The ManKind Podcast

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In this podcast episode, Boysen engages in a deep and conversation with Will Adolfy, a BACP qualified psychotherapist, coach, and founder of the 30 Day Men's Program about the 'manosphere.' 

The discussion centers around the 'manosphere,' the red pill community, and influential figures in the online men's world, with a particular focus on personal experiences and psychological insights. Will, who has an extensive background working with young men in educational settings, shares his journey from being drawn into the manosphere and influenced by figures like Jordan Peterson, to his eventual realization of the psychological and emotional impacts of this community. 

He discusses his struggles with mental health, the coping mechanisms he developed, and the breakthrough he experienced through therapy and self-discovery. The conversation also highlights the importance of providing non-judgmental spaces for men, addressing unresolved resentments, and the need for a healthier, more compassionate and powerful approach to masculinity. Will emphasizes the significance of internal healing, empathetic dialogue, and the dangers of projecting unresolved issues onto external entities. The episode closes with advice for young men on finding self-worth and empowerment from within.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Background

00:29 Exploring the Manosphere

02:45 Personal Journey into the Manosphere

06:24 Mental Health Struggles

08:57 Discovering Jordan Peterson

16:03 Impact on Relationships and Beliefs

25:55 The Patriarchal Script

31:23 Initiation into Maturity

34:58 Turning Inward for Healing

36:05 Realizing Unhappiness and Seeking Change

37:19 Moments of Synchronicity and Spiritual Awakening

38:55 Joining Recovery Groups and Facing Resentments

39:21 Understanding Projection and Starting Recovery

40:49 Physiological Changes and Emotional Release

42:16 Stabilizing and Moving Towards Thriving

44:11 The Importance of Support and Step Four

46:01 Empathy and Compassion in Healing

47:31 Navigating Polarization and Blind Spots

52:46 The Need for Healthy Masculinity

01:08:30 Final Thoughts and Message to Young Men

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In this episode of the Mankind Podcast, host Brandon Clift engages in a deep conversation with Stef, a trained behavioral scientist and relationship expert. They explore the complexities of modern manhood, the impact of upbringing on personal development, and the transformative journey of parenthood. Stef shares his experiences of growing up in a volatile environment and how it shaped his understanding of relationships and masculinity.

The discussion delves into the importance of vulnerability, emotional resilience, and effective communication in navigating life's challenges, particularly in the context of parenting and personal growth. In this conversation, Stef and Brandon explore the importance of taking ownership in personal growth and relationships, the impact of unresolved issues on our connections, and the role of ego in transformation. They discuss the dynamics of polarity in relationships, emphasizing the need for both masculine and feminine energies, and conclude with a call to action for men to seek healthy expressions of masculinity and accountability.


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Frank Shamrock is a multiple-time world champion mixed martial artist with a 16-year career that saw him claim titles in the UFC, Strikeforce, Pancrase, and the WEC, all this after overcoming a tumultuous childhood of abuse and incarceration.

Frank graciously handed over the baton to the next generation of fighters and transitioned into promoting Strikeforce, which the UFC bought for 34m. This freed Frank to transition into his proudest role as a super-dad to his daughter Nicolette and the running of his organization, The Shamrock Way.

He returns to the ManKind Podcast with Brandon Clift to discuss the critical role that "Girl-Dads" play in the development and lives of their daughters and how we can apply the Plus, Minus, and Equal System to achieve excellence in all areas of life.

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In this compelling episode, Boysen is joined by Sean Harvey, a TEDx speaker, interfaith minister, and founder of Warrior Compassion Men’s Studio. Sean shares his profound insights on dismantling hate, bridging polarized divides, and transforming hyper-masculine systems. Drawing from his 25 years of leadership and organizational development experience, Sean explains how healing men's souls can be the catalyst for societal and organizational change.

Sean delves into the impact of hyper-masculine cultures within law enforcement, military, and corporate spaces, and what it truly means to integrate masculine and feminine qualities for healthier systems. This conversation takes an intimate look at how men can confront their own suffering, embrace compassion, and reshape the ways they connect with themselves and others.

Whether you're curious about countering extremism, or you're looking for a roadmap to personal transformation and societal healing, this episode offers a new perspective on the path forward. Join us for an eye-opening dialogue on the importance of men’s healing, compassion, and connection.

Topics Covered:

• Hyper-masculine systems and their societal impacts
• The intersection of compassion and masculinity
• Healing men's trauma as a route to counter extremism
• Bridging divides in polarized communities
• How integrating masculine and feminine traits can create healthier organizations

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In this two interview episode, Boysen first speaks with Darryl Hansome, the past Chair of the ManKind Project USA about his work on the ground in underserved populations in and around Asheville in the face of disaster. Darryl's heart, courage, and commitment come through in his real stories about helping those most in need. 

Boysen then welcomes Dr. Zachari Cahn, a functional medicine doctor based in Asheville, North Carolina, and a member of the Mankind Project community. Dr. Cahn shares his firsthand experience of the devastating hurricane that struck Western North Carolina, describing the chaos and challenges that followed the natural disaster. He recounts how he and others in the community came together, using chainsaws to clear blocked roads, checking on neighbors, and offering aid to those in need.

The episode highlights the collective response to the disaster, and how uncanny synchronicities begin to show up when we connect, emphasizing how communities rally to help each other despite overwhelming conditions.

Dr. Cahn also speaks about organizing relief efforts for underserved communities, including African American, Latino, and Native American populations, many of whom were left without aid. His fundraiser has raised close to $10,000.

