Weight Loss Forensics: FBI Tactics to Investigate Cravings, Overeating, and Why Diets Suck

I’m breaking down the truth behind emotional eating and food addiction… and why these labels might be doing more harm than good. 

You’ll also get the 8 important questions you need to ask yourself to finally get clarity on whether food addiction is even the issue… or if something deeper is driving those patterns (like stress, control, or old emotional triggers).

If you’ve ever said “I feel out of control around food,” or wondered if you’re actually addicted to food, this episode will change how you see the problem, and more importantly, how you solve it.

Together, we will unpack:

• Why food addiction isn’t what you think, and why the label might be working against you.
• The real difference between stress eating, emotional eating, binge eating, cravings, and food addiction.
• The truth about sugar detoxes and going cold turkey.
• Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn responses - and how each one shows up in your emotional eating habits.
• The 8 questions you can ask yourself to determine if you need help with emotional eating or food addiction.
• How your nervous system uses food to manage emotions and stress.

To get the notes and journal prompts for this episode, DM me on Instagram @holly.bertone with the word NOTES, and I'll send them right over. 

Connect with Holly:

▶️ BECOME A SUSTAINABLE WEIGHT LOSS MACHINE - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/pl-machine-reg

▶️ FREE EMOTIONAL EATING PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE - https://pinkfortitude.mykajabi.com/weight-quiz

▶️ JOIN THE BREAK EMOTIONAL EATING ACCELERATOR - 

https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/break-emotional-eating-accelerator

▶️ APPLY FOR ELITE-LEVEL PRIVATE COACHING WITH HOLLY - https://wkf.ms/3XtDIKV

▶️QUIT SUGAR IN 5 DAYS - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/register-for-sugar

▶️ SUBSCRIBE TO SUBSTACK - https://substack.com/@hollybertone

▶️ FOLLOW HOLLY BERTONE ON INSTAGRAM - @holly.bertone 

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What if your food cravings aren’t random? What if they are the result of invisible patterns you’ve been running since childhood? On today’s episode of Your Midlife Comeback Story, I’m pulling back the curtain behind the 1,791 cravings profiles that I analyzed to reveal the real story behind the Emotional Eating Psychological Profile that’s been blowing people’s minds. Once you see your pattern, you’ll never unsee it. 

Together, we will unpack:

• Real-life patterns from 1,791 cravings profiles analyzed.
• How a childhood obsession led to cracking the code on emotional eating.
• The FBI counterintelligence methods Holly used to decode food cravings.
• The hidden childhood patterns driving emotional and stress eating.
• The surprising link between birth order, childhood coping mechanisms, and emotional eating.
• What makes the Emotional Eating Psychological Profile scary accurate for midlife women.
• Why understanding your emotional eating patterns is the first step to lasting weight loss without dieting.

Mentioned Resources:

▶️ Episode 161 - You Run Your Career Like a Boss. Time to Do the Same for Weight Loss. 

Connect with Holly:

▶️ BECOME A SUSTAINABLE WEIGHT LOSS MACHINE - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/pl-machine-reg

▶️ FREE EMOTIONAL EATING PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE - https://pinkfortitude.mykajabi.com/weight-quiz

▶️ JOIN THE BREAK EMOTIONAL EATING ACCELERATOR - 

https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/break-emotional-eating-accelerator

▶️ APPLY FOR ELITE-LEVEL PRIVATE COACHING WITH HOLLY - https://wkf.ms/3XtDIKV

▶️QUIT SUGAR IN 5 DAYS - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/register-for-sugar

▶️ SUBSCRIBE TO SUBSTACK - https://substack.com/@hollybertone

▶️ FOLLOW HOLLY BERTONE ON INSTAGRAM - @holly.bertone 

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In today’s episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what I observed inside a room full of seven-figure entrepreneurs - multi-million dollar business owners - and how those same success patterns apply to healing your relationship with food, breaking free from emotional eating, losing weight, and finally creating the healthiest version of you. 

These millionaire patterns are about building a legacy with your body, just like they’ve done with their businesses. If you ever wanted to know what separates the winners, if you want the insider secrets that go on behind the Zoom squares so that you can apply these same principles to your weight and health, this episode is for you.

Together, we will unpack:

• The 3 millionaire patterns that can transform your weight loss and health journey.
• The mindset shift that high performers use to break through plateaus.
• Why information is the killer of all dreams.

