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Why Every Couple Needs to Hear This Episode

II’m beyond excited to share this episode with you because it could genuinely change your relationship. I sat down with Rebecca Lockwood and Tom Bouwer, the brilliant minds behind The Cohesive Couple, a USA Today bestseller that’s flipping the script on how we think about relationships. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the chaos of day-to-day life with your partner—raising kids, juggling work, paying bills—this conversation is for you.

This isn’t your typical “communication is key” couples advice. Rebecca and Tom have developed a groundbreaking framework that applies proven business strategies to help couples escape the firefighting stage of their relationships and instead align on a bigger, bolder future together.

Here’s why you need to press play:

• Discover a Game-Changer for Your Relationship: Rebecca and Tom share how their transformative system helped their own relationships go from barely surviving to thriving. It’s all about creating clarity, connection, and a shared vision—and they explain exactly how you can do it too.
• Practical Tools You Can Use Right Now: Learn about their “weekly sync” ritual, which takes just 45 minutes a week and can save you hours of miscommunication and resentment. Plus, get a sneak peek at their vision planning tools that can turn your 10-year goals into 3-year achievements.
• Relatable Stories with Real Impact: Whether you’re in a new marriage, juggling young kids, or navigating life as empty nesters, their stories will resonate. I even share how this system helped my wife Christine and me move from feeling like we were in two separate boats to paddling in perfect sync.

If you’re serious about building a relationship that lasts, hit play now. This conversation will inspire you, challenge you, and leave you with actionable steps to take your partnership to the next level.

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In this episode of the Mankind Podcast, hosts Brandon Clift and Boysen Hodgson delve into the art and science of happiness. They explore the deeper meanings of happiness beyond fleeting emotions, emphasizing the importance of faith, family, friends, and meaningful work. The conversation highlights the significance of nurturing relationships and the pursuit of purpose in achieving lasting happiness. They also discuss practical maxims for cultivating happiness in daily life, underscoring that true fulfillment comes from habits and the love we give to others.

Takeaways

• Happiness is not just a feeling; it's deeper and more complex.
• True happiness is found in faith, family, friends, and meaningful work.
• Investing in relationships is crucial for lasting happiness.
• Happiness is a continuous process that requires effort and commitment.
• Gratitude plays a significant role in cultivating happiness.
• The journey towards happiness is often more rewarding than the destination.
• Meaningful work contributes to a sense of purpose and satisfaction.
• Real friends are those who enrich our lives without needing anything in return.
• Happiness is about giving love rather than seeking it.
• Mother nature does not prioritize human happiness; it's our responsibility to cultivate it.

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Today, we’re diving into a conversation that challenges cultural taboos and explores groundbreaking approaches to men’s personal development. I’m joined by my longtime friend and collaborator, Kyle Hoffman. Kyle’s story is a testament to transformation—from joining his first men’s group at 22 to becoming a leader in life and intimacy coaching. Together, we’ll unpack themes of connection, vulnerability, and the evolving nature of men’s work. What does it mean to embrace touch, consent, and authenticity as tools for growth? Stick around—you won’t want to miss this conversation.

In this thought-provoking episode, Boysen Hodgson interviews Kyle Hoffman, a life and intimacy coach whose innovative work focuses on touch, consent, and emotional connection. They reflect on Kyle’s early involvement in men’s groups through the ManKind Project, discuss the cultural stigmas surrounding platonic touch, and explore how these issues tie into the epidemic of loneliness and disconnection in modern society. Kyle shares insights from his journey and practical tools to foster deeper, healthier relationships.

Episode Highlights:

• Kyle’s transformative experience joining his first men’s group at 22 and its lifelong impact.
• The importance of platonic touch and overcoming cultural taboos around men’s connection.
• Navigating consent as a practice of humility and emotional intelligence.
• How self-love and body positivity intersect with deeper intimacy and authenticity.

Find Kyle Hoffman:
https://www.cuddlingandcoaching.com/

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In this conversation, Brandon Clift and Boysen Hodgson explore the art of saying no and the importance of setting boundaries to protect one's energy. They share personal experiences and insights on how saying yes to everything can lead to overwhelm and a lack of focus. The discussion emphasizes the need for self-awareness, clear communication, and understanding one's values and goals to make better decisions about what to accept or decline. The conversation also touches on the significance of maintaining boundaries in relationships and the empowerment that comes from respecting one's own limits.

Takeaways

• Saying no is essential for protecting your energy.
• Understanding your values helps clarify your yeses and noes.
• Personal experiences shape our ability to say no.
• Setting boundaries is crucial for healthy relationships.
• Communicating boundaries clearly is a responsibility.
• Saying yes to everything can lead to overwhelm.
• It's important to prioritize what truly matters.
• Boundaries help establish a sense of self-respect.
• Learning to say no can be a transformative experience.
• Self-awareness is key to making better choices.

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In this episode of the Mankind Podcast, hosts Brandon Clift and Boysen Hodgson explore the complexities of masculinity and the importance of setting intentions for the new year. They discuss personal resolutions, the significance of accountability, and how discipline can lead to freedom. The conversation emphasizes the need for authenticity and personal growth, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own intentions and the deeper motivations behind them.

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In this episode of the Mankind Podcast, hosts Brandon Clift and Boysen Hodgson engage in a profound conversation with Douglas Gillette about his latest book, 'Soul Making: The Realization of the Mystical Life.'

