Being a manager comes with more responsibility, and more decisions. How you make those decisions is up to you. So much about leadership and being a manager is in your hands.

What kind of leader do you want to be?

What's important to you, as you manage people and make decisions that affect others?

In this episode you'll hear a bit about my perspective on leadership, as well as the distinction between being arbitrary and realizing how much is within your discretion. Let's discuss!

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We're coming up on the end of the year -- the next 2 months will go by faster than you expect! In this episode you'll get my Q4 Checklist, with three simple questions every new manager should ask at this point in the year. It will help you feel grounded, calm, and confident as you approach year-end.

Plus, you'll hear why this is the perfect time in the year to ask *your* manager about professional development.

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Work-life is often focused on actions and what you do. But it's important to remember the value in being, as well. So if you find yourself overwhelmed by your To Do list, or feel like you're Not Doing Enough, or you're wondering, "What should I do?" -- this episode will help. Actions and doing is not the most important thing. Let's discuss!

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Free webinar by Center of Care Innovations: Breaking the Cycles of Trauma through Recognition and Healing

Center for Care Innovations: https://www.careinnovations.org/

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Great managers are good at being resourceful and resilient, making things work even under challenging circumstances. If you've had to make due throughout your life, then it's easy to take that approach as a default. But just because you *can* make it work, doesn't mean you have to. Sometimes you need to take a step back and look at a situation with fresh eyes -- and then decide what you want to do. Let's discuss!

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If you're feeling a lot of pressure to do a great job as a new manager, this episode is for you.

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Being conflict averse makes it hard to speak up and share your ideas. Maybe disagreements feel uncomfortable, like something bad is going to happen. Or you worry about being wrong so you stay quiet until you feel your idea is unassailable. When you're a manager, there are times you must be direct. And, I want you to have a few options so that you can participate more readily without feeling confrontational.

In this episode you'll get some specific language to use, that will help you feel more comfortable speaking up. And if you manage a team where some folks tend to be more vocal while others are more reserved, this will help you to facilitate group conversations so that all voices can be heard. Let's discuss!

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To know if you're doing a good job as a manager, you need to ask yourself: What does success look like?

In this episode you'll learn 4 markers to look for: internal, external, intangible, and tangible.

When you take time to define success, and know how to identify it, then success won't be a mystery and failure won't be a surprise. You'll feel more grounded and calm because you'll know how you're doing. And you'll feel more confident in how you communicate what's going on to your manager, and others.

Let's discuss!

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Being a manager is a different job than whatever you did before. Expect there to be a learning curve. You'll have to learn what the job is, and how to do it, all at the same time. In this episode you learn one pitfall to watch out for, and three things that will help you learn to be a great manager. Let's discuss!

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This week's episode features a special guest: Kirby Nicol, my Dad. We talk about leadership and what he's learned through a long and varied career, including being a coach at the Olympics, and serving as Executive Director for The Wharf to Wharf Race.

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Part of your job as a manager is to give feedback. And yet, if your work has never given you guidance or training on how to do it well, you're not alone! In this episode you'll learn why it's important to have an intentional approach and strategy, and how communication skills and confidence come into play. Let's discuss!

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Enroll in Communication Skills for Managers:

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