This episode is going to hit different. I'm joined by therapist and domestic violence survivor Aishia Grevenberg to destroy the most dangerous myth keeping women trapped: that your love can heal an abusive man.

What You'll Learn:

• Why high-functioning, successful women become targets for abusive men

• The childhood conditioning that teaches us to "perform" for love

• How abusers weaponize therapy and self-improvement narratives to keep you hooked

• Why individual therapy doesn't work for abusers (it's not a communication problem - it's a control problem)

• The exact moments we both realized we had to leave

Key Takeaways:

Abuse is a choice, not a reaction to your behavior

The desire to "fix" him comes from being conditioned to earn love through compliance

Self-love isn't bath bombs - it's protecting yourself and refusing to tolerate harm

No amount of love can stop someone from choosing to be abusive

This conversation gets real about the psychological traps that keep us stuck - not just the financial ones. If you've ever thought "if I just love him enough" or "once his stress goes away, he'll change," this episode will shatter those illusions and help you see the truth.

Guest:

Aishia Grevenberg - Therapist and domestic violence survivor who knows firsthand the duality of advocating against abuse publicly while enduring it privately.

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