In many cases, it’s not until the husband is faced with divorce that he’ll begin making the changes his wife has requested for years. But as the wife, how can you tell whether these changes are genuine? Is it safe to assume this is your “new normal,” or will he revert back to his old ways as soon as you take divorce off the table?

In this episode, I explain why this phenomenon is so common in marriages and what to do when you’re faced with it. You’ll learn how to tell whether the changes your husband is making are permanent so you can confidently make your final decision of whether to stay or go.

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What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• What most men do after their spouse asks for a divorce (even if they’ve been “checked out” for years)
• How to tell if the changes your spouse is making will last
• What emotions might arise after you tell your spouse it’s over (and how to stay true to your wants and needs)

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