This Isn't Me

Elly and V are back together, back on the mics, back sharing their stories, their sass, their truths and their magic with you in Episode 9 of Reclaiming Love.

Elly is back from Master Prac to share the updates on her recent energetic level up. (Oops, did we forget to tell you this was recorded at the end of 2023?)! Elly also quietly drops what she decided about the knife wielding, pasta making, open hearted guy we all affectionately know as Gym Guy. 

This powerhouse episode is all about choosing to see life as a game. The ladies invite you to step into your “main character energy”, delete any supporting characters that are no longer serving you and demolish any remaining “villians” from your story. Sometimes, it’s as easy as doing the damn thing! (You know that thing you know you need to do and haven’t yet done? Ya, that! Do that!) 

The gals also remind you that NOTHING is “real”, and to recognise that ALL beliefs are limiting beliefs, so choose yours carefully! Elly offers a tip to tap deeper into your intuition, learning to speak directly to your unconscious mind.

The work these empowered women do is shared and offered to you as a way to clear your energetic container, change core memories and beliefs and allow you to create a blank canvas for the next chapter of your life!

The framework of Values Levels takes the focus of this episode. This framework is shared in a detailed and personal way to help you make sense of the way we as humans develop and change through different cycles of life. The ladies offer this along with a reminder that you often gotta live it to learn it, and through their own self compassion, remind us all that gratitude and forgiveness can be offered to every past version of you. 

Elly then shares how all the work until now has led her to see how she can accelerate herself to the next level up, recreate new beliefs and create exactly what she wants for herself, her relationships and her life! 

These queens leave you on a cliff-hanger, once again, as V asks Elly, “What’s going to be different now?” for which we will all have to wait and see. 

So, grab your bestie, your fur baby or your favourite beverage (or all three), bring your curiosity and maybe even your journal, and strap yourself down for another informative and transformative episode of "Reclaiming Love"!

Want to make NOW the time for YOU to Reclaim Love or your LIFE?

To enquire directly with Veronica about coaching ⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠ or check out her current offers on ⁠⁠⁠her website⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠and make sure you follow Veronica Jayne on Instagram

⁠⁠⁠@veronicajayne_ ⁠⁠⁠

Remember, you can also WATCH the series ⁠⁠⁠You Tube ⁠@veronicajayne

~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne x

Elly and Veronica kick the episode off with a well anticipated update on Gym Guy… (Sorry not sorry for the cliff-hanger last episode) in Episode 8 of the Reclaiming Love series. Elly attempts to answer the intriguing question: "Gym guy… is he the 'One'?'"

We ponder the age-old question every modern woman has asked herself: “Is the guy I’m dating a murderer?” From decoding cryptic messages to navigating the murky waters of dating, Elly reads out the gym guy messages with all the suspense of a true crime thriller.

As the episode progresses, we delve into the depths of fear, overthinking, and the complexities of dating "nice guys." From body image issues to the fear of hurting someone, this episode is a rollercoaster ride of emotions and revelations.

Join us as we confront the question: "Do you have to look a certain way to be loved? " With candid honesty and raw vulnerability, Veronica and Elly call themselves out and invite listeners to embrace their authentic selves.

And of course, this episode wouldn't be complete without a gym guy update – will a kiss occur? Tune in to find out and discover that when it comes to matters of the heart, deep down, you always know what you want.

So, grab your headphones and buckle up for another exhilarating episode of "Reclaiming Love"!

Want to make NOW the time for YOU to Reclaim Love or your LIFE?

To enquire directly with Veronica about coaching ⁠⁠click here⁠⁠ or check out her current offers on ⁠⁠her website⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠and make sure you follow Veronica Jayne on Instagram

⁠⁠@veronicajayne_ ⁠⁠

Remember, you can also WATCH the series ⁠⁠You Tube @veronicajayne

~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne x

Unveil the mysteries of ECT (Emotional Change Technique) and its profound impact on rewriting the scripts of our past in Episode 7 of the Reclaiming Love series.

