The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose

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  • Srini Pillay
    Srini Pillay M.D. Founder and CEO of NeuroBusiness Group
    Srini Pillay, M.D. is Assistant Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School and Invited Faculty at Harvard Business School. He is also the Founder and CEO of NeuroBusiness Group. He graduated with the highest number of awards during his residency training at Harvard. He is also a Certified Master Coach. His specific expertise is on helping companies reach their goals by coaching strategy acceleration, change management, innovation, sales optimization, stress management and many other corporate goals. He has 17 years of experience in brain imaging and has an international reputation as a human behavior expert with special emphasis on stress and anxiety. His latest book is: Life Unlocked: 7 Revolutionary Lessons to Overcome Fear.
     
     In This Interview Srini and I Discuss...

    The One You Feed parable.
    The power of possibility.
    The difference between conscious fear and unconscious fear.
    What brain science tells us about unconscious fear.
    How unconscious fear is a major factor in our lives.
    The CIRCA method to manage unconscious fear.
    Chunking your issues into smaller, more manageable pieces.
    Ignoring the mind's chatter.
    Giving your self a reality check.
    Remembering that "this too shall pass"
    Keeping our thoughts on what we can control.
    Focusing our attention on positive things for some amount of time.
    "Yoga Rage"
    Turning on the default node network.
    Dealing with "bottom up anxiety".
    How to handle emotional flooding.
    Being willing to make mistakes and be wrong.
    How simple action can be the highest form of intelligence.
    Taking small risks by tinkering.
    Using preemptive perception to make better decisions.
    Embracing the complexity of who we are.
    How we are wired to manage disappointment versus achieving fulfillment.
    Probability vs possibility thinking.
    Mimicking the exceptions rather than the rules.

    Srini Pillay Links
    NeuroBusiness Group
    Srini Pillay on Twitter
    Srini articles in the Harvard Business Review
    Life Unlocked: 7 Revolutionary Lessons to Overcome Fear
    Your Brain and Business: The Neuroscience of Great Leaders

    Some of our most popular interviews that you might also enjoy:
    Kino MacGregor
    Strand of Oaks
    Mike Scott of the Waterboys
    Todd Henry- author of Die Empty
    Randy Scott Hyde

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    53 min
  • 37: Srini Pillay
    Srini Pillay M.D. Founder and CEO of NeuroBusiness Group
    Srini Pillay, M.D. is Assistant Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School and Invited Faculty at Harvard Business School. He is also the Founder and CEO of NeuroBusiness Group. He graduated with the highest number of awards during his residency training at Harvard. He is also a Certified Master Coach. His specific expertise is on helping companies reach their goals by coaching strategy acceleration, change management, innovation, sales optimization, stress management and many other corporate goals. He has 17 years of experience in brain imaging and has an international reputation as a human behavior expert with special emphasis on stress and anxiety. His latest book is: Life Unlocked: 7 Revolutionary Lessons to Overcome Fear.
     
     In This Interview Srini and I Discuss...
    The One You Feed parable.
    The power of possibility.
    The difference between conscious fear and unconscious fear.
    What brain science tells us about unconscious fear.
    How unconscious fear is a major factor in our lives.
    The CIRCA method to manage unconscious fear.
    Chunking your issues into smaller, more manageable pieces.
    Ignoring the mind's chatter.
    Giving your self a reality check.
    Remembering that "this too shall pass"
    Keeping our thoughts on what we can control.
    Focusing our attention on positive things for some amount of time.
    "Yoga Rage"
    Turning on the default node network.
    Dealing with "bottom up anxiety".
    How to handle emotional flooding.
    Being willing to make mistakes and be wrong.
    How simple action can be the highest form of intelligence.
    Taking small risks by tinkering.
    Using preemptive perception to make better decisions.
    Embracing the complexity of who we are.
    How we are wired to manage disappointment versus achieving fulfillment.
    Probability vs possibility thinking.
    Mimicking the exceptions rather than the rules.
    Srini Pillay Links
    NeuroBusiness Group
    Srini Pillay on Twitter
    Srini articles in the Harvard Business Review
    Life Unlocked: 7 Revolutionary Lessons to Overcome Fear
    Your Brain and Business: The Neuroscience of Great Leaders
    Some of our most popular interviews that you might also enjoy:
    Kino MacGregor
    Strand of Oaks
    Mike Scott of the Waterboys
    Todd Henry- author of Die Empty
    Randy Scott Hyde
    46 min
  • 037: Srini Pillay