Boysen brings some context into the conversation widening the scope to how we can understand helping others in a context of broad disconnection in western culture, sharing a passage from Dr. Gabor Mate's recent book, "The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture."

This episode is a powerful testament to human resilience, the strength of community, and the importance of supporting one another in times of crisis.

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In this episode of the Mankind podcast, host Brandon Clift engages in a heartfelt conversation with author Paul Spinella about his journey through heartbreak, resilience, and personal growth. They discuss the importance of vulnerability, the challenges of navigating grief, and the lessons learned in establishing healthy relationships. Paul shares insights from his book, 'The Woman in Apartment 2,' emphasizing the significance of self-love, boundaries, and the healing process. The conversation culminates in a message of hope for those experiencing emotional turmoil, encouraging listeners to embrace their feelings and seek support.

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- LinkedIn: Paul Spinella
- The Book: The Woman In Apartment 2 - A Story Of Love, Loss and Learning To Let Go

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Naji Iman, an initiated Earth Keeper, meditation teacher, spiritual coach, and LIT in The Mankind Project, shares his transformative experience after a harrowing accident and the changes it brought to his life. He emphasizes the importance of faith, inner peace, and love.

He no longer chases worldly success and instead focuses on being present and grateful. His relationship with his son and partner has improved as he prioritizes connection and communication. He encourages others to embrace the present moment and trust that everything will work out. The conversation concludes with a discussion about the New Warrior Training Adventure offered by The Mankind Project.

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In this episode of the Mankind Podcast, host Boysen Hodgson sits down with Ken Mossman, a seasoned coach and thought leader, to delve deep into the complexities of manhood and masculinity. Ken works with men who are visionaries, map makers, iconoclasts, and creative cliff jumpers, helping them create legacies of conscious responsibility and positive change. Together, Boysen and Ken explore the journey of becoming a conscious, integrated adult male and how to break free from the limiting patterns of adolescent behavior.

Ken shares his personal experiences and insights on what it means to be a man, how to navigate the challenges of adult life, and why embracing all aspects of ourselves – from the inner child to the shadow – is crucial for living a fulfilled, authentic life. This episode invites listeners to re-examine traditional notions of masculinity and discover a more holistic, empowered way of being.

• Ken's journey from fitness training to becoming an international coach for men
• The importance of emotional literacy, fluency, and flexibility in personal development
• How men's work is evolving beyond competition to foster connection and support
• Distinguishing between adolescent and adult functions in the process of maturing
• The concept of "power with" versus "power over" in building healthy relationships
• Exploring the impact of shame, regret, and remorse on personal growth
• Understanding the role of ancestors and legacy in the journey of manhood
• Practical insights into becoming a conscious, integrated adult male

Find Ken Mossman

• Learn more about Ken Mossman and his work: kenmossman.com
• Discover Ken's intensive program, "I Am: The Integrated Adult Male" 

Tune in for an inspiring conversation that challenges the stereotypes and invites men to embrace a more expansive, connected way of being.

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In this powerful episode, we are joined by Dr. Ken Canfield, a nationally known leader and scholar in the field of fatherhood and family well-being. With decades of experience, Dr. Canfield shares his wisdom on what it means to be an effective father and how fathers can positively shape future generations. He dives deep into the challenges many dads face, especially those who didn’t have strong father figures themselves, and provides practical steps to break the cycle and become a nurturing, consistent presence in their children’s lives.

Dr. Canfield also introduces his "I-CANs of fathering" framework—four pillars every father should embrace: involvement, consistency, awareness, and nurturance. Whether you’re raising young children or guiding adult children, Dr. Canfield offers timeless advice that will help you improve your relationship with your kids and leave a legacy of love, strength, and hope.

This episode is packed with actionable insights and heartfelt encouragement for fathers and father figures alike. If you’re looking for ways to be more present and impactful in your children’s lives, this conversation is for you.

**Key Highlights:**
- Dr. Canfield's insights on fatherhood as a lifelong role
- The four key pillars of effective fathering
- How to overcome the barriers of absent or difficult father figures
- The importance of nurturing and being aware of your children's emotional needs
- How fatherhood contributes to a legacy that spans generations

**Links to Learn More:**
- Learn more about Dr. Ken Canfield’s work: Fathers.com
- Explore resources on fathering and grandparenting: Grands Matter
- Follow Dr. Canfield’s ongoing work with fathers: Today's Father

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In this episode of the Mankind Podcast, hosts Boysen Hodgson and Brandon Clift are joined by Jayson Gaddis, founder of The Relationship School, to dive deep into the dynamics of relationships, emotional growth, and masculinity. Jayson shares his personal journey, starting with the pain and failure he experienced in relationships, and how that led him to do his inner work. He opens up about overcoming childhood conditioning, where he learned to suppress his emotions, leading to difficulties in intimacy and connection.

Key themes include the challenges men face in relationships, the role of emotional intelligence, and how both men and women can break unhealthy patterns. Jayson introduces his concept of "Lufu" (Listen Until They Feel Understood), a transformative approach to communication, particularly valuable for men struggling to connect with their partners.

The conversation also touches on how childhood experiences shape adult relationships, the importance of group work in healing, and the radical changes that can come from self-awareness. Jayson highlights the balance between fierce confrontation and tender care in coaching men to develop deeper, more meaningful relationships. He also shares his vision of reaching 17 million American families to teach them how to repair and grow from relational conflicts.

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