This Isn't Me

What if we have got love all wrong?

What if what we have been calling love, has been power and control, pulling and pushing, grabbing and grasping, covert control and manipulation, persuasion and convincing... unconsciously?

What if we could create a love that was truly unconditional; seeing the other as they truly are, right now, and being present with that?

What if from there, we could see their possibilities for endless growth and expansion, and be there for that too?

I want that type of love, don't you? If so, it's time to enquire directly with Veronica about coaching ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or check out the current offers on ⁠⁠⁠⁠her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. And make sure you follow Veronica Jayne on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@veronicajayne_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

You can also watch episodes of This Isn't Me podcast and the Reclaiming Love series on YouTube ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@veronicajayne⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne x

How important is your pleasure?

I know Dr Elizabeth Willis and I both agree, its a highly central piece to exploring yourself and your purpose.

A fellow seeker, life long learner, educator and knowledge sharer, Dr Elizabeth Willis “fuses her academic background and experience in education with new-age somatic bodywork and cutting-edge spiritual principles”.

Elizabeth shares some of her professional and personal story, as they became one in the same! We start out with a discussion around the various forms of education: self education (therapy, coaching and courses) and the education system.

Then we dive into self development, sharing your personal journey as a potent tool to guide others, spirituality, embodiment, energetics, the power of language and perspective, worthiness and endless integration.

Thanks Elizabeth for letting us learn new ways of seeing our story by seeing it reflected in yours.

Seeing it's time for more pleasure and eager to create a life of purpose?

Enquire directly with Veronica about coaching ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or check out the current offers on ⁠⁠⁠⁠her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. And make sure you follow Veronica Jayne on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@veronicajayne_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne x

What do YOU believe in?

Belief is the acceptance that something is true or real.

It influences our thoughts, emotions and actions!

Your beliefs are impacting how you see yourself and what possible for you!

Believe you're capable and you'll gain the confidence to act; believe you're incapable, hold the fear to keep you stuck.

Why not choose beliefs that empower you to create the life you love!?

I wonder which beliefs you currently hold that no longer serve you? 

Feeling empowered to let go of old beliefs yourself?

Enquire directly with Veronica about coaching ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or check out the current offers on ⁠⁠⁠⁠her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. And make sure you follow Veronica Jayne on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@veronicajayne_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne x

From depressed, numbing out with alcohol and contemplating suicide; to a near death experience; to choosing life with each and every breath!

Breath he now sees as offering space to proceed forward in life with intention. He's a relationship and communication expert, who has lived a life of pain and persistence, to bring him to where he is now.

From listening to That Listening Guy, I heard that a love of learning, love for others and the desire for justice can serve as powerful drivers for continual change.

He continues to use his pain to create his purpose, his mess is his message and he lives powerfully with purpose to guide others into more effective listening and communication, in their relationship with self and others.

Ready to choose your life again?

Enquire directly with Veronica about coaching ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or check out the current offers on ⁠⁠⁠⁠her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. And make sure you follow Veronica Jayne on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@veronicajayne_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne x

Have you ever let fear stop you from investing in yourself?

Realising, "I AM the investment!" is a powerful frame to hold.

A house can burn down or flood, stocks can plummet, crypto will fluctuate, while YOU are an ever growing ever expanding secure investment.

I know my worth and I keep investing in me! Do you?

I share what's made the difference to allow my desires to turn into actions as I continue to trust and invest in myself.

This goes from my most recent financial investment to the investments I've made in the last two years in my own self-development and self-education.

So, when will now be the right time you to get uncomfortable and invest in yourself? For some people, they get that NOW is always the right time.

Enquire directly with Veronica about coaching ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or check out the current offers on ⁠⁠⁠⁠her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. And make sure you follow Veronica Jayne on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@veronicajayne_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne x

What a TRAP certainty can be! What in life is truly certain?

If you're waiting for certainty, CUTE! You could be waiting a .....................

............. A long time! See?  

I explore certainty and comfort from the scientific lens of the nervous system.