     


      

    Srini Pillay M.D. Founder and CEO of NeuroBusiness Group

    Srini Pillay, M.D. is Assistant Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School and Invited Faculty at Harvard Business School. He is also the Founder and CEO of NeuroBusiness Group. He graduated with the highest number of awards during his residency training at Harvard. He is also a Certified Master Coach. His specific expertise is on helping companies reach their goals by coaching strategy acceleration, change management, innovation, sales optimization, stress management and many other corporate goals. He has 17 years of experience in brain imaging and has an international reputation as a human behavior expert with special emphasis on stress and anxiety. His latest book is: Life Unlocked: 7 Revolutionary Lessons to Overcome Fear.

     

     In This Interview Srini and I Discuss...
    • The One You Feed parable.
    • The power of possibility.
    • The difference between conscious fear and unconscious fear.
    • What brain science tells us about unconscious fear.
    • How unconscious fear is a major factor in our lives.
    • The CIRCA method to manage unconscious fear.
    • Chunking your issues into smaller, more manageable pieces.
    • Ignoring the mind's chatter.
    • Giving your self a reality check.
    • Remembering that "this too shall pass"
    • Keeping our thoughts on what we can control.
    • Focusing our attention on positive things for some amount of time.
    • "Yoga Rage"
    • Turning on the default node network.
    • Dealing with "bottom up anxiety".
    • How to handle emotional flooding.
    • Being willing to make mistakes and be wrong.
    • How simple action can be the highest form of intelligence.
    • Taking small risks by tinkering.
    • Using preemptive perception to make better decisions.
    • Embracing the complexity of who we are.
    • How we are wired to manage disappointment versus achieving fulfillment.
    • Probability vs possibility thinking.
    • Mimicking the exceptions rather than the rules.
    • Srini Pillay Links

      NeuroBusiness Group

      Srini Pillay on Twitter

      Srini articles in the Harvard Business Review

      Life Unlocked: 7 Revolutionary Lessons to Overcome Fear

      Your Brain and Business: The Neuroscience of Great Leaders

      Some of our most popular interviews that you might also enjoy:

      Kino MacGregor

      Strand of Oaks

      Mike Scott of the Waterboys

      Todd Henry- author of Die Empty

      Randy Scott Hyde

      46 min
    • Paul Gilmartin of The Mental Illness Happy Hour
      Paul Gilmartin, host of the Mental Illness Happy Hour.
      Paul is a funny guy who hosts one of the most best podcasts on the market today. We have a great chat with Paul and we play a game at the end; borrowed from his show where he, Chris and I take turns exchanging things we are afraid of and things we love. It is certainly the most we have ever gotten from Chris on the air.
      The Mental Illness Happy Hour is an interview show known for it's candor, depth and intensity. In addition to the interviews Paul reads surveys about their lives filled out by his listeners that are in turn enlightening, horrifying and heartrending. However, the show is ultimately very hopeful. The combination of Paul's' humor, and the hope that is generated when people know they are not alone, gives the show an optimism that transcends the difficult subject matter.
      From 1995 to 2011 Paul Gilmartin co-hosted TBS’ Dinner and a Movie, and has been a stand-up comedian since 1987. His credits include Comedy Central Presents: Paul Gilmartin, numerous Bob and Tom albums, comedy festivals and the Late Show with Craig Ferguson. He is also a frequent guest on the Adam Carolla podcast, performing political satire as right-wing Congressman Richard Martin.
       
       In This Interview Paul and I Discuss...

