Weight Loss Forensics: FBI Tactics to Investigate Cravings, Overeating, and Why Diets Suck

Weight Loss Forensics: FBI Tactics to Investigate Cravings, Overeating, and Why Diets Suck

By Holly Bertone, PMP, CNHP, and Emotional Eating and Weight Loss CoachAlternative HealthHealth & FitnessMental HealthEducationSelf-Improvement
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Weight Loss Forensics: FBI Tactics to Investigate Cravings, Overeating, and Why Diets Suck episodes

  • 159: They Said Weight Loss Would Be Easy. They Lied.

    They told you weight loss was easy. They lied.

    They said if you just ate less, moved more, and had more willpower, you'd lose weight. That if you failed? It was your fault.

    But if that were true… why do so many successful, high-achieving women struggle with this? If weight loss was just about discipline, why does motivation disappear the second things get hard? If it was just about “trying harder,” why hasn’t that worked yet?

    Maybe the real problem isn’t you. Maybe the system was rigged long before you ever started.


    Together, we will unpack:

    • The #1 mistake high-achieving women make when trying to lose weight (and why it always backfires).
    • The diet culture trap that makes you believe you’re in control… when really, you’re just being played.
    • 3 hidden patterns running the show that cause you to keep quitting (and you don’t even realize it).
    • How to ditch the “starting fresh on Monday” mentality.
    • Why your past failures don’t predict your future success—(unless you keep following diet culture’s rules).


    Connect with Holly:


    ▶️ BECOME A SUSTAINABLE WEIGHT LOSS MACHINE - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/pl-machine-reg


    ▶️ FREE EMOTIONAL EATING PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE - https://pinkfortitude.mykajabi.com/weight-quiz


    ▶️ JOIN THE BREAK EMOTIONAL EATING ACCELERATOR - 

    https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/break-emotional-eating-accelerator


    ▶️ APPLY FOR ELITE-LEVEL PRIVATE COACHING WITH HOLLY - https://wkf.ms/3XtDIKV


    ▶️QUIT SUGAR IN 5 DAYS - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/register-for-sugar


    ▶️ SUBSCRIBE TO SUBSTACK - https://substack.com/@hollybertone


    ▶️ FOLLOW HOLLY BERTONE ON INSTAGRAM - @holly.bertone 


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    20 min
  • 158: You Have to Fix Yourself First - Break the Diet Rules #5

    If you’ve ever felt like you have to “fix yourself” before you can lose weight… if you’ve been waiting until you’re more disciplined, less emotional, or have more time in your schedule so you can just be better in some way before you finally succeed… then this episode is for you.

    In today’s episode of Your Midlife Comeback Story, we’re going to challenge the belief that weight loss is about fixing yourself. Instead, you’ll learn why the key to lasting weight loss isn’t perfection—it’s uncovering what’s been holding you back and working with your brain and body as they are right now.

    If you’re ready to let go of the pressure, stop waiting for “the right time,” and finally start seeing real, lasting results, then keep listening.


    Together, we will unpack:

    • The real reason high-achieving women believe they have to “fix themselves” before they can lose weight.
    • The hidden ways perfectionism & people-pleasing sabotage your success.
    • The 10 ways high-achieving women try to ‘fix themselves’ (and why it backfires).
    • How diet culture profits from making women feel like they’re broken.
    • Why more discipline isn’t the answer (and what actually is).


    Connect with Holly:


    ▶️ BECOME A SUSTAINABLE WEIGHT LOSS MACHINE - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/pl-machine-reg


    ▶️ FREE EMOTIONAL EATING PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE - https://pinkfortitude.mykajabi.com/weight-quiz


    ▶️ JOIN THE BREAK EMOTIONAL EATING ACCELERATOR - 

    https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/break-emotional-eating-accelerator


    ▶️ APPLY FOR ELITE-LEVEL PRIVATE COACHING WITH HOLLY - https://wkf.ms/3XtDIKV


    ▶️QUIT SUGAR IN 5 DAYS - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/register-for-sugar


    ▶️ SUBSCRIBE TO SUBSTACK - https://substack.com/@hollybertone


    ▶️ FOLLOW HOLLY BERTONE ON INSTAGRAM - @holly.bertone 


    If this is your vibe, be sure to hit the follow button where you are listening and also tap those 5 stars ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ and leave a great review.