Connect with Holly:

▶️ BECOME A SUSTAINABLE WEIGHT LOSS MACHINE - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/pl-machine-reg

▶️ FREE EMOTIONAL EATING PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE - https://pinkfortitude.mykajabi.com/weight-quiz

▶️ JOIN THE BREAK EMOTIONAL EATING ACCELERATOR - 

https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/break-emotional-eating-accelerator

▶️ APPLY FOR ELITE-LEVEL PRIVATE COACHING WITH HOLLY - https://wkf.ms/3XtDIKV

▶️QUIT SUGAR IN 5 DAYS - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/register-for-sugar

▶️ SUBSCRIBE TO SUBSTACK - https://substack.com/@hollybertone

▶️ FOLLOW HOLLY BERTONE ON INSTAGRAM - @holly.bertone 

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If you are curious about what it takes to truly heal - I'm talking mind-body and spirit, and you're secretly wondering if there's something more out there than just conventional advice, today's conversation is for you. 

My guest today is Amy Stark. She is a Master Healer, author of the brand new book Bridging the Divide, A Powerful Path to Personal Transformation by Healing the Mind, Body, and Spirit, and host of The Stark Transformation Show. For two decades, she’s helped thousands of people heal from trauma, rewire limiting beliefs, and reclaim their power, blending neuroscience, energy medicine, and intuitive wisdom. 

Now, I’ll be honest, this conversation may sound a little “woo woo” at first… but I invite you to keep an open mind, because everything we talk about is backed by science. That’s the magic of Amy’s work. She bridges the divide between spirit and science so that true, lasting transformation becomes possible.

Together, we will unpack:

• How Amy went from chronically ill to thriving by rewiring her beliefs and aligning mind, body, and spirit.
• The science behind energy healing: how Amy changed the structure of water with her mind (and proved it in a lab).
• Why people-pleasing and perfectionism are actually trauma responses, and how to finally break free.
• What EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) really does for trauma, and why it’s a game-changer for healing without reliving the pain.
• How Bridging the Divide blends neuroscience, energy medicine, and spiritual insight into a practical roadmap for lasting transformation. 

Amy Stark is a Master Healer, author, and host of The Stark Transformation Show, known for bridging science and spirit to create lasting transformation.

For almost two decades, Amy has helped thousands of people around the world release trauma, rewrite limiting beliefs, and reclaim their power using a unique fusion of energy medicine, neuroscience, and intuitive wisdom.

With a degree in Psychology, a Master's in Education, and a certification in Reiki, EFT, and Reconnective Healing, Amy is a Certified Energy Practitioner who brings both rigor and soul to her work. A passionate biohacker and lifelong student of consciousness, she empowers people to align with their highest potential - mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

Her groundbreaking book, Bridging the Divide: A Powerful Path to Personal Transformation by Healing the Mind, Body and Spirit, is a blueprint for deep healing and awakening, offering readers a powerful integration of scientific insight and spiritual truth.

Connect with Amy Stark:

▶️ Website - https://www.starktransformation.com/ 

▶️ Book: Bridging the Divide - https://amzn.to/3RDrJa2

▶️ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Starktransformation

▶️ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/starktransformation/

▶️ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@starktransformation

▶️ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@starktransformation

▶️ LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/amy-starktransformation/

Connect with Holly:

▶️ BECOME A SUSTAINABLE WEIGHT LOSS MACHINE - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/pl-machine-reg

▶️ FREE EMOTIONAL EATING PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE - https://pinkfortitude.mykajabi.com/weight-quiz

▶️ JOIN THE BREAK EMOTIONAL EATING ACCELERATOR - 

https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/break-emotional-eating-accelerator

▶️ APPLY FOR ELITE-LEVEL PRIVATE COACHING WITH HOLLY - https://wkf.ms/3XtDIKV

▶️QUIT SUGAR IN 5 DAYS - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/register-for-sugar

▶️ SUBSCRIBE TO SUBSTACK - https://substack.com/@hollybertone

▶️ FOLLOW HOLLY BERTONE ON INSTAGRAM - @holly.bertone 

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You know those days when you’ve hit your breaking point and you throw yourself a pity party… and food is the guest of honor? I’m talking sweat pants, messy bun, and diving head first into a pint of Ben and Jerry’s kind of day? If that’s been your day, or your week… or honestly, your life… this episode’s for you. Keep listening. Because today’s pity party’s got a plot twist.

Together, we will unpack:

• Why your late-night snack attack isn’t a lack of willpower. 
• The real reason emotional eating spikes at night.
• How your Good Girl Spiral leads straight to the emotional eating food buffet.
• The neuroscience of why you raid the pantry when life feels too life-ey (and how to interrupt the cycle).
• The surprising connection between midlife stress and the food you can’t stop eating.