      The One You Feed parable.
      Forgiving ourselves for past misdeeds.
      The healing power of humor when used correctly.
      Not using humor to avoid feelings or intimacy.
      How we all have the lightest light and the darkest dark within.
      The cinematography of The Godfather.
      His battles with depression both present and past.
      Not being an expert.
      That there are no easy answers.
      That there are no fast fixes.
      When does positive thinking become denial.
      Accepting ourselves as we are, and working to change ourselves at the same time.
      Letting the mistakes of the past inform our decisions for the future.
      Apologizing without expecting something in return.
      How we think the way we feel now is the way we will feel forever.
      How evolution has made us fear based.
      Avoiding useless rumination.
      An unshakeable peace....sometimes.
      Treating depression like the emotional flu.
      We take Paul's show staple of Love Off and Fear Off and all three of us do it.

      Paul Gilmartin Links
      Mental Illness Happy Hour homepage
      Paul Gilmartin homepage
      Paul Gilmartin on Twitter
       
       

      Some of our most popular interviews you might also enjoy:
      Kino MacGregor
      Strand of Oaks
      Mike Scott of the Waterboys
      Todd Henry- author of Die Empty
      Randy Scott Hyde

      See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

      See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

      Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

      59 min
    • 36: Paul Gilmartin of The Mental Illness Happy Hour
      Paul Gilmartin, host of the Mental Illness Happy Hour.
      Paul is a funny guy who hosts one of the most best podcasts on the market today. We have a great chat with Paul and we play a game at the end; borrowed from his show where he, Chris and I take turns exchanging things we are afraid of and things we love. It is certainly the most we have ever gotten from Chris on the air.
      The Mental Illness Happy Hour is an interview show known for it's candor, depth and intensity. In addition to the interviews Paul reads surveys about their lives filled out by his listeners that are in turn enlightening, horrifying and heartrending. However, the show is ultimately very hopeful. The combination of Paul's' humor, and the hope that is generated when people know they are not alone, gives the show an optimism that transcends the difficult subject matter.
      From 1995 to 2011 Paul Gilmartin co-hosted TBS’ Dinner and a Movie, and has been a stand-up comedian since 1987. His credits include Comedy Central Presents: Paul Gilmartin, numerous Bob and Tom albums, comedy festivals and the Late Show with Craig Ferguson. He is also a frequent guest on the Adam Carolla podcast, performing political satire as right-wing Congressman Richard Martin.
       
       In This Interview Paul and I Discuss...
      The One You Feed parable.
      Forgiving ourselves for past misdeeds.
      The healing power of humor when used correctly.
      Not using humor to avoid feelings or intimacy.
      How we all have the lightest light and the darkest dark within.
      The cinematography of The Godfather.
      His battles with depression both present and past.
      Not being an expert.
      That there are no easy answers.
      That there are no fast fixes.
      When does positive thinking become denial.
      Accepting ourselves as we are, and working to change ourselves at the same time.
      Letting the mistakes of the past inform our decisions for the future.
      Apologizing without expecting something in return.
      How we think the way we feel now is the way we will feel forever.
      How evolution has made us fear based.
      Avoiding useless rumination.
      An unshakeable peace....sometimes.
      Treating depression like the emotional flu.
      We take Paul's show staple of Love Off and Fear Off and all three of us do it.
      Paul Gilmartin Links
      Mental Illness Happy Hour homepage
      Paul Gilmartin homepage
      Paul Gilmartin on Twitter
       
       
      Some of our most popular interviews you might also enjoy:
      Kino MacGregor
      Strand of Oaks
      Mike Scott of the Waterboys
      Todd Henry- author of Die Empty
      Randy Scott Hyde
      53 min
    • 036: Paul Gilmartin of The Mental Illness Happy Hour


        

      Paul Gilmartin, host of the Mental Illness Happy Hour.

      Paul is a funny guy who hosts one of the most best podcasts on the market today. We have a great chat with Paul and we play a game at the end; borrowed from his show where he, Chris and I take turns exchanging things we are afraid of and things we love. It is certainly the most we have ever gotten from Chris on the air.

      The Mental Illness Happy Hour is an interview show known for it's candor, depth and intensity. In addition to the interviews Paul reads surveys about their lives filled out by his listeners that are in turn enlightening, horrifying and heartrending. However, the show is ultimately very hopeful. The combination of Paul's' humor, and the hope that is generated when people know they are not alone, gives the show an optimism that transcends the difficult subject matter.