From unlinking emotional charges behind memories and the ways we can unknowingly live out a self fulfilling prophecy, this episode is another powerful masterclass, this time in breaking free from limiting beliefs and embracing trust in all that is.

With raw vulnerability and unfiltered honesty, Elly and Veronica dive into a live example of ECT, offering a glimpse into the raw, transformative power of this technique on the emotion of fear.

As the episode unfolds, they stand in the change that ECT offers, reminding listeners that transformation is possible and change work can be fast.

Then, updates on "Gym Guy" and a heartfelt reminder to tune into our hearts and listen to the inner voice. Episode 7 is a testament to the power of coaching in navigating love and life's twists and turns.

So, whether you're ready to unlock the secrets of your unconscious mind or simply seeking inspiration on your journey of self-discovery, grab your headphones and join us for another exhilarating episode of "Reclaiming Love"!

Want to make NOW the time for YOU to Reclaim Love or your LIFE?

To enquire directly with Veronica about coaching ⁠click here⁠ or check out her current offers on ⁠her website⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠and make sure you follow Veronica Jayne on Instagram

⁠@veronicajayne_ ⁠

Remember, you can also WATCH the series ⁠You Tube @veronicajayne

~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne x

Explore the intricacies of asking for what you want and the transformative power of a "Dickens Process" in Episode 6 of the Reclaiming Love series with Elly Miles.Coaching has a profound impact on personal growth; Elly and V start with the revelation of why even coaches need coaches.

From there, get ready for a candid conversation about the power of choice and deciding how you want your life to be, hopefully full of endless expansion and self-discovery! 

Prepare to dive deep into the inner workings of the mind and the power of creating your own reality as Elly shares her journey of discovering NLP and her coaching path through EAWTC. 

Veronica takes Elly through an intense exercise to be radically honest about what she does and doesn’t want! Witness the transformative power of the Dickens Process.Elly shares her reflections on the process and her decision to embrace change. Episode 6 is a testament to the courage it takes to rewrite our own stories! 

Amidst the introspection, there's room for dreams and desires. Tune in as they ponder the question: Do you want to get married? 

Whether you're dreaming of a classic story book romance or forging your own path, this episode is your invitation to explore the endless possibilities of love and life.

So, whether you're ready to embrace endless expansion or simply curious about the power of choice, grab your headphones and join us for another exhilarating episode of "Reclaiming Love"!

Want to make NOW the time for YOU to Reclaim Love or your LIFE?

To enquire directly with Veronica about coachingclick here or check out her current offers onher website⁠⁠⁠⁠and make sure you follow Veronica Jayne on Instagram

@veronicajayne_

Remember, you can WATCH the seriesYou Tube!

~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne x

A juicy update on Elly's status with “Gym Guy” in Episode 5 of the Reclaiming Love series.

From there, we talk social media and jealousy. Buckle up for a wild ride as Elly confesses to playing "girlfriend detective" while in her situationship and is invited to navigate the murky waters of her past beliefs.

They also discuss how internalised beliefs can create a bias and cause us to seek information that confirms it, and how this shows up in relationships!  

It's not all drama and detective work – Elly also unveils a newfound discovery about "Situationship" Guy, realising she was casting a tangled web of projections and unconscious beliefs and how they kept her in a cycle of relational self-sabotage. Elly shares how she finally realised  "enough was enough" in her situationship!

V also invites Elly to look at how her staying in the dynamic, despite her needs being unmet, was actually an unconscious agreement to lower her standards and confirm she wasn’t worthy of what she wanted. Elly shares how she eventually and powerfully took responsibility for her own happiness, by calling it quits.

From saying goodbye to past pain to building self-love and trust, Episode 5 is a masterclass in personal growth and empowerment when it comes to walking away from what you don’t want and towards what you do want. 

More magic happens when the ladies dive into the difference between speaking your desires from the intellect versus letting someone feel your desires and feel you as you connect emotionally. Through an exploration into the power of vulnerability and authenticity in relationships, we all are invited to take the risk to love, despite the potential loss. 