They explore themes of mysticism, personhood, love, and the intersection of material and spiritual realms. Douglas shares insights on the nature of psyche, the essence of love, and the importance of recognizing the layers of reality that surround us.

The discussion emphasizes the significance of meaningful experiences and the presence of the divine in everyday life, inviting listeners to explore a deeper understanding of their own existence. In this conversation, Douglas Gillette and his co-hosts explore profound themes of recognition, joy, consciousness, and the purpose of existence.

They discuss the importance of experiencing moments of connection and the interplay between light and darkness in our lives. The dialogue delves into the nature of good and evil, the depths of consciousness, and the significance of love and connection in our journey through life.

Ultimately, they emphasize the need to be present to the divine experiences that occur in everyday life, encouraging listeners to embrace the fullness of their existence.

Doug's Writing

• Soul Making: The Realization of the Mystical Life
• King, Warrior, Magician Lover

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In this episode of the Mankind podcast, host Brandon Clift speaks with Sathya Sam, an international speaker and author, about his journey overcoming pornography addiction and his mission to help others reclaim their integrity and freedom. 

Sathya shares insights into the roots of addiction, the impact of early exposure to pornography, the role of shame in recovery, and the science behind how pornography affects the brain. 

The conversation emphasizes the importance of community and support in the recovery process, as well as the need to address underlying issues that contribute to addiction. In this conversation, Brandon Clift and Sathiya discuss the complexities of pornography addiction, emphasizing the brain's ability to change and the importance of taking action in recovery. 

They explore the concept of sexual transmutation and the debate surrounding healthy pornography and provide actionable steps for individuals seeking to overcome addiction. The discussion highlights the significance of community support and healthy relationships in the recovery process, ultimately advocating for a life free from pornography.

• Website www.deepcleancoaching.com
• The Last Relapse (Book) www.thelastrelapsebook.com
• Man Within Podcast www.manwithin.com
• Instagram www.instagram.com/sathiyamesam

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Title: Redefining Masculinity: Mark Grayson on Vulnerability and 'Getting Naked'

In this episode of the Mankind Podcast, Boysen chats with Mark Grayson about his book "Getting Naked: A Field Guide for Men," exploring the evolving landscape of masculinity and vulnerability.

Mark Grayson, once a corporate leader, found his true calling in redefining manhood. Through his ventures, he has always sought meaningful impact, but his journey into understanding masculinity led him to author a transformative book. A pivotal moment came at a workshop where Mark decided to pose nude, challenging traditional views and embracing vulnerability—an experience that led to personal liberation.

Mark's exploration is enriched by insights from influencers like Mark Green and Niobe Way, who have shaped his understanding of "man box culture." These relationships highlight the importance of embracing diversity in redefining masculinity.

The Seven-Part Journey

Mark's book presents a seven-step journey for men to embrace all facets of their identity, from vulnerability to emotional expression and redefining success. This framework guides men toward a balanced and authentic self.

The conversation also explores developing empathy and understanding in relationships, crucial for deepening connections and inspiring cultural change in gender dynamics.

Mark is involved in projects that foster spiritual growth and civic engagement, reflecting his holistic approach. His work invites others on a courageous journey toward authentic self-discovery.

In "Getting Naked," Mark Grayson challenges societal norms and offers a framework for understanding masculinity, encouraging personal and cultural transformation.

Connect with Mark: The Naked Man Collective

Get the Book: Getting Naked: A Field Guide for Men

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In this conversation, Brandon Clift and Connor Beaton explore the evolving landscape of modern manhood, focusing on the shifting perceptions of men's mental health, social media's impact, and masculinity's complexities in today's society. They discuss the importance of addressing both men's and women's issues without diminishing either side, emphasizing the need for nuanced conversations that consider biological and social constructs of gender. 

They also touch on developmental differences between boys and girls, emphasizing the need to rethink the way therapists approach helping men. They discuss the importance of accountability in therapy, the challenges of navigating the fear of the unknown, and the necessity of disrupting homeostasis for personal growth. The dialogue highlights the significance of embracing the unknown for resilience and living with purpose and presence.

Follow Connor's Work
- Modern Wisdom Interview
- Connor's How To Work With Men Program
- https://mantalks.com/
- Connor's YouTube Channel
- Connor's Instagram

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In this episode of the Mankind Podcast, Boysen Hodgson chats with Reverend Dale Benson about manhood, spirituality, and relationships. They reminisce about their first meeting during a gender equity workshop and delve into the journey that led Dale to become an ordained minister, martial artist, and spiritual life coach. Dale shares insights from his upbringing in North Carolina, his transformative time in the Navy, and his profound experiences as a hospital chaplain.

Influenced by the women in his life and his grandfather's teachings on black liberation theology, to his varied career as a Navy veteran, seminary graduate, police officer, and hospital chaplain. The conversation explores themes of masculinity, relationships, freedom, and personal responsibility.

Dale emphasizes the importance of being honest with oneself, respecting individual sovereignty, and embracing change. He also discusses his practices in Buddhism and martial arts, which help him maintain balance and self-awareness. Dale shares his vision of opening a retreat center called Peaceful Warrior Refuge in Lesotho, aimed at helping men develop and sustain their spiritual paths.

Find Reverend Dale Benson: Facebook, Instagram; @mystic_dale

My Grandmother's Hands - Resmaa Menakem
The Will to Change - bell hooks
The Parable of the Sower - Octavia Butler
Liberation Theology - the writings of James H. Cones

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