      From 1995 to 2011 Paul Gilmartin co-hosted TBS’ Dinner and a Movie, and has been a stand-up comedian since 1987. His credits include Comedy Central Presents: Paul Gilmartin, numerous Bob and Tom albums, comedy festivals and the Late Show with Craig Ferguson. He is also a frequent guest on the Adam Carolla podcast, performing political satire as right-wing Congressman Richard Martin.

       

       In This Interview Paul and I Discuss...
      • The One You Feed parable.
      • Forgiving ourselves for past misdeeds.
      • The healing power of humor when used correctly.
      • Not using humor to avoid feelings or intimacy.
      • How we all have the lightest light and the darkest dark within.
      • The cinematography of The Godfather.
      • His battles with depression both present and past.
      • Not being an expert.
      • That there are no easy answers.
      • That there are no fast fixes.
      • When does positive thinking become denial.
      • Accepting ourselves as we are, and working to change ourselves at the same time.
      • Letting the mistakes of the past inform our decisions for the future.
      • Apologizing without expecting something in return.
      • How we think the way we feel now is the way we will feel forever.
      • How evolution has made us fear based.
      • Avoiding useless rumination.
      • An unshakeable peace....sometimes.
      • Treating depression like the emotional flu.
      • We take Paul's show staple of Love Off and Fear Off and all three of us do it.
      • Paul Gilmartin Links

        Mental Illness Happy Hour homepage

        Paul Gilmartin homepage

        Paul Gilmartin on Twitter

         

         

        Some of our most popular interviews you might also enjoy:

        Kino MacGregor

        Strand of Oaks

        Mike Scott of the Waterboys

        Todd Henry- author of Die Empty

        Randy Scott Hyde

        53 min
      • Krista Tippett (On Being)
        This week on The One You Feed we have Krista Tippett from On Being.
         
         In This Interview Krista and I Discuss...

        The One You Feed parable.
        How modern news feeds our bad wolf.
        How science and religion ask different questions.
        How modern society looks for the most polarizing and strident views.
        Listening as a spiritual virtue.
        Being open to be surprised and amazed.
        Not needing to have the answers.
        Loving the questions themselves.
        Paradox and ambiguity.
        A reverence for mystery.
        Arriving at some of the best places in our lives through mistakes.
        Depression as a black pandoras box.
        The things that go wrong for us become part of our gifts to the world.
        We become great not in spite of the hardships but because of them.
        The path to spiritual genius is through being fully human.
        Krista's definition of spirituality- the inner work that accompanies our outer lives.
        Humor as a virtue.
        How she has never met a wise person who does not laugh often.

        Krista Tippett Links
        On Being homepage
        On Being on Twitter
        Read Krista's books
         

        Some of our most popular interviews you might also enjoy:
        Kino MacGregor
        Strand of Oaks
        Mike Scott of the Waterboys
        Todd Henry- author of Die Empty
        Randy Scott Hyde

        See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

        See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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        48 min
      • 35: Krista Tippett (On Being)
        This week on The One You Feed we have Krista Tippett from On Being.
         
         In This Interview Krista and I Discuss...
        The One You Feed parable.
        How modern news feeds our bad wolf.
        How science and religion ask different questions.
        How modern society looks for the most polarizing and strident views.
        Listening as a spiritual virtue.
        Being open to be surprised and amazed.
        Not needing to have the answers.
        Loving the questions themselves.
        Paradox and ambiguity.
        A reverence for mystery.
        Arriving at some of the best places in our lives through mistakes.
        Depression as a black pandoras box.
        The things that go wrong for us become part of our gifts to the world.
        We become great not in spite of the hardships but because of them.
        The path to spiritual genius is through being fully human.
        Krista's definition of spirituality- the inner work that accompanies our outer lives.
        Humor as a virtue.
        How she has never met a wise person who does not laugh often.
        Krista Tippett Links
        On Being homepage
        On Being on Twitter
        Read Krista's books
         
        Some of our most popular interviews you might also enjoy:
        Kino MacGregor
        Strand of Oaks
        Mike Scott of the Waterboys
        Todd Henry- author of Die Empty
        Randy Scott Hyde
        43 min
      • 035: Krista Tippett (On Being)



        This week on The One You Feed we have Krista Tippett from On Being.