Connect with Holly:

▶️ BECOME A SUSTAINABLE WEIGHT LOSS MACHINE - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/pl-machine-reg

▶️ FREE EMOTIONAL EATING PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE - https://pinkfortitude.mykajabi.com/weight-quiz

▶️ JOIN THE BREAK EMOTIONAL EATING ACCELERATOR - 

https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/break-emotional-eating-accelerator

▶️ APPLY FOR ELITE-LEVEL PRIVATE COACHING WITH HOLLY - https://wkf.ms/3XtDIKV

▶️QUIT SUGAR IN 5 DAYS - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/register-for-sugar

▶️ SUBSCRIBE TO SUBSTACK - https://substack.com/@hollybertone

▶️ FOLLOW HOLLY BERTONE ON INSTAGRAM - @holly.bertone 

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I’ve had so many women reach out to me recently and say, I don’t even know where to start anymore. And honestly, I get it. Because when you’ve tried all of the diets and nothing works, and then Dr. Google has 47 different answers for you, it’s easier to just give up. 

But... we don’t give up around here. I’ve got 5 simple steps for you that you can take right now that will get you started in the right direction. 

Together, we'll unpack:

• Why saying “I don’t even know where to start” isn’t a failure; it’s a symptom of a broken system.
• The 5 rebel-tested steps to get started, regardless of your diet or protocol. And without counting a single calorie.
• How your brain’s threat response keeps you trapped in the start/quit cycle.
• The truth about motivation (and why it’s the last thing you should rely on).
• What Reese’s cups, push pins, and a beat-up Dodge Dart can teach you about building consistency.
• Why you don’t need another plan. You need a Pla (yes, like Phoebe from Friends).
• How to finally become the woman who actually follows through.

Connect with Holly:

▶️ BECOME A SUSTAINABLE WEIGHT LOSS MACHINE - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/pl-machine-reg

▶️ FREE EMOTIONAL EATING PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE - https://pinkfortitude.mykajabi.com/weight-quiz

▶️ JOIN THE BREAK EMOTIONAL EATING ACCELERATOR - 

https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/break-emotional-eating-accelerator

▶️ APPLY FOR ELITE-LEVEL PRIVATE COACHING WITH HOLLY - https://wkf.ms/3XtDIKV

▶️QUIT SUGAR IN 5 DAYS - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/register-for-sugar

▶️ SUBSCRIBE TO SUBSTACK - https://substack.com/@hollybertone

▶️ FOLLOW HOLLY BERTONE ON INSTAGRAM - @holly.bertone 

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The other day, one of my coaches asked me a question that stopped me right in my tracks. That question… and my answer… surprised me. And it changed everything. And it’s going to change everything for you. This is one of the most powerful episodes you’re going to hear on this podcast.

Together, we'll unpack:

• The question that stopped me cold. And changed the way I coach forever.
• Why emotional eating has nothing to do with food… and everything to do with what you’re hiding.
• How the Reticular Activating System (RAS) is silently running your cravings on autopilot.
• The Chandler Bing Syndrome: could it BE any more obvious that you’re trying to keep it together while secretly unraveling?
• How childhood bullying, people-pleasing, and perfectionism are connected to your nighttime snack attacks.
• What science reveals about why willpower alone will never win.
• Why the weight you’re carrying isn’t just on your body… it’s in your secrets. And you’re eating them alive. 
• The Secret Shame Cycle: how food becomes the only “safe” place for your pain.

Connect with Holly:

▶️ BECOME A SUSTAINABLE WEIGHT LOSS MACHINE - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/pl-machine-reg

▶️ FREE EMOTIONAL EATING PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE - https://pinkfortitude.mykajabi.com/weight-quiz

▶️ JOIN THE BREAK EMOTIONAL EATING ACCELERATOR - 

https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/break-emotional-eating-accelerator

▶️ APPLY FOR ELITE-LEVEL PRIVATE COACHING WITH HOLLY - https://wkf.ms/3XtDIKV

▶️QUIT SUGAR IN 5 DAYS - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/register-for-sugar

▶️ SUBSCRIBE TO SUBSTACK - https://substack.com/@hollybertone

▶️ FOLLOW HOLLY BERTONE ON INSTAGRAM - @holly.bertone 

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If this is your 5th April in a row, listening to podcast episodes and scrolling Instagram looking for summer body magic... and you’re still no closer to actually achieving it, this episode is for you.  

I’m about to give you the 3 renegade moves I’d make right now if I wanted a legit, strong, confident summer body in the next 9 weeks. And spoiler alert: none of them involve celery juice, Booty building VHS tapes, or pretending cottage cheese is ice cream. 