This episode also invites Elly into some sexy homework as V shares knowledge on how porn, self pleasure and masturbation impact our embodied beliefs and our thought patterns about love, sex and pleasure. V also introduces the concept of existential kink, how we are all living out unconscious “kinky” patterns and the potential to change them.

The gals take a candid look at how our love life holds triggers and can cause us to disassociate, and how rewiring both our body and our brain is the way to break free from these patterns. This episode promises to ignite sparks of insight and inspiration, with a hearty side of spice! 

The episode wraps up reminding us all we can do love at our own pace, whether it’s taking it slow, powerfully asking for what you want, or simply expanding your capacity for love within yourself, Episode 5 of "Reclaiming Love" is your invitation to join the journey. Grab your headphones, lean in, and let's reclaim love together!

Want to make NOW the time for YOU to Reclaim Love or your LIFE?

Enquire directly with Veronica about coaching: ⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/d/cp5q-d5z-jxz⁠⁠⁠ check out her current offers ⁠⁠⁠https://veronicajayne.podia.com/ ⁠⁠⁠and make sure you follow Veronica Jayne on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/veronicajayne_/⁠⁠⁠

WATCH the series You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLj8OJibW4xT_vPzTENFOAMQD5rFgBHBs0

~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne x

Dive headfirst into the depths of Elly's past. Veronica gently guides Elly through sharing her full history, with unfiltered openness and pure authenticity in Episode 4 of the Reclaiming Love series.

Elly opens up about her struggles, expressing frustration with repeating old patterns and the desire to create deeper connections. She bravely shares her past experiences of casual relationships, reflecting on the impact they've had on her pursuit of love.

As the conversation unfolds, Veronica fearlessly shares her own journey, recounting her experiences with STDs and the lessons she's learned about self-worth and protecting both her body and her heart. The two encourage women to let go of the self-judgement of exploring their sexuality, while also getting real with themselves to ask, "Is this what I really want?"

Delving into their upbringing, Elly reflects on the influence of her childhood on her approach to relationships, while Veronica sheds light on her desire for space within them. They share how amidst all these challenges, came clarity and growth.

Elly sets intentions for her future relationship, while Veronica shares how she used a “40-day Dick Detox” to create her past relational changes, rediscovering what she truly wanted and creating an empowered sexual identity. 

With laughter and introspection, they explore different perspectives on spirituality, past lives, and love, inviting listeners to join them on a voyage of reclaiming love, in all its forms.

So, grab your headphones and prepare for a candid and enlightening conversation as Veronica and Elly continue to unravel the mysteries of love in Episode 4 of "Reclaiming Love."

Want to make NOW the time for YOU to Reclaim Love or your LIFE?

Enquire directly with Veronica about coaching: ⁠⁠https://calendly.com/d/cp5q-d5z-jxz⁠⁠ check out her current offers ⁠⁠https://veronicajayne.podia.com/ ⁠⁠and make sure you follow Veronica Jayne on Instagram ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/veronicajayne_/⁠⁠

WATCH the series You Tube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLj8OJibW4xT_vPzTENFOAMQD5rFgBHBs0

~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne x

Episode 3 of the Reclaiming Love series is here to shake up your perceptions and ignite your journey towards self-discovery and empowerment!

Join Elly and Veronica as they dive deep! Behind the scenes, Veronica had “tasked” Elly with some soul-searching tasking, to write a vision of what she wants in a relationship.  Elly lays bare her deepest desires, and deal-breakers, with candour by sharing her, "What I want in a man" list.

This is juxtaposed with Elly’s honest ownership of how she herself had been living in the notorious, "Fuck girl energy". From within that honesty, the growth comes! The duo then share their coaching “pre-frames” and the principles that continue to guide their own transformative journeys and those of their clients.

