The Spiral

the girlies comparing themselves to each other again ?? nature is healing! in this episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing consider their feelings and fears on the “that girl” trope. if no one sees how aesthetic your life is… is it even aesthetic at all?

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‘secrets from a girl (who’s seen it all)’ walked so this episode could run. sephy & wing share the advice they wish they’d received ~before it was too late, with some chaotic anecdotes and wild references thrown in for good measure. it’s sephy & wing’s life survival guide. results may vary.

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this is big ~dudley’s “daddy’s gone mad, hasn’t he!”~ energy. sephy & wing push the boundaries of chaotic conversation in this episode of Goes Without Saying, tackling your questions on friendship break-ups, class struggles, periods, pet peeves and mental health taboos. it’s prime sephy & wing content, and in six months when you’re saying you miss “the old ‘Goes Without Saying’”… it’ll be this episode you’re referring to. 

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is simply 'acknowledging your privilege' enough, or is this actually just the bare minimum? how do the complexities of race, class and social hierarchies intersect with feelings of shame and guilt around identity? and is social mobility a myth, or a viable reality in our society? in this personal episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing get real about privilege. from the fetishisation of racial ambiguity, to the ongoing gentrification of working-class aesthetics, join us as we explore privilege in its many forms. *horsegirl97 has left the chat*

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is "toxicity" nothing more than a beloved buzzword for girls that are obsessed with crystals, self-diagnosing, and andy from headspace? is there nuance and worthwhile substance in the "toxic relationship" conversation? are we all inherently "toxic", or just jaded and judgemental? all of these questions (and more!) will likely remain unanswered in this wild and chaotic episode of Goes Without Saying. sephy & wing reflect on their own destructive relationships, communication patterns, and attachment styles, whilst breaking down problematic romances, friendships, and family dynamics. alexa, play toxic by britne-- alexa, play goes without saying podcast with sephy and wing.

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just love urself it's easy!! in this ep of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing are discussing whether radical self-love is productive, or just a capitalist scam. we're learning how to rebel against normalised self-hatred and genuinely accept our messy lives. from finding neutrality and balance in our perceptions of ourselves, to deciphering performed self-acceptance from authentic self-love, we're delving deep into the online self-love movement. is self-love actually attainable for everybody? how does privilege intersect with self-acceptance? are there any easy remedies for internalised self-hatred? we don't have the answers but we <3 you.

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are you self-aware, or are you just self-conscious? join sephy & wing for an on-brand convo about whether personal branding is a waste of time, and why your obsession with representing yourself is making you lose yourself in the process. in this ep of Goes Without Saying we're spiralling about our attachments to style and trends, and exploring how the ego intersects with specific aesthetics. from limiting attachments to labels, to finding flexibility in personal identity, we're here to remind you that you're a ever-changing, fluid being that can never be defined by a brand or aesthetic. stunning!

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(we're not the same). sephy & wing are back with more hot takes and niche references, and this week we're talking about 'shadow work'. from recovering from mental health struggles, to therapy and radical self-care, we're getting serious about choosing ourselves in this ep of Goes Without Saying. we're channeling our inner darkness and getting in touch with the parts of ourselves we don't always like... it's time to get ~uncomfy~.

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overwhelmed and burnt out? same. join your wholesome and exhausted faves (sephy & wing) for this extra relevant episode of Goes Without Saying. from the ongoing battle between anxious productivity and crippling depression, to how we can ~actually~ allow ourselves to rest, we're discussing capitalism and hustle culture's worst enemy: burn out. come and join your burnt out besties as we redefine what it means to be 'productive' and learn to be disciplined in our commitments to ourselves. emma, it might be you.

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it's not me, it's you. sephy & wing are back again to meddle with your relationships, and this week we're not holding back. in this episode of Goes Without Saying we're diving into your dating drama and giving you the advice you never asked for. why isn't your scrappy boyfriend texting you back? how can you avoid anxiety over the socially imposed time limit on 'virginity'? is clear communication actually attainable in sex and situationships? it's time to (say it with us) ~dUmP hiM~.

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