         

         In This Interview Krista and I Discuss...
        • The One You Feed parable.
        • How modern news feeds our bad wolf.
        • How science and religion ask different questions.
        • How modern society looks for the most polarizing and strident views.
        • Listening as a spiritual virtue.
        • Being open to be surprised and amazed.
        • Not needing to have the answers.
        • Loving the questions themselves.
        • Paradox and ambiguity.
        • A reverence for mystery.
        • Arriving at some of the best places in our lives through mistakes.
        • Depression as a black pandoras box.
        • The things that go wrong for us become part of our gifts to the world.
        • We become great not in spite of the hardships but because of them.
        • The path to spiritual genius is through being fully human.
        • Krista's definition of spirituality- the inner work that accompanies our outer lives.
        • Humor as a virtue.
        • How she has never met a wise person who does not laugh often.
        • Krista Tippett Links

          On Being homepage

          On Being on Twitter

          Read Krista's books

           

          Some of our most popular interviews you might also enjoy:

          Kino MacGregor

          Strand of Oaks

          Mike Scott of the Waterboys

          Todd Henry- author of Die Empty

          Randy Scott Hyde

          43 min
        • Strand of Oaks (Timothy Showalter)
          This week on The One You Feed we have Timothy Showalter from Strand of Oaks.
          Strand of Oaks aka Timothy Showalter just released one of the years best records. Heal has been celebrated by NPR, Pitchfork, Mojo and Uncut among many others. It's one of our favorite records of the year. The story behind Heal:
          "From the first bars of HEAL, the exhilarating melodic stomp of 'Goshen '97' puts you right into Tim Showalter's fervent teenage mindset. We find him in his family's basement den in Goshen, IN, feeling alienated but even at 15 years old, believing in the alchemy and power of music to heal your troubles. "The record is called HEAL, but it's not a soft, gentle healing, it's like scream therapy, a command, because I ripped out my subconscious, looked through it, and saw the worst parts. And that's how I got better." HEAL embodies that feeling of catharsis and rebirth, desperation and euphoria, confusion and clarity. It is deeply personal and unwittingly anthemic.Showalter was on tour, walking home on a mild autumn night in Malmo, Sweden, when he first felt the weight of the personal crisis that would ignite him to write HEAL. "It was a culmination of pressure," Showalter recalls. "My marriage was suffering, I'd released a record I was disappointed in, I didn't like how I looked or acted...so I'd gone on tour, I was gone about two years! I didn't take time to think about failure, but I knew I was going deeper and deeper...I was thinking, I have this life, but it's not my life, I haven't done it right..."When Showalter returned, he wrote 30 songs in three weeks, a process that proved difficult, but cathartic and at times invigorating. Previous Strand Of Oaks records were more skeletal, raw examples of folk-rooted Americana with occasional rock and electronic currents, that have now come to the fore. HEAL is a bold new beginning, with a thrilling full-tilt sound that draws on Showalter's love of '70s, '80s and '90s rock and pop, with the singer and guitarist playing the intense valedictory confessor.
          In This Interview Tim and I Discuss...

          The One You Feed parable.
          The great success of his new record.
          The saddest line on his new record.
          The importance of feeling all of our emotions, not just the good ones.
          How hard it is to write uplifting music that isn't cheesy.
          Disliking ironic music.
          The redemptive power of rock and roll.
          How we care less about what people think as we age.
          The power of being our authentic selves.
          Becoming who we are.
          Avoiding the victim/villain mindset.
          Jason Molina of Songs:Ohia.
          Fighting the dark times.

          Strand of Oaks Links
          Strand of Oaks homepage
          Buy Heal on Amazon
          Strand of Oaks on Twitter
          Strand of Oaks on Facebook
          Strand of Oaks playlist on YouTube
           

          Some of our most popular interviews you might also enjoy:
          Kino MacGregor
          Mike Scott of the Waterboys
          Todd Henry- author of Die Empty
          Randy Scott Hyde

          See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

          See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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          39 min

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