ways of eliminating the excess potential of guilt.
• Manipulators will remind you of your mistake on more than one occasion trying to reawaken your feelings of guilt. Do not react to the provocation. 
• Everyone has the right to ask for forgiveness once and once only.
• No one has the right to judge you and you have the right to be yourself. If you allow yourself to be you, the need for self-justification will fall away and the fear of being punished will fade. Then something remarkable will happen - no one will dare insult you.
• Rene Garcia the now blacklisted "only person endorsed by Vadim" and her bullying tactics 
• My ex-husband played on my guilt for years, what happened when I let go!

Links mentioned in this episode:

More information here: www.kathieowen.com/reality-transurfing
Blog post: https://www.kathieowen.com/blog/guilt-and-reality-transurfing
Book: Can't Hurt Me by David Goggins https://amzn.to/3GtOqq9
Reality Transurfing and Stop the Mind Screw www.kathieowen.com/reality-transurfing
Aaron Doughty on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/AaronDoughty44

Brain Scott and Reality Revolution on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/c/BrianScott1111

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Questions we discuss with Natalie on the episode:

• What’s one thing your finance business did that you didn’t expect?
• What is a common myth about finance that you help burst?
• What’s the biggest challenge you’re facing today how are you tackling it?
• What is the most important lesson you’ve learned over your career?
• In your opinion, what is the most important personality trait/strength someone would need to work in your industry?
• Who has been your most important professional mentor?
• What’s one lesson your job has taught you that you think everyone should learn at some point in their life?
• Did you always want to be a finance wizard?
•  What’s one thing about your finance expertise that almost no one agrees with you about, Or do you have one thing that polarizes you?
• What’s your favorite productivity hack or short cut for entrepreneurs?
•  I have to ask: What does your morning routine look like?
• I notice you did 75 Hard last year, what did you like about it?
• And Do you have a favorite fitness or movement tip you’d like to share?
• Do you have any fitness advice for others?
• Do you have any hacks for a positive mindset when facing struggles?
• Do you have any books to recommend to my audience?
• What about podcasts you’d recommend to my audience?
• Where can my listeners find you online?
• Anything else you’d like to add????

Find Natalie:

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/natalie.mcphiekime
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nattykime
• Website: https://wealthwave.com/nataliekime

Podcasts she recommends:

• Ed Mylett https://www.edmylett.com/podcasts/

Books:

• Untamed by Glennon Doyle https://amzn.to/33e2zc5
• Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill https://amzn.to/3zHOBvl
• Can't Hurt Me by David Goggins Dirty (cuss words) https://amzn.to/3GtOqq9
• Can't Hurt Me by David Goggins *Clean https://amzn.to/3zKnwrf
• Casa de Confidence Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/casa-deconfidence-podcast/id1510255268
• What is 75 Hard? https://andyfrisella.com/blogs/articles/what-is-75-hardWhat is 75 Hard?
• Blog Post: https://www.kathieowen.com/blog/finances-stms

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Today we discuss pendulums which are just thought structures that everyone else thinks, they are very contagious and only want your energy.

"Dissatisfaction and lack of fulfillment are the pendulum's favorite dish." Vadim Zeland Reality Transurfing I-V

So it's best to identify what these pendulums are and how to stop giving in to their destructiveness. Stop mind screwing yourself out of your power.

We talk about:

• The weather is a pendulum
• How the pendulum doesn't care 
• The pendulum is like a vampire
• They exploit your "habit" of responding negatively
• They steal your health, confidence, and peace of mind
• Solve this by responding positively - or radiate positive energy
• There are always simple solutions to complex problems, you just can't see that due to the pendulum
• The pendulum may stir up feelings of resentment, despair, confusion, and so on.
• Let go and detach
• Re-write the situation with the Pruning Shears of Revision like Neville Goddard teaches
• The secret of a genius lies in remaining free from the influence of pendulums.
• Toxic positivity girl on Instagram and how that toxic positivity is working out for her 2 years later!!
• Abraham Hicks and the 17 second rule
• Acceptance and the stages of grief
• When in doubt - Be Kind and do the loving thing.

Links mentioned in the episode:

Toxic Positivity Girl - my nickname for her!
The Pruning Shears of Revision
Reality Transurfing and Stop the Mind Screw www.kathieowen.com/reality-transurfing
Man's Search for Meaning by Victor Frankyl

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10 Tips to Build Habits That Stick

1. Identify the right habits and commit to them.
2. Have a plan.
3. Set up a trigger and reward.
4. Make it convenient to do your daily habits.
5. Remind yourself why this daily habit is so important.
6. Use a habit tracker.
7. Find an accountability partner.
8. Focus on tiny daily habits.
9. Change your inner beliefs and lifestyle.
10. Focus on the system.
BONUS - Don't give up.

Links mentioned in this episode:

The blog post that goes with this episode.

Atomic Habits by James Clear

Watch the video on YouTube.

