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Some people keep their infidelity situations going because they don't know what they want. They think being in this state of not knowing offers them some protection, as they haven't made the difficult decision yet. However, whether you know what you want or not, getting caught would probably be extremely unpleasant.

Discover why Dr. Marie Murphy believes that while you might never get caught cheating, you probably shouldn't wait until you do before you start making decisions about what you really want from your relationships and deal with those decisions in the least stressful way possible.

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As humans, we are part of the cosmos, something much vaster than ourselves, and our understanding of it is only partial. However, your infidelity situation could serve as a window into comprehending your one wild and precious life on a deeper level.

Discover how understanding your infidelity on a deeper level can give you powerful insight into the human experience as a whole. Dr. Marie Murphy is discussing the benefits of exploring the spiritual aspect of your one wild and precious life, especially if that's something you aren't used to, and she's giving you her tips on exactly how to look at your decisions in this way.

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Are you viewing your infidelity as an unsolvable mystery, or are you ready to tackle it as a life project, an opportunity for resolution, and personal growth?

Your perspective on the situation can greatly impact the outcome.

Join us this week to explore new methods to confront and manage infidelity situations. Relationship expert, Dr. Marie Murphy, will provide insightful guidance on how to approach infidelity as a life project, offering a fresh perspective that may make a world of difference in your journey to resolution.

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Some individuals who engage in infidelity express a desire to recommit to their spouse or primary partner, longing for a return to the way things were in their relationship. They may feel tormented by their infidelity while yearning for the past, even though they have been dissatisfied with the relationship for some time.

Understand why it is normal to struggle with leaving a relationship in which you have invested heavily. If you are staying in the relationship solely hoping for a return to the past, you are trapped in the past and need to let it go. However, if you desire a bright, exciting, and loving present and future with your primary partner, one that surpasses what you had before, Dr. Marie Murphy is here to guide you in making that decision.

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As a society, we have decided that if you aren't in a romantic relationship, you are alone. It's fine to prefer having a partner (or partners) over not having one. However, it's time to start creating that feeling of contentment for yourself without relying on a relationship in order to feel positive.

Discover how to generate contentment without relying on a romantic partner to help you create it. Learn how to spot the thoughts that lead to unhelpful beliefs about the necessity of having a romantic partner, and how to pursue what you want from a place of being content without it.

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When it comes to infidelity and loneliness, there are two distinct-but-related problems. One is that as humans, we don't like feeling lonely. The other is that people will go to pretty extreme lengths to avoid loneliness, like getting into or staying in relationships that they don't actually enjoy.

Discover the role that loneliness might be playing in your infidelity situation. Dr. Marie Murphy is discussing how to see whether you're engaging in or continuing a relationship you aren't actually excited about in order to avoid the feeling of loneliness, the beliefs that cultivate a fear of loneliness, and how to deal with loneliness in a way that doesn't create undesirable consequences.

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Comparison is a normal human behavior, especially if you're romantically involved with multiple people. There is a time and place to make comparisons, but are the comparisons you're making between your spouse and your affair partner (or between any two people in your life) helping you in any discernable way?

Discover the problem with comparing your spouse to your affair partner. Dr. Marie Murphy is discussing why making comparisons doesn't make decisions easier, how to see where you're stuck in an unhelpful and ineffective comparison loop, and 3 simple tips for doing things differently if comparing your romantic partners isn't helping you make a decision about your infidelity situation.

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You get to decide what you share about yourself with other people. If you're considering telling a new partner about your history with infidelity, make sure you're doing it for the right reasons. Dr. Marie Murphy is discussing the work you need to do with yourself before you start disclosing your past infidelity to someone you're dating, and how to see the end of a past relationship as something other than an indication that you're horribly flawed as a human.

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Discover how to deal with the idea that there's something wrong with you because you don't feel guilty about cheating. Dr. Marie Murphy is discussing why you always have the option of changing what you think a particular behavior means, and why guilt isn't an effective motivator for doing something about your infidelity situation. She's sharing an exercise to start clarifying your thoughts and feelings about your cheating so you can decide how you want to deal with your situation.

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When you're feeling stuck in your infidelity situation, it's easy to think that the situation is out of your hands and change is becoming increasingly more difficult. What you need is a little tough love so you can see that no matter how long it's been going on, you are not stuck and you do have the ability to resolve your infidelity situation.

Discover what to do if you've been stuck in your infidelity situation for a long time and you feel like you've already tried everything to resolve it.

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