Bitch Is A Bad Word: A Domestic Abuse Survivors Guide

Trauma Bond - Why It's So Hard To Leave


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Why do we stay in toxic relationships — even when we know we should leave? In this episode of Bitch Is a Bad Word, we dive deep into the psychology of the trauma bond — the emotional trap that keeps survivors stuck in cycles of abuse, manipulation, and fleeting affection.


We break down the highs and lows of abusive dynamics, the addictive pull of intermittent reinforcement, and why leaving can feel impossible, even when it’s what you want most. This is a judgment-free conversation filled with real talk, lived experience, and the tools you need to start recognizing the pattern — and reclaim your power.


🎙️ In this episode:

  • What a trauma bond is and how it forms
  • How manipulation and emotional abuse create psychological dependency
  • The role of intermittent reinforcement in keeping you hooked
  • Why leaving is hard — and how to break free, step by step
  • Support for survivors who are still in it, or just getting out


If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why can’t I leave?” — this episode is for you.


#TraumaBond #ToxicRelationships #WhyWeStay #EmotionalAbuse #IntermittentReinforcement #CycleOfAbuse #SurvivorSupport #BitchIsABadWordPodcast #HealingFromAbuse #BreakTheCycle


If you or someone you know needs immediate help, please reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233

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Bitch Is A Bad Word: A Domestic Abuse Survivors GuideBy Lindsay Abernathy | Domestic Violence Survivor

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