There are so many ways to push beyond the physical and the emotional 'comfort zone'.  What might happen if you were able to get comfortable in the discomfort of UNcertainty? How can YOU choose to do that?

Practically that can be: breath, hot/cold therapy, running, travel, tough conversations, relationships, money...

Getting comfortable in the discomfortable, allows us to relinquish control and be ok with UNcertainty.  

Time to work on letting go of uncertainty? You know I can help with that right?

Enquire directly with Veronica about coaching ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or check out the current offers on ⁠⁠⁠⁠her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. And make sure you follow Veronica Jayne on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@veronicajayne_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne x

When does someone leave the 'picture perfect' life to step into the unknown?

When they finally see that what they have been clinging to is what's stopping them from having what they truly desire.

If the perfect life doesn’t leave you feeling happy, then it’s time to let go of what you think makes life perfect! @karinawhelan left a 'great on paper' life, to step into complete uncertainty. She trusted and followed her knowing, well beyond her comfort zone. 

We also discuss how we can unconsciously pedestal our partners (or ourselves); look to be saved; end up codependent and create covert power dynamics!

The episode really covers the gambit of relationships as we dissect the relationship escalator; conception issues; letting go of attachment; dating; speaking your desires vs attaching to expectations; rejection as redirection; changing patterns; willingness to grow; living in alignment; AND showing up fully as YOU, as that ever evolves!

Know you need to leave that "perfect" life for a NEW perfect for You?

Enquire directly with Veronica about coaching ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or check out the current offers on ⁠⁠⁠⁠her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. And make sure you follow Veronica Jayne

~ In love and learning, Veonica Jayne x

Who are you to ... insert whatever thing you're dreaming of, procrastinating on, ignoring or allowing fear to keep you from being...?

That's the big question and a self-limiting belief that you can stay stuck in. OR, you could ask, who are you NOT to? Who are you to NOT do YOU!?

I keep asking myself this whenever I reach the new edge of my comfort zone, when I push into an edgy topic, or feel fear, so that I take action anyway!

This SLB is explored in the later part of the episode; prior to that, is a parallel reminder that coming into alignment with yourself, your truth and your chosen purpose simply makes life more simple! We all want that, right?

Things start happening and life gets an almost magical flow to it, as I keep trusting, taking action and keeping my attention where I want my energy to go. You can do that too, right?

If you see there's something you're ready to do and want the nudge, enquire directly with Veronica about coaching ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or check out the current offers on ⁠⁠⁠⁠her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. And make sure you follow Veronica Jayne on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@veronicajayne_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne x

WELCOME BACK! It's 2023, baby! Season 2 is full of collaboration and co-creation!

For those of you who are new here, I can relate, I've been the new girl too! So I explain the purpose for me being here and the format for which I share. Then, an update of my learnings over the last month.

Her mission is to guide women & womb-holders back home to their bodies - to reconnect with their pleasure & cyclic wisdom, to feel empowered in their sexuality & to feel comfy in their own skin.

Through education & empowerment, she aims to help women step into their most authentic, rawest versions of themselves, shed shame & live life based on pleasure & play.

Who else has falling into a trap of believing they're, "Never enough"?

I caught myself seeking fulfilment and validation outside of myself to feel like 'enough'.

I've been operating from, "Go go go!" and "Grow, grow, grow", from, "Give give give" without allowing myself to receive.

I want to model self-care, self-love and commitment, without attachment. So that's what I'm going to do. I'm re-prioritising.

Taking the summer off of the podcast, to complete projects and courses, turn inward, get clear, determine what's next and be able to show up more fully!

Thanks for being here as I think aloud and share vulnerably with you 🗓️

See you all next year! Season 2: February 2nd, 2022 🎙️

Hear the growth in Veronica's journey and want to know more about how you too can say, "This isn't me anymore!"?

Enquire directly with Veronica about coaching ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or check out the current offers on ⁠⁠⁠⁠her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. And make sure you follow Veronica Jayne on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@veronicajayne_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

~ In love and learning, Veronica Jayne x