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About this episode:

Today we discuss Reality Transurfing on page 23

• You radiate thought energy depending on what you are thinking be it positive or negative
• That thought energy puts you on that lifeline - basically what you think you get
•  What appears to be obstacles arise on the lifelines depending on your thought quality
• Based on what Vadim Zeland says on his Instagram feed his lifeline is based in fear. Or is it even him???
• All truths are half-truth just like mentioned in the Kybalion
• The art gallery and writing your own script. Leave the art gallery if you don't like it
• The Charisma Myth and exuding power, presence, and warmth - What this means to your positive or negative lifeline
• Toxic positivity girl and her thought habits @miriamfried
• The obstacle is the way

All links are listed below.

Blog post that goes with this episode: https://www.kathieowen.com/blog/rt-pos-neg

Stop the Mind Screw and Reality Transurfing Newsletter: https://www.kathieowen.com/reality-transurfing

Vadim's social media. Or is it him? https://www.instagram.com/official_vadim_zeland

The book: The Kybalion

The book: The Charisma Myth: How Anyone Can Master the Art and Science of Personal Magnetism

The book: The Obstacle is the Way

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Today we talk about Attention Drifting Disorder very similar to attention deficit disorder. And in today's world, we all have it. But learn how to control it. We discuss:

• Outwitting the Devil book by Napoleon Hill and drifting
• Controlling your mind
• Mental Diet
• Reality Transurfing and pendulums
• Toxic Positivity
• 5 ways to control drifitng

Links mentioned today:


Video on Information Addiction with Kathie

The book Outwitting the Devil by Napoleon Hill

The book Flow by Mihal Chicsendmehi

The book 7 Day Mental Diet by Emmet Fox

Joseph Rodrigues Podcast Episode #339 Mental Wu Wei Outwitting the Devil, Transending doubt, fear, indecision, and insecurity

The app Notion

Vadim Zeland (is that really him???) Instagram: www.instagram.com/vadim_zeland_official

Toxic Positivity girl: www.instagram.com/miriamfried

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Helping leaders, founders, and professionals recognize the human patterns that shape leadership, culture, communication, and emotional regulation under pressure.

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We discuss the forward of Reality Transurfing I-V which is a book by Russian Quantum Physicst Vadim Zeland.

He tells us:

• That this book is unlike anything else you have read
• It is not your typical self-help book
• He doesn't promise miracles
• He does promise a mindset shift
• He also alludes to something later in the book "Forward to the past"

We talk about:

• Vadim does not promise miracles. Like A Course in Miracles which is a very long detailed book
• How simple he makes reality creation sound - and it is!
• How a sometimes all it takes is looking at things differently

Try a mental diet. Here is a link to your free resource guide: www.kathieowen.com/mentaldiet
Listen to all Transurfing on Tuesdays with Kathie: www.kathieowen.com/transurfing-podcast
Reality Transurfing and Stop the Mind Screw here: www.kathieowen.com/reality-transurfing

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Today we discuss Living the slight edge. We discuss:

• “There is one quality which one must possess to win, and that is definiteness of purpose, the knowledge of what one wants and a burning desire to possess it.” - Napoleon Hill in Think and Grow Rich
•   “Give me 6 hours to cut down a tree and I’ll spend the first 4 sharpening the ax.” Abraham Lincoln
•  Cultivate Slight Edge Habits
•  Happy Habits
•  It becomes automatic. 
•   The slight edge and your health. 
• The slight edge and your happiness.
•  Happiness is like health there are concrete steps you need to take to make it happen.

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The Kathie Owen Perspective

Helping leaders, founders, and professionals recognize the human patterns that shape leadership, culture, communication, and emotional regulation under pressure.

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📖 Articles & Bonus Resources: https://www.kathieowen.com/blog

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Transurfing on Tuesday

• Flow is it better to go against the flow or go with the flow. Neither.
• Use the flow, don't fight it.
• Resistance - resisting what is.
• Fear or faith
• Vadim posts on Instagram - IF that is even him????
• All truths are half-truths - the Kybalion
• Why disturb your peace with things you cannot control? If you can control it take action do not push it on others!
• Episode on resistance.
• Is this really Vadim Zeland on Ingstagram? I am beginning to wonder. www.instagram.com/vadim_zeland_official

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The Kathie Owen Perspective

Helping leaders, founders, and professionals recognize the human patterns that shape leadership, culture, communication, and emotional regulation under pressure.

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i can't help but wonder if the buzzword "body positivity" is a mind screw.

But I also want to encourage my clients to have a healthy body image. So today we discuss body positivity and 10 tips to improve body image esteem.

We talk about:

• What is body positivity?
• The history of body positivity
• Problems that emerge as a result of poor body image
• Criticisms of body positivity
• What you can do
• Body neutrality
• 10 tips to being more body image positive

This episode is brought to you by Fitness with Kathie and the Silver Wellness Academy Learn more here: www.kathieowen.com/fitness

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The Kathie Owen Perspective

Helping leaders, founders, and professionals recognize the human patterns that shape leadership, culture, communication, and emotional regulation under pressure.

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📖 Articles & Bonus Resources: https://www.kathieowen.com/blog

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