I dive into Carl Jung’s concept of the Puer Aeternus—the eternal child, or what we might call the “man-child.” I explore how this archetype shows up in our lives through procrastination, fantasy, and avoidance of responsibility. I share myths like Icarus and Peter Pan, the shadow side of this archetype, and practical steps to move from the eternal boy to the integrated man.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:01 – The Puer Aeternus: Eternal Child

02:42 – Fixation on Youth vs. Responsibility

04:12 – The Provisional Life

07:01 – Myth of Icarus

08:12 – Peter Pan and Neverland

10:33 – The Seduction of Youth

13:24 – The Shadow Side

16:34 – Step 1: Accept Limitations

18:47 – Step 2: Embrace the Ordinary

20:14 – Step 3: Facing Failure

21:50 – Step 4: Commit to the Process

23:29 – Step 5: Seek a Mentor

25:28 – From Eternal Boy to Integrated Man

26:21 – Brutal Honesty and Feedback

27:43 – Closing Thoughts

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