To Succeed... Just Let Go

Well now, this episode goes all around the (entirely necessary) houses to arrive at a fundamental truth... that, when we use our minds normally, we experience nothing. Nothing at all. Nada, niente, rien de tout!

When we meet someone new, we don't! When we find ourselves in some new situation, we're not!

And, if we experience nothing (as adults), you cannot learn from your experience. How can you learn from what you haven't?

But this brings us to the nub of the issue - what am I talking about when I talk about experience?

And how can we develop (or re-develop) our ability to experience? And, when we do, what will we experience?

This is the most important point: you will experience what you really are.

Worth going 'round the houses!

January's normally a come-down for the normal person... "back to the real world"!

In this episode, we explore what the real world really is and... how you make it. Yes, you are the creator of your reality. If you are suffering from that "come-down" as the New Year starts, it's your creation. If you're taking the right actions to change your life and experiencing the difference, it's your creation.

It's your creation either way. So the question is: what do you want to create? What kind of life do you really want?

These questions immediately raise other questions in the normally-minded: Isn't this selfish? How can I achieve things that I've never achieved before? What about my previous track record of failure or of getting in my own way?

Other useless notions also raise their ugly little heads: I am not worthy! I don't deserve to live a great life! I don't deserve anything much at all!

That's OK - we deal with all of that nonsense in this episode. We also deal with how taking the one step that changes everything makes everything else you have to do simpler, more effortless.

So, hop on board, take a ride on the adventure of your lifetime... you're worth it.

Practical insights, ideas and tips to enable you make the most of the quiet time that you should be giving yourself between Christmas and the New Year.

How to allow yourself experience an understanding of the kind of life that you would love to live and how to dispel the negative notions that, because you may not have been successful in the past, you won't be happy and successful in the future.

Discover that your past is no guid to the future. Discover why. Understand that what got you to where you are will most definitely not get you to where you want to go.

And, most importantly, experience the feeling of that part of you that will simply and effortlessly lead you along the right path, one step at a time, one now at a time, to the life that will bear no resemblance to what you thought was living!

What an adventure you're going to take in this episode...

We start with dismissing the thoughts that hold us back, we learn how to best invest our energy and attention, we discover that, when we free up our electro-magnetic energy and set our mind's coordinates towards the life we'd love to live, or own energy and attention begins to create that life for us effortlessly.

We're talking about living life to the full through being - yes, simply being in the moment (ever wondered why you were called a human being?). We're talking about discovering that, through being, you understand that you know what's best for you to the extent that you actually feel it. Yes, you feel it in your gut.

And, when you start experiencing the result of your knowing, you learn that you can trust yourself to take you by the hand on the adventure of a life that you're thinking mind could never even begin to imagine.

The title of this week's episode actually sells this episode short for, even though awareness, developed through self-awareness, is the key to everything, this episode actually explores the difference between judgement and knowing.

Judgement is what gets us into trouble - from judging ourselves, to judging others, to misjudging what's going on, to reacting to our misjudgement. Knowing is a different kettle of fish altogether!

Knowing comes through being - being present.

That's why this episode is peppered with practical advise on how to develop your self-awareness, which develops awareness, which develops presence, which enables you know what's going on and know both what to do and how most effectively and least effortfully to just do it.

A recipe for turning up to your own life and... living it to the full.

I almost lost the run of myself recording this episode - it's a little shorter than usual because I'm talking at twice the normal speed... the excitement of it all!

And, as the title would suggest, you and I both need to pull ourselves together, get ourselves by the shoulders and give ourselves a good shake and slap ourselves across the face... repeatedly until we're flowing in regular flow.

In flow, we send out signals - they're emitted by intention-carrying photons of light, we literally glow.

When we're not in flow all we're doing is perpetuating our crummy little lives (I did say that I almost lost the run of myself recording this episode, didn't I!) and we're a danger to everyone around us.

So, what are you waiting for because, if you're trying to figure out a reason for starting, I'll give you one... you're missing your own life and the bits that are gone you ain't going to get back!

We're talking about giving yourself the luxury of something that isn't a luxury at all!

As we approach a time of reflection - yes, even for Normal Crazy People - we all need to give ourselves a little mental "elbow room" to allow ourselves fully understand the kind of experiences we want in our lives.

Mostly, when I ask people what they want out of life or what kind of lifestyle they'd like, their answers tend towards the material and reveal an embedded seam of normal crazy thinking. People want things. And, when they get things, they want more things. And they want these things... now!

That's not how developing your ability to create a life full of wonderful experiences works. It is, for most people, a gentle and revealing process. It is something that comes from within, not without. It is something that requires a little perseverance, patience and discipline... none of which comes naturally!

And, yet, it only requires a little sprinkling of these attributes - something that you can allow yourself liberally sprinkle in your own life by giving yourself that little bit of mental elbow room.

And a final word: this episode may well be worth listening to more than once in advance of the coming holidays!

We're actually talking about taking responsibility in this week's episode: responsibility and discipline (something none of us is very good at!).

And this episode comes with:

1. THREE practical tips - that you can do right now, today and
2. An opportunity to change your life - but only 20 people will change their life this week!

So, what are we really talking about?

Forget the past and experience the present. Or, perhaps more to the point, forget the past by experiencing the present.

This will transform your life in eight weeks - yes, that's what I said, it is scientifically validated in multiple research programs over the last thirteen years.

And, remember, if you want, I can be your discipline!

That's the key message in this Episode.

But this Episode is literally full of practical examples and, more importantly, tips to enable you do just that.

We've stories of madness, stories of good friends and clients learning how to be present. More to point, these are stories of learning, ongoing learning - something that is completely and utterly impossible for the normally operating mind.

And that really is the key learning here: the mind that nature gave you is designed to ensure that you cannot change your life. That means you're going to have to repurpose your mind, restructure your brain.

And that all starts with your forgetting the past.

This episode starts with an exploration of what we all want.

Yes, there is a commonality - quite different from normality! - to what we all want. At it's most fundamental level, we all want what my Program Owners simply describe as peace of mind.

Imagine being completely at peace. Imagine not having a care in the world in this moment in time. Imagine simply being - we won't even mention being without the thoughts that bind.

Peace of mind frees us. Liberated, we are. We are free to do just what we need to do effortlessly so that the good things of life feel as if they "just fall into my lap" (a client quote!).

So peace of mind is not the end that we must have in sight. It is the beginning. It opens the door that isn't there - the door that we thought we had to walk through to start living our lives to the full.

When we are then, all good things flow in due time.