this is your gentle winter reset!! we’re talking cozy home vibes, drink rituals, adhd-friendly movement, winter mom life, and the small things that actually help when the dark months feel heavy.

WELCOMING ALL THE:

🤎 type b girlies who thrive in summer but struggle in winter

🧠 adhd dreamers who lose motivation when it gets dark at 4pm

☕ moms feeling stir-crazy, overstimulated & stuck inside

🕯️ cozy girls trying to romanticize winter instead of resent it

whether you’re feeling seasonally low, low-energy, stuck in doom scrolling, or just craving sunshine — this episode is about creating soft, realistic winter habits that make the season feel a little more doable!

timestamps:

0:00 missing the sun + winter reality check

3:26 romanticizing winter (vibes + ambience)

6:45 habit stacking your cozy routines (essential oils)

12:02 drink rituals as self care

15:40 self care station: drinks

18:05 winter movement ideas

21:08 winter mom life

23:39 my winter must-haves + favourite products!!

💌 FULL BLOG POST:

https://victoriaharderxo.com/2026/02/22/winter-self-care-for-the-type-b-girl/

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WINTER FAVES LINEUP:

Salty Face self tanner (my glow all winter): go.shopmy.us/p-37227899

UltraHuman Ring (sleep + steps tracker): http://ultrahuman.com/victoriaharderxo

Sage Wellness oils (liquid sunshine blend): https://shopmy.us/shop/collections/4069611

Revive Oils (non-MLM essential oil dupe brand): https://www.revive-eo.com/?rfsn=8945782.676df4

Blume Super Belly – strawberry hibiscus: https://amzn.to/4rWiUIy

Sunrise alarm clock: https://amzn.to/4aZtOrf

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OTHER WINTER RESET CONTENT:

• how to not be seasonally depressed → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CTJSTPMV5jE&t=767s

• digital life reset → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VZDxWyTjAmg&t=327s

• we are getting un-addicted to our phones → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPk6EHc0jzE&t=191s

🎧 about the podcast:

Hot Mess Habits is the podcast for the high-achieving, want-to-be-organized girly who struggles with consistency and traditional productivity advice. we chat habits, routines, cozy resets, and current obsessions for the everyday Type B girl. new episodes every week.

music license: MB01HHDQWNKPKOT

LINKS

Instagram: https://instagram.com/victoriaharderxo

Podcast Instagram: https://instagram.com/hotmesshabits

TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@victoriaharderxo

SHOPMY (gift guides, WFH must-haves, mom life faves): https://shopmy.us/shop/victoriaharderxo

Amazon CANADA storefront (best gift guides!!): https://www.amazon.ca/shop/leviandvictoria

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💖 about me

I’m Victoria — a work-from-home mom, content creator, and routine-obsessed Type B girly living in British Columbia, Canada. Here you’ll find realistic habits, WFH vlogs, cozy lifestyle content, ADHD-friendly routines + mom-life resets.