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372: Prenups, Coparenting and More with Lisa Zeiderman


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In this episode, we are joined by Lisa Zeiderman, a seasoned attorney specializing in family law, to dive into the often challenging topics of prenuptial agreements, co-parenting, and navigating divorce.     Lisa brings her wealth of knowledge and experience to the table, offering practical advice and valuable insights for those who are considering marriage, going through a separation, or managing co-parenting responsibilities.    Throughout the conversation, we explore the intricacies of prenuptial agreements, highlighting their importance in fostering transparency and financial planning between partners. Lisa shares real-life examples of successful and unsuccessful prenup negotiations, providing a clear understanding of how to approach this sensitive subject.  Moving into the realm of divorce and co-parenting, Lisa discusses the critical factors in ensuring the well-being of children and maintaining effective communication between parents. She recommends useful tools like co-parenting apps and emphasizes the need for a support team, including therapists and financial advisors, to navigate the complexities of divorce.    Lisa also addresses the challenges of dealing with manipulative behavior, particularly from narcissistic individuals, and the importance of exposing dishonesty in court. Additionally, she offers strategies for handling interference from extended family members, ensuring that the child's best interests remain the focal point.    This episode is a must-listen for anyone facing the difficult dynamics of prenuptial agreements, divorce, or co-parenting. Lisa's expert guidance and compassionate approach provide a roadmap for managing these situations with clarity and confidence.    Key Points:    Prenuptial Agreements:  Acknowledge the financial partnership in marriage.  Helps avoid costly litigation in case of divorce.  Facilitates transparency and financial discussions.  Covers issues like separate property, inheritance, budgeting, and spousal support.    Navigating Divorce and Co-Parenting:  Importance of discussing children's needs and parenting arrangements.  Emphasizes the need for clear and concise communication.  Recommends co-parenting apps like Our Family Wizard for effective communication and coordination.  Highlights the significance of fostering a healthy relationship between children and both parents.  Addresses concerns about abusive or addicted parents and the need for supervised access when necessary.  Advises against unilateral decisions during litigation and stresses the importance of consulting a team of professionals, including therapists, financial advisors, and attorneys.    Dealing with Narcissistic Behavior:  Acknowledges the challenge of dealing with manipulative behavior in court.  Emphasizes the importance of exposing lies and maintaining credibility.  Suggests selecting an attorney who can effectively advocate against such behavior.    Handling Family Interference:  Advises taking control of situations where family members interfere.  Stresses the importance of maintaining boundaries and prioritizing the child's well-being.    Building a Support Team:  Recommends building a team of advisors to navigate divorce proceedings effectively.  Mentions organizations like Savvy Ladies and Family Legal Care for additional support.  Contact Information:    Lisa Zeiderman: https://lisazeiderman.com   SavvyLadies.org: https://www.savvyladies.org  

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