Veronica opens up about her own journey, sharing how she now sees her ex-husband as a profound teacher and her perspective of gratitude and appreciation. Through raw vulnerability, she traces the origins of her belief that, "love always leaves," unveiling how she discovered this belief was hidden deeply beneath her exploration into polyamory.

This episode isn't just about unravelling past wounds; it's about rewriting the script for a brighter future. Together, Elly and Veronica challenge the notion that the past dictates the future, emphasising that "if nothing changes, nothing changes." They empower you to reclaim your agency, reminding you that every step you take towards healing gives you more freedom to be authentically you.

So, grab your journal and a cup of tea, and join Elly and Veronica on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment. In "Reclaiming Love," every moment is an opportunity for growth and every challenge can become a stepping stone towards the love you deeply desire and deserve. Tune in, laugh out loud, and let's rewrite the script together!

Want to make NOW the time for YOU to Reclaim Love or your LIFE?

Enquire directly with Veronica about coaching: ⁠https://calendly.com/d/cp5q-d5z-jxz⁠ check out her current offers ⁠https://veronicajayne.podia.com/ ⁠and follow Veronica Jayne on Instagram ⁠https://www.instagram.com/veronicajayne_/⁠

WATCH the series You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLj8OJibW4xT_vPzTENFOAMQD5rFgBHBs0

~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne x

Get ready to embark on a transformative journey of self-discovery and empowerment in Episode 2 of Reclaiming Love  with your hosts Veronica Jayne and Elly Miles!

After last week’s share of the rollercoaster of emotions with Fraser, Elly dives into how she then found herself post break-up and created her own version of spirituality. The two share their experiences navigating post-breakup relationships, including the infamous "Situationship" and the liberating concept of having a "Fuck it” list!

The conversation takes a profound turn as they introduce the concept of “perception is projection” , or “as within, so without” to frame the ongoing coaching. They also talk about the importance of language, mindset and focusing on what you DO want (rather than what you DON’T want). From dissecting language, to delving into the ways our conscious mind can trick us, having us “pretend” our actions are in alignment when they really aren’t. Veronica and Elly reveal the intricacies of doing unconscious change work and the power of taking radical personal responsibility when you realise, “I’m the problem” (thanks Taylor Swift) and realise you create or allow everything in your life. 

The girls touch on the drama triangle and how empowering it is to step out of the drama altogether. They also express gratitude for everything that brought them to where they are today!

Elly also shares about her journey towards unlocking her intuition in what she experienced on a plant journey and her experiences in the integrated NLP training room. But it’s all serious talk; amidst the self-reflection and growth, there are moments of lightness and humour! 

As the episode wraps up, Elly introduces listeners to “Elvolve” and offers a glimpse into what's to come! In a heartfelt moment, they explain why they're sharing their stories publicly - to help others see themselves in the stories and find their own path towards reclaiming love. Elly and Veronica welcome your curiosity and your feedback, as well as invite you to connect directly.

Join Elly and Veronica as they continue to navigate the twists and turns of love, life, and personal evolution in Episode 2 of "Reclaiming Love." Grab your headphones, buckle up, and get ready for another exhilarating ride!

Enquire directly with Veronica about coaching: https://calendly.com/d/cp5q-d5z-jxz or have a look at the current coaching offers https://veronicajayne.podia.com/ and follow Veronica Jayne on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/veronicajayne_/

~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne x

The Reclaiming Love series is here!

Join hosts Elly Miles, an NLP Master Practitioner and Mindset & Energetics Coach, who has transformed her own journey of love and self-growth into a movement helping women step into their main character energy, and Veronica Jayne, embodiment, empowerment and relationship coach and mentor, and fiery force behind "This Isn't Me" podcast which inspires women to claim their own pain to purpose story, to ignite your own potent transformation! Come along as they embark on the journey of rediscovery and romance!