    21 min
  • 157: You Can't Be Strong and Feminine - Break the Diet Rules #4

    If you’ve ever felt like you had to choose between being strong and being feminine, you’re not alone. Society has fed us the message that strength belongs to men, while femininity is all about being soft, delicate, and accommodating. But what if that’s not actually true?

    In today’s episode of Your Midlife Comeback Story, we’re going to answer the question: Who made the rule that strength and femininity can’t coexist? We’re tackling this issue in the boardroom, the gym, and the kitchen.

    If you’re ready to own your strength and fuel your body inside and out like the powerhouse you are, then this episode is for you.


    Together, we will unpack:

    • The role of diet culture & corporate culture that keeps women playing small
    • The 80s power-woman era vs. today—what changed?
    • Will lifting heavy weights make you too muscular? 
    • How do you determine what your biggest midlife flex is?
    • How embracing strength & femininity makes you magnetic and influential.


    Connect with Holly:


    ▶️ BECOME A SUSTAINABLE WEIGHT LOSS MACHINE - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/pl-machine-reg


    ▶️ FREE EMOTIONAL EATING PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE - https://pinkfortitude.mykajabi.com/weight-quiz


    ▶️ JOIN THE BREAK EMOTIONAL EATING ACCELERATOR - 

    https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/break-emotional-eating-accelerator


    ▶️ APPLY FOR ELITE-LEVEL PRIVATE COACHING WITH HOLLY - https://wkf.ms/3XtDIKV


    ▶️QUIT SUGAR IN 5 DAYS - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/register-for-sugar


    ▶️ SUBSCRIBE TO SUBSTACK - https://substack.com/@hollybertone


    ▶️ FOLLOW HOLLY BERTONE ON INSTAGRAM - @holly.bertone 


    If this is your vibe, be sure to hit the follow button where you are listening and also tap those 5 stars ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ and leave a great review.

    19 min
  • 156: Weight Loss Must be Hard - Break the Diet Rules #3

    If you’ve been struggling to lose weight and you feel like it’s an uphill battle… you’re not alone. And you might be making it harder than it actually needs to be. You already have all the responsibilities of life pulling you in a hundred different directions. The last thing you need is for weight loss to feel like another grueling and exhausting task. 

    In today’s episode of Your Midlife Comeback Story, we’re going to answer the question: Does weight loss REALLY have to be so hard? You’ll learn why struggling and suffering isn’t a prerequisite for success… and the secret shift that you can make today that will help weight loss become effortless and enjoyable. 

    If you’re ready to stop the diet struggle and make lasting change in a way that fits your life, then this episode is for you.


    Together, we will unpack:

    • The secret behind why dieting gets harder instead of easier.
    • Why the ‘no pain-no gain’ mentality is failing you.
    • How to break free from the restriction-binge cycle.
    • The secret to losing weight without relying on willpower.


    Connect with Holly:


    ▶️ BECOME A SUSTAINABLE WEIGHT LOSS MACHINE - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/pl-machine-reg


    ▶️ FREE EMOTIONAL EATING PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE - https://pinkfortitude.mykajabi.com/weight-quiz


    ▶️ JOIN THE BREAK EMOTIONAL EATING ACCELERATOR - 

    https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/break-emotional-eating-accelerator


    ▶️ APPLY FOR ELITE-LEVEL PRIVATE COACHING WITH HOLLY - https://wkf.ms/3XtDIKV


    ▶️QUIT SUGAR IN 5 DAYS - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/register-for-sugar


    ▶️ SUBSCRIBE TO SUBSTACK - https://substack.com/@hollybertone


    ▶️ FOLLOW HOLLY BERTONE ON INSTAGRAM - @holly.bertone 


    If this is your vibe, be sure to hit the follow button where you are listening and also tap those 5 stars ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ and leave a great review.

