The Empowered Divorce Podcast; Navigating Divorce After Betrayal Trauma and Abuse

157. Was Divorce The Wrong Decision?


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Even if you chose divorce… you might still doubt it.
This episode is for every woman who left a harmful relationship—and now finds herself wondering:

  • “What if I made the wrong choice?”

  • “What if he really changed for her?”

  • “What if it wasn't that bad after all?”

This kind of doubt is so common after a life-saving divorce, especially when your nervous system is detoxing from the chaos, and you’re sitting in the quiet that once felt like peace—but now feels unfamiliar.

We talk about:

  • Why your doubt doesn't mean you made the wrong decision

  • Nervous system withdrawals (and why they make you question everything)

  • Cognitive dissonance and trauma bonds after betrayal

  • What “peace” actually feels like after a high-conflict or covertly abusive marriage

  • How to anchor into your truth even when your ex’s curated life makes you question your reality

If you’ve ever caught yourself spiraling in “what ifs” or stalking their new partner online, this episode will help you come home to your knowing again.

🧠 Doubt is not a red flag. It's part of healing from being gaslit.
You didn’t leave because it was easy. You left because you finally trusted yourself.

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The Empowered Divorce Podcast; Navigating Divorce After Betrayal Trauma and AbuseBy Amie Woolsey Certified Brainspotting Practitioner, PCC, APSATS-CPC,ELI-MP, C-DGS

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