BeThatHealingGirl Podcast

The Real Reason You Don’t Feel Secure in a Good Relationship


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This week, we're getting real about the messy middle — where you logically know you’re in a good relationship but emotionally still feel anxious AF. If you’re constantly asking:

  • “Why isn’t this enough?”
  • “Why do I still feel so unsure?”
  • “Why can’t I just be chill for once?!”
  • Then this episode is your exact starting point. 👏

    Inside, we’re talking about:

    ✨ Why the key to feeling secure in your relationship starts with YOU (not him, not a text back, not a future ring)

    🧠 How morphing into the ‘perfect partner’ keeps you in anxious mode

    💗 Why being your authentic self is the foundation for real, lasting love

    🔁 What happens when you’re stuck in the “prove myself” cycle (and how to stop)

    💬 And why your deepest fear might not be about love... but being alone 👀

    Plus, I’m answering a powerful listener question about letting go of a relationship, fear of being alone, and how to move forward when you're committed to finally breaking the cycle. 💔➡️💪

    Let this be your permission slip to stop performing in your relationship, and start being the most you version of you — because that's where true security lives.

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