    16 min
  • 155: Play Nice with Your Emotional Eating Triggers - Break the Diet Rules #2

    If you’ve ever found yourself knee-deep in a pint of ice cream or halfway through a Chick-Fil-A drive-thru before you even realized what was happening… then today’s episode is for you.

    In today’s episode of Your Midlife Comeback Story, we’re going to answer the question: How do you stop emotional eating when triggers keep pulling you back in?

    You’ll also learn why avoiding triggers doesn’t work, why willpower isn’t the answer, and the exact strategy that high-achieving women use to take back control.

    If you’re ready to stop being hijacked by emotional eating triggers and take back control of your choices, then this episode is for you.


    Together, we will unpack:

    • How to stop emotional eating when triggers keep pulling you back in.
    • What three things do high-achieving women do to try to fix emotional eating and why don't they actually work?
    • Why avoiding or suppressing triggers isn't the answer and what you can do instead.


    Connect with Holly:


    ▶️ BECOME A SUSTAINABLE WEIGHT LOSS MACHINE - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/pl-machine-reg


    ▶️ FREE EMOTIONAL EATING PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE - https://pinkfortitude.mykajabi.com/weight-quiz


    ▶️ JOIN THE BREAK EMOTIONAL EATING ACCELERATOR - 

    https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/break-emotional-eating-accelerator


    ▶️ APPLY FOR ELITE-LEVEL PRIVATE COACHING WITH HOLLY - https://wkf.ms/3XtDIKV


    ▶️QUIT SUGAR IN 5 DAYS - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/register-for-sugar


    ▶️ SUBSCRIBE TO SUBSTACK - https://substack.com/@hollybertone


    ▶️ FOLLOW HOLLY BERTONE ON INSTAGRAM - @holly.bertone 


    If this is your vibe, be sure to hit the follow button where you are listening and also tap those 5 stars ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ and leave a great review.

    19 min
  • 154: The Shocking Truth About Weight Loss Experts – Break the Diet Rules #1

    If you’re tired of finding yourself stuck in this cycle of big diet promises that never work long-term, then it’s time to rebel against the industry that’s sabotaging your success.

    In today’s episode of Your Midlife Comeback Story, we’re answering the question: Why does the expert’s diet advice seem to work for everyone else, but not for you?

    You’ll learn the secret behind why the weight loss industry is designed for you to fail, how these diets ignore your real-life challenges, and how you can determine if the expert or the product is in your best interest, or if it’s designed to keep you dependent on their rules.

    If you’re ready to create a weight loss journey that works for your unique life, then this episode is for you. Let’s go!


    Together, we will unpack:

    • Why expert diet advice seems to work for everyone, except you.
    • How does blindly following the experts lead to failure?
    • Why being a Radiant Rebel is the best way to ditch diet culture and create your own sustainable path.
    • How to critically evaluate the advice you’re given and start trusting yourself to take control of your health.


    Mentioned Resources:

    ▶️ Episode 153: These 7 Basics Crush Every Diet. Every Time. - https://pinkfortitude.mykajabi.com/blog/episode-153

    Connect with Holly:


    ▶️ BECOME A SUSTAINABLE WEIGHT LOSS MACHINE - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/pl-machine-reg


    ▶️ FREE EMOTIONAL EATING PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE - https://pinkfortitude.mykajabi.com/weight-quiz


    ▶️ JOIN THE BREAK EMOTIONAL EATING ACCELERATOR - 

    https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/break-emotional-eating-accelerator


    ▶️ APPLY FOR ELITE-LEVEL PRIVATE COACHING WITH HOLLY - https://wkf.ms/3XtDIKV


    ▶️QUIT SUGAR IN 5 DAYS - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/register-for-sugar


    ▶️ SUBSCRIBE TO SUBSTACK - https://substack.com/@hollybertone


    ▶️ FOLLOW HOLLY BERTONE ON INSTAGRAM - @holly.bertone 


    If this is your vibe, be sure to hit the follow button where you are listening and also tap those 5 stars ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ and leave a great review.

    21 min
  • 153: These 7 Basics Crush Every Diet. Every Time.

    If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the endless diet trends and complicated health advice out there… then you’re not alone. As a busy, high-achieving woman juggling your career, family, and everything in between, it’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking the secret to health is in the next “quick fix.” 

    In today’s episode of Your Midlife Comeback Story, we’re going to answer the question: What if the key to your healthiest, most vibrant self isn’t about doing more, but about mastering the basics? You’ll learn how to turn your body into a MACHINE by focusing on seven foundational needs that simplify your journey to eating better, feeling better, and losing weight. 

    If you’re ready to create a life where healthy habits feel effortless and sustainable, this episode is for you. 


    Together, we will unpack:

    • What is the key to your healthiest, most vibrant self?
    • How does focusing on the basic fundamentals every day help you reach your goals?
    • What are the 7 Basic Life needs, and how do they turn your body into a MACHINE?


    Connect with Holly:


    ▶️ BECOME A SUSTAINABLE WEIGHT LOSS MACHINE - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/pl-machine-reg


    ▶️ FREE EMOTIONAL EATING PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE - https://pinkfortitude.mykajabi.com/weight-quiz


    ▶️ JOIN THE BREAK EMOTIONAL EATING ACCELERATOR - 

    https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/break-emotional-eating-accelerator


    ▶️ APPLY FOR ELITE-LEVEL PRIVATE COACHING WITH HOLLY - https://wkf.ms/3XtDIKV


    ▶️QUIT SUGAR IN 5 DAYS - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/register-for-sugar


    ▶️ SUBSCRIBE TO SUBSTACK - https://substack.com/@hollybertone


    ▶️ FOLLOW HOLLY BERTONE ON INSTAGRAM - @holly.bertone 


    If this is your vibe, be sure to hit the follow button where you are listening and also tap those 5 stars ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ and leave a great review.

    26 min
  • 152: Mid-January Weight Loss Reality Check

    If you’re feeling like your New Year’s resolution to lose weight is already not working, and you’re stuck in that cycle of guilt and frustration… you’re not alone. Maybe the excitement you felt on January 1st is completely gone, it’s more difficult to stay consistent… and now you’re wondering if you’ve got what it takes to make this stick.

    In today’s episode of Your Midlife Comeback Story, we’re going to answer the question… Why does the Mid-January Slump happen, and how can you reignite your motivation to stay on track? You’ll also learn why perfection is your enemy, why those slip-ups you’re beating yourself up over are actually your best teachers, and how to stop falling for the same shiny-object solutions that never work.

    If you’re ready to stop the self-sabotage, build real momentum, and finally feel like you’ve got this, then stick around - because this episode is for you.


    Together, we will unpack:

    • What is the Mid-January Slump, and what can you do to get through it?
    • What are the three diet traps women fall into?
    • What are three simple shifts you can make to move forward?
    • Why is consistency and staying ahead of the threat so important?


    Connect with Holly:


    ▶️ BECOME A SUSTAINABLE WEIGHT LOSS MACHINE - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/pl-machine-reg


    ▶️ FREE EMOTIONAL EATING PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE - https://pinkfortitude.mykajabi.com/weight-quiz


    ▶️ JOIN THE BREAK EMOTIONAL EATING ACCELERATOR - 

    https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/break-emotional-eating-accelerator


    ▶️ APPLY FOR ELITE-LEVEL PRIVATE COACHING WITH HOLLY - https://wkf.ms/3XtDIKV


    ▶️QUIT SUGAR IN 5 DAYS - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/register-for-sugar


    ▶️ SUBSCRIBE TO SUBSTACK - https://substack.com/@hollybertone


    ▶️ FOLLOW HOLLY BERTONE ON INSTAGRAM - @holly.bertone 


    If this is your vibe, be sure to hit the follow button where you are listening and also tap those 5 stars ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ and leave a great review.

    17 min
  • 151: Is Your “Healthy” Pantry Making You Gain Weight? Replay of Day 1 Break Emotional Eating Challenge

    Is your so-called 'healthy' pantry actually making you gain weight? What if those go-to staples and snacks are doing more harm than good? 

    In today's episode, you’ll learn how to spot the hidden triggers in your environment, so you can set the stage to break emotional eating habits. This week’s episode of Your Midlife Comeback Story is a little different. You are actually getting the replay of Day 1 from my Break Emotional Eating 4-Day Challenge. We had 500 ladies register and the feedback has been amazing. So I wanted to share this with you. 

    If you missed the challenge, you can still watch the replay videos all weekend long. Go to breakemotionaleating.com to register. But do it now because the videos are only up through Sunday night, January 12th. Alright, enjoy the replay.


    Together, we will unpack:

    • How to spot the food silently sabotaging your progress.
    • What to keep and what to toss for a healthier, supportive food environment.
    • The surprising psychological shift that happens when your pantry aligns with your goals.  


    Mentioned Resources:

    ▶️ Break Emotional Eating 4-Day Challenge - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/register-for-break-emotional-eating

    Connect with Holly:


    ▶️ BECOME A SUSTAINABLE WEIGHT LOSS MACHINE - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/pl-machine-reg


    ▶️ FREE EMOTIONAL EATING PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE - https://pinkfortitude.mykajabi.com/weight-quiz


    ▶️ JOIN THE BREAK EMOTIONAL EATING ACCELERATOR - 

    https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/break-emotional-eating-accelerator


    ▶️ APPLY FOR ELITE-LEVEL PRIVATE COACHING WITH HOLLY - https://wkf.ms/3XtDIKV


    ▶️QUIT SUGAR IN 5 DAYS - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/register-for-sugar


    ▶️ SUBSCRIBE TO SUBSTACK - https://substack.com/@hollybertone


    ▶️ FOLLOW HOLLY BERTONE ON INSTAGRAM - @holly.bertone 


    If this is your vibe, be sure to hit the follow button where you are listening and also tap those 5 stars ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ and leave a great review.

    41 min
  • 150: The 5 Rebellious Weight Loss Rules to Break in 2025

    What if the rules you’ve been taught about weight loss aren't just wrong, they’re the very things holding you back?

    In today’s episode of Your Midlife Comeback Story, we’re going to answer the question… what are the 5 rebellious weight loss rules to break in 2025? I guarantee you, these 5 rules aren’t what you are expecting. They’re not the typical list you see this time of year, and you aren’t going to hear these from anyone else. These aren’t just tweaks or small adjustments; we’re going full-on rebellion against the diet and weight loss industry that has failed you.

    If you’re ready to stop playing by rules designed for someone else’s life, and instead, embrace your inner rebel to create a path that works for you, this episode is your game-changer.


    Together, we will unpack:

    • What are the 5 rebellious weight loss rules to break in 2025?
    • Why doesn't the standard diet advice you have probably followed in the past work, and what can you do instead?
    • Why is weight loss not just about weight, and how can we identify and conquer our triggers?


    Connect with Holly:


    ▶️ BECOME A SUSTAINABLE WEIGHT LOSS MACHINE - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/pl-machine-reg


    ▶️ FREE EMOTIONAL EATING PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE - https://pinkfortitude.mykajabi.com/weight-quiz


    ▶️ JOIN THE BREAK EMOTIONAL EATING ACCELERATOR - 

    https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/break-emotional-eating-accelerator


    ▶️ APPLY FOR ELITE-LEVEL PRIVATE COACHING WITH HOLLY - https://wkf.ms/3XtDIKV


    ▶️QUIT SUGAR IN 5 DAYS - https://academy.pinkfortitude.com/register-for-sugar


    ▶️ SUBSCRIBE TO SUBSTACK - https://substack.com/@hollybertone


    ▶️ FOLLOW HOLLY BERTONE ON INSTAGRAM - @holly.bertone 


    If this is your vibe, be sure to hit the follow button where you are listening and also tap those 5 stars ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ and leave a great review.

    28 min

About Weight Loss Forensics: FBI Tactics to Investigate Cravings, Overeating, and Why Diets Suck

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Weight Loss Forensics is the go-to podcast where we use FBI tactics to investigate food cravings, overeating, and why diets suck. 


Hosted by Holly Bertone, PMP, and former FBI…

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