Your Turned on Desire

The more you’re open to understanding your woman’s natural feminine nature, the better your sex life will be. The more you understand, the more you’ll be able to provide a space for healing. Which is a really important step in evolving from phase one into phase two sex. For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options.

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire

Sexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed):

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands

Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break for a couple weeks and months until I need the boost again. Link for Ignite Her Supplement:

https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart

Happy Juice: I drink this daily to balance hormones in my gut and enjoy a better mood! Try it out and save $10 with this link

https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart

Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

The low desire isn’t resisting sex. They aren’t too tired for sex. They aren’t too stressed for sex. What they are resisting is PHASE 1 sex and the dynamics that are happening between them and their high desire partner. They are ready for phase 2 sexual dynamics in their marriage. Everyone who is SO DONE with the confusing and frustrating dynamics around their sex lives with a low and high desire partner will appreciate the understanding that there is hope and another way! For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options.

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire

Sexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed):

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands

Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break for a couple weeks and months until I need the boost again. Link for Ignite Her Supplement:

https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart

Happy Juice: I drink this daily to balance hormones in my gut and enjoy a better mood! Try it out and save $10 with this link

https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart

Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

There are a few things that keep a couple stuck in phase 1 sex. One of those is a developed sense of entitlement. In this episode, we talk about the signs of a developed sense of entitlement, how this is keeping the couple stuck from evolving their sex life and of course what they can do to get unstuck and relax into phase 2 of married sex. It’s the best.

For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options.

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire

Sexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed):

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands

Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break for a couple weeks and months until I need the boost again. Link for Ignite Her Supplement:

https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart

Happy Juice: I drink this daily to balance hormones in my gut and enjoy a better mood! Try it out and save $10 with this link

https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart

Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

There are few different phases of sex that a married couple can expect to move through. But no married couple moves through the phases without intentionally deciding to evolve through phase 1 first. The transition between phase 1 and phase 2 sex is the hardest transition. Most people are staying stuck in phase 1 because they don’t know how to evolve through it. I explain the process in this episode and what you can do to evolve.

For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options.

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire

Sexual success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed):

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands

Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break for a couple weeks and months until I need the boost again. Link for Ignite Her Supplement:

https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart

Happy Juice: I drink this daily to balance hormones in my gut and enjoy a better mood! Try it out and save $10 with this link

https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart

Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

When women decide to heal and evolve the sexual parts of themselves, this can really trigger their husbands for various reasons. You know your hubby is triggered because he will be impatient: (“Why don’t you want to jump my bones everyday yet?”) or (“You’re taking too long to change… 😩”). Or he can become insecure and become withdrawn. He can even start giving you ultimatums: (“If you don’t figure this out by this week then I’m going to move out” or something like this). Or husbands can even say: “Fine. I’m not going to talk about sex ever again. This is on you now. I’m staying out of it.” This isn’t easy to manage and can make wives feel lonely and confused which adds another layer of suffering on top of trying to learn new habits while learning how to turn on their desire. But it’s also completely normal for husbands to respond this way. It’s coming from their own need to emotionally and sexually mature themselves and their insecurities are being brought to the surface. In this episode, we talk about what these insecurities are and what you can do to get through this difficult time. Instead of staying stuck, you can actually evolve through all the stages of sex so you can end up where sex isn’t an issue anymore. The code to save $100 off of the bundle of all my online courses is SELFLOVE and here is the link to enroll:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/comprehensive-bundle

My free download of 60 ways you can turn off your stress response is here:

https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

Find these links and connect with me more at:

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A lot of men and women are afraid to say or do anything that might make their spouses uncomfortable. They are also afraid of taking 10 steps backwards when they are trying to move towards a great sex life- so a lot of us are unsure what To Do when we notice we want better for ourselves and our marriages in our sex lives. In this episode we discuss what to do so that we can evolve and mature in our sex lives together.

This is a repost of an old podcast episode. *Irene Vivanco is our guest today. She is sharing about her experience with being one of my private clients for 6 months and all the benefits that came from our time together. Irene has also become a friend and I hired her to work with me on creating my ecourses for my online school, Your Turned on Desire. What’s in this episode for you: •Turning on your desire for sex is so much more than having more sex. •Learning how to prioritize what you want as a woman, wife and/or mother is beneficial for everyone. •When your sex life is fulfilling, and not a source of contention or frustration anymore, it’s amazing what doors open for you in your personal life. •In a sexually successful marriage, everyone gets what they want in life and this manifests itself in the bedroom. •What both people in the marriage want is a satisfied woman! •When she knows what she wants and isn’t apologetic, guilty or confused about herself- then everyone thrives. Links:

Your Turned on Desire eschool and courses are avialable here: www.coachingwithjamee.com

Follow Irene on IG: https://www.instagram.com/vivanco_irene/ @vivanco_irene

Irene’s website: vivayourvision.com

I get many messages from women about their husbands looking at porn or using porn and I thought it was time to to start a conversation about porn and give you some useful things to think about and do. There will be other episodes and conversations to have but I think this is a good start to a topic that is hurtful and confusing to many people. My goal here is to help and to be useful to you whether you look at porn or not.

Are children understandably good reasons to not have a magnificent sex life or are they the inspiration we need to prioritize good pleasurable refueling sex? I have to be very careful how I think about my children. I don’t want to send them messages that they are the reason for why I don’t have the life and marriage I want.

Why do we feel pressure to improve our sex lives? Because we want something. Our desires (what we really really want) come from inside of us. This internal pressure is nagging at us to take action towards what we want. Women who feel the pressure want an amazing sex life. Women who don’t feel the pressure aren’t listening to this podcast and aren’t bothered by the sex struggles in their marriages. Being bothered and annoyed and wanting the sex struggles to go away is a message from your internal desires. Are we going to listen to them or are we going to avoid them and push them away? Ignoring them doesn’t make them stop nagging at us. Enroll in New Year, New Sex Life here: www.coachingwithjamee.com click on “PROGRAM” for the details.