Building Resilience

Why You Procrastinate (It's Not What You Think)


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Do you ever sit down to do something important and suddenly find yourself reorganising drawers, researching holidays, or staring at a blank screen while silently asking, “Why can’t I just do this?”


In this episode of the Building Resilience Podcast, Leah Davidson reframes procrastination as a nervous system response, not a motivation problem or personal failing. Rather than being about laziness or lack of discipline, procrastination often shows up when your nervous system senses emotional or social risk and moves into protection.


Through a nervous system informed lens, Leah explores why pushing harder rarely works and what actually helps instead. You will learn how awareness, regulation, and small safe steps can create real momentum without shame or pressure.



We’ll explore:

  • Procrastination is not a character flaw, it is a nervous system response
  • When a task feels emotionally risky, the body will choose delay over action
  • Discipline cannot override a nervous system that does not feel safe
  • Perfectionism is often protection, not a lack of care or effort
  • Overthinking is a way the nervous system tries to create certainty
  • Avoidance is information, not failure
  • Regulation creates momentum more effectively than pressure
  • Small starts teach the nervous system that beginning can be safe

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MENTAL HEALTH STATIONERY - RESILIENT BRILLIANCE PRODUCTS:

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