Buckle up for a rollercoaster ride through the highs, lows, and curveballs of love, as Elly and Veronica share their own experiences, relationship sagas and nuggets of wisdom integrated from their coaching expertise. Dive deep into the unconscious mind as they unravel the tangled web of beliefs we unknowingly weave from childhood experiences, exploring how these impact our adult relationships.It's all about reclaiming your power, rewiring your beliefs and manifesting the love you deserve. Through witty banter, raw vulnerability and a healthy dose of cheeky raunchiness, Elly and Veronica serve up a cocktail of educational insights and heartfelt anecdotes that will leave you laughing, crying and cheering for more.So whether you're navigating heartbreak, seeking to reignite the spark in your relationship with yourself or your significant other, simply curious about the wild world of love or the unconscious mind, “Reclaiming Love" promises to be your go-to destination for sass and humour, as well as the ultimate guide to finding your truest version of the love you desire & deserve.

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Episode 1:

Kicking things off with a bang in Episode 1 of Reclaiming Love, your hosts Elly Miles and Veronica Jayne introduce themselves, and their mission to unravel the mysteries of love! They explore all things relationships, embodiment, empowerment, self-healing, Neuro Linguistic Programming and much, much more! Straight up, they dive into the essence of coaching and their personal 'why' behind the work they do. As the conversation unfolds, they explore the concept of perception and commit to honour each individual’s unique experience. As promised, the girls also make sure to share the inside scoop on their own love lives! Just when things start to get deep, cue the entrance of Elly’s "Gym Guy," adding a dash of unexpected fun to the mix. From there, the duo delves into the transformational power of belief systems and the willingness to be reprogrammed for a life of your deepest desires. Veronica touches on her experience of going from monogamy to polyamory and back again, explaining monogamy as what she sees as the deepest personal and spiritual choice you can make, to go all in on yourself and another. This sets the stage for Elly to share her journey (and all the goss) from "Bachelor" contestant to “Bachelorette”, and beyond. If you’re here for the inside scoops, you’ll love as Elly recounts her experiences with past Bachelorette suitors, Joey and "F$ck-wit Fraser” with raw honesty. She sheds light on her patterns of self-sabotage and unhealed childhood wounds. Meanwhile, Veronica reflects on her own journey of chasing validation and the impact it had on her relationships.Amidst the heartache and self-discovery, there's room for healing and gratitude. Elly's apology to Fraser through the practice of Ho'oponopono highlights the healing power of forgiveness and letting go. As the episode concludes, the hosts delve into the physical manifestations of emotional trauma and the importance of reconnecting with our bodies for healing. Join V and Elly on this rollercoaster ride of love, laughter, and personal growth!

Want to make NOW the time for YOU to Reclaim Love or your LIFE?

Enquire directly with V:⁠https://calendly.com/d/cp5q-d5z-jxz⁠, look at her current offers⁠https://veronicajayne.podia.com/ ⁠and follow Veronica Jayne on Instagram⁠https://www.instagram.com/veronicajayne_/⁠

WATCH on You Tube:⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3zk2w78GKo2Nrr5HnSmz-g ⁠

What's next you ask!? You're going to FROTH! This episode gives you an update on where I've been and what's to come!

Spoilers: I've been building a transformational coaching business, helping women change their lives and relationships, moving house, finally listening to my body (again) and relearning a life of both slow and fast.

Then I shares what's next!

The Reclaiming Love Series with Elly Miles is what's next! Eeeekkk! This upcoming series, starting Thursday June 6th (and weekly thereafter) will have you joining hosts Elly Miles, who won hearts on the Australian Bachelorette 2020, and me, Veronica Jayne!

As of next week, we'll invite you to come along on the journey of rediscovery and romance in, "Reclaiming Love". Listen to the full episode for more details!

Want to leave this version of "You" behind and truly be able to say, "This isn't me anymore!"?

To enquire directly with Veronica about coaching ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or check out her current offers on ⁠⁠⁠⁠her ⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. And make sure you follow Veronica Jayne on Instagram @veronicajayne_

You can now also WATCH This Isn't Me podcast and the upcoming Reclaiming Love series on YouTube ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@veronicajayne

~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne x