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In this episode Lily talks about everything you need to know about narcissists!

Back in 2020 Lily and her partner Jonam Ross co-developed a program with a world leader in behavioral profiling so more people could understand how to identify and disarm these personality types. 

During this episode Lily will be sharing insights from this training so you can understand:

> What a real narcissist is

> How you can heal from narcissistic relationships

> How to spot a narcissist within seconds

> How manipulation is used 

> Why the word “no” never works with a narcissist

Lily Walford is an international relationship and dating coach who has supported so many professionals to heal from toxic relationships and to claim the love life they truly deserve through using behavioral psychology.

Everyone deserves love but not everyone knows how to get it, so tune in if you are ready for undeniable love that lasts. 

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What's A Healthy Relationship & How Do I Create One?

In this episode Lily shares her story of navigating narcissistic relationships, and how understanding her exclusive four C's framework can help you build a healthy relationship that lasts with the right partner. 

At the end of every episode Lily takes her time to answer your personal questions about love, dating and relationship. If you have a question you'd love to have answered, please email [email protected] and we will answer it in our next episode. 

Broadcasted 1st February 2022 

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3 Simple Ways To Ensure You Don't Lose Yourself Whilst Dating Or In A Relationship​

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Watch our training to understand three simple ways to avoid losing yourself whilst dating or whilst you are in a relationship. We shall go into these three elements: ​

​Your identity/happiness & needs​

Your relationship vision ​

Your boundaries​

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Ensuring that you don’t lose yourself is so important, yet it’s a common trap that most women and men fall into which can then cause things like: ​

Self sabotage which can lead to pushing partners way ​

Co-dependency where you are living in each others pockets, this can lead to insecurity and missing out on the elements of your life which were once really important to you. ​

Resentment, where you have given your all into that relationship but feeling unfulfilled, angry and frustrated. ​ ​

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When you are in a healthy, loving relationship these are what you can enjoy: ​

The space to grow as an individual as well as the enjoyment of growing as a couple. We can only grow in healthy relationships with ourselves and our partners. ​

Feeling confident within yourself without seeking validation from others (including your partner). Confidence causes people to instantly become more attractive. ​

You and your partner embody the same dreams and goals for your relationship and the safe space to be yourselves whilst being open, honest and authentic with each other.​

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In this video we discuss how to get over your ex and general advice for someone struggling after a breakup.​

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Find out how to get over your ex and some simple tips that you can do to speed up the process.​

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5 ways to get over your ex & stop thinking about them.​

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How to: get over your ex, a crush, or a breakup!​

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If you can't get over your ex, watch this!

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Desired Woman Training: https://bit.ly/TheDesiredWoman​

Join our facebook group:https://bit.ly/LWI-Group​

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Highlights of training - You will learn how to: ​

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Understand why you attract distant and avoidant partners​

How to recognise a commitment phobe - no matter how good they are at hiding it​

What needs to happen so you can break the pattern

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Highlights of training - You will learn how to:​

Unmask what your subconscious patterns are​

The reasons why you are going for the same type of partners again and again​

What the main areas that influence your relationships​

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What happens to people who haven't realised their patterns?​

- Can end up in the same type of relationships again and again​

- You can end up self sabotaging yourself because you don’t believe you can have a loving relationship​

- Wasting more time with the wrong ones and losing hope of if the right one is out there​

- They can cause a healthy relationship to become an unhealthy one​

They continue the patterns due to unresolved issues from the past​

What happens to people who take time to learn this training ?​

- Break the patterns and able to see who is right for them so they can enjoy a healthy relationship with the right one!​

-Knowing when the self sabotaging patterns pop up, so you can make a choice on whether to act on it​

Feeling confident that you will enjoy a loving relationship in the future because of your new found clarity and awareness​

-Feeling more confident and worthy of a loving relationship​

-Feeling at peace with your past

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Highlights of training - You will learn how to: ​

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- See a major red flag that most people miss when they are online dating that could mean the difference between meeting someone who is dangerous and/or emotionally unavailable​

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- Know how to tap into who this person is from just a few photos so you don’t have to waste time messaging to see if they are compatible with you. ​

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Book a call: https://calendly.com/withintelligence/loveconsultation​

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The Steps​

1) Facial Expressions ​

2) How do they want to be seen?​

3) Are they a narcissist or manipulative​

4) What’s their lifestyle?​

5) Your confirmation bias

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THE IMPORTANCE OF HEALING FROM PAST RELATIONSHIPS BEFORE YOU GO AND DATE AGAIN​

- Find yourself dating the same person again and again​

- Pining over the ex despite knowing that relationship was bad/didn’t work out​

- Releasing the fear of being alone​

- The need for human connection/validation​

- Not giving yourself the chance to fully recover confidence/rejection​

Something to remember: HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS DO NOT DECREASE YOURSELF WORTH/CONFIDENCE​

I was on a call the other day with a lovely lady who had gone through a break up and we’ve all been there where we feel the need to help and support the other person (even if they were the one who broke up with you) and she had mentioned how her relationship had decreased her self worth and confidence and how that was her fault and her issue to work through.​

Let me tell you how unhealthy/borderline abusive relationships work (and also how even cults work). They say small one liners that stick! ​

- Oh you’ll never meet anyone as good as me​

- Only silly people think that way – don’t be so stupid​

- Gawd you are so insecure​

Which then plays on to identity issues.​

Remember out identity and the way we see ourselves will impact on the type of relationship we have. This is why I take my clients through the Desired Woman Approach which is a blend of healing, releasing old subconscious patterns and building up the confidence to build up the life and relationship you do want. ​

This is only one of the three approaches I take my clients through but it’s so important as what happens when we don’t get this right is SELF SABOTAGE​

The types of self sabotage I tend to see is: ​

- Dating for validation​

- Reaching out to the ex for whatever reasons​

- Feeling the need to tell EVERYONE the issues and the ins and outs of what went wrong in their relationship to JUSTIFY and PROCESS what they had actually been through​

- Dating people who are wrong for them​

- Pushing the right ones away as they are too afraid to have someone close to their heart again​

- Sleeping with lots of people – To either FEEL something as they feel numb or as a punishment to themselves (LOW SELF WORTH) ​

WE CAN NOT HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP IF WE ARE CREATING A RELATIONSHIP FROM AN UNHEALTHY PLACE​

When we create a relationship from a healed place – like my clients do after the “Desired Woman Approach” ​

- They are confident within themselves​

- They feel excited about dating and enjoy connecting with people​

- They have standards and hold themselves to those standards​

- They know who is right to date for them and where to meet the right one for them due to the compatibility matrix which is personalised to them. ​

- They are at peace with their past – no matter how awful it was was – shame, guilt, fear​

- They also

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