Together, we will unpack:

• The #1 lie you've been sold about getting a summer body (and how it's keeping you stuck in the same cycle every spring).
• The real reason you keep reaching for the cookie dough after a Target run.
• How your stress, hormones, and environment hijack your brain before cravings even show up.
• The 3 Renegade Moves that’ll have you ditching diet drama, and actually fueling your body so that you can finally build a body that lasts longer than a beach season.

Connect with Holly:

▶️ BECOME A SUSTAINABLE WEIGHT LOSS MACHINE - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/pl-machine-reg

▶️ FREE EMOTIONAL EATING PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE - https://pinkfortitude.mykajabi.com/weight-quiz

▶️ JOIN THE BREAK EMOTIONAL EATING ACCELERATOR - 

https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/break-emotional-eating-accelerator

▶️ APPLY FOR ELITE-LEVEL PRIVATE COACHING WITH HOLLY - https://wkf.ms/3XtDIKV

▶️QUIT SUGAR IN 5 DAYS - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/register-for-sugar

▶️ SUBSCRIBE TO SUBSTACK - https://substack.com/@hollybertone

▶️ FOLLOW HOLLY BERTONE ON INSTAGRAM - @holly.bertone 

If this is your vibe, be sure to hit the follow button where you are listening and also tap those 5 stars ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ and leave a great review.

You run your career like a boss.

But when it comes to your weight? You’ve been treating it like a side project, hoping motivation or the next diet will finally fix it.

Because your weight loss?  It needs a CEO mindset.

And to show you exactly what I mean…
I’m sharing a story from my FBI days… a story I’ve never told before… about… well… you’ll just have to keep listening. And this story will change how you think about weight loss forever.

Together, we will unpack:

• The #1 mistake high-achieving women make when trying to lose weight (and why it always backfires).
• The diet culture trap that makes you believe you’re in control… when really, you’re just being played.
• Three hidden patterns running the show that cause you to keep quitting (and you don’t even realize it).
• How to ditch the “starting fresh on Monday” mentality.
• Why your past failures don’t predict your future success—(unless you keep following diet culture’s rules).

Connect with Holly:

▶️ BECOME A SUSTAINABLE WEIGHT LOSS MACHINE - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/pl-machine-reg

▶️ FREE EMOTIONAL EATING PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE - https://pinkfortitude.mykajabi.com/weight-quiz

▶️ JOIN THE BREAK EMOTIONAL EATING ACCELERATOR - 

https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/break-emotional-eating-accelerator

▶️ APPLY FOR ELITE-LEVEL PRIVATE COACHING WITH HOLLY - https://wkf.ms/3XtDIKV

▶️QUIT SUGAR IN 5 DAYS - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/register-for-sugar

▶️ SUBSCRIBE TO SUBSTACK - https://substack.com/@hollybertone

▶️ FOLLOW HOLLY BERTONE ON INSTAGRAM - @holly.bertone 

If this is your vibe, be sure to hit the follow button where you are listening and also tap those 5 stars ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ and leave a great review.

Have you ever wondered… how you can run your entire life like a boss - meetings at work, closing deals, managing teams, juggling family responsibilities, and you’re also a pillar of your community… but when it comes to losing weight, you feel like a total amateur?

Here’s the thing. The same habits that make you successful in your career and your life are actually working against you when it comes to weight loss.

And today, I’m going to break it down for you. So if you’re tired of feeling like the smartest woman in the room except when it comes to your weight, then this episode is about to change everything.

Together, we will unpack:

• The 3 career habits that make you unstoppable at work… but completely sabotage weight loss.
• Why your high-achiever mindset is keeping you stuck in the diet cycle… and how to fix it.
• How perfectionism backfires when it comes to sustainable weight loss.
• Why the secret to losing weight isn’t working harder… it’s playing a different game.

Connect with Holly:

▶️ BECOME A SUSTAINABLE WEIGHT LOSS MACHINE - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/pl-machine-reg

▶️ FREE EMOTIONAL EATING PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE - https://pinkfortitude.mykajabi.com/weight-quiz

▶️ JOIN THE BREAK EMOTIONAL EATING ACCELERATOR - 

https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/break-emotional-eating-accelerator

▶️ APPLY FOR ELITE-LEVEL PRIVATE COACHING WITH HOLLY - https://wkf.ms/3XtDIKV

▶️QUIT SUGAR IN 5 DAYS - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/register-for-sugar

▶️ SUBSCRIBE TO SUBSTACK - https://substack.com/@hollybertone

▶️ FOLLOW HOLLY BERTONE ON INSTAGRAM - @holly.bertone 

If this is your vibe, be sure to hit the follow button where you are listening and also tap those 5 stars ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ and leave a great review.