Episode Description: In this episode, we dive into Stage Four of the healing process—a favorite stage for many. Discover the transformative power that lies within this pivotal stage and how it can propel you beyond your past experiences to a future filled with strength and resilience. We'll discuss the hero's journey, the symbolism of bamboo, and provide scenarios to illustrate what Stage Four looks like in real life. 

Key Points: 

Introduction to Stage Four:  Reflecting on previous discussions about Stage Two (Shock Trauma D-Day) and Stage Three (Feeling Stuck).  Introduction to Stage Four as a transformative and empowering stage.    The Hero's Journey:  Overview of the hero's journey and its relevance to personal transformation.  Comparison of different stages in the hero's journey to the stages of healing.    Symbolism of Bamboo:  Explanation of why bamboo is a powerful symbol for Stage Four.  How bamboo represents the strength and resilience built over time.    Characteristics of Stage Four:  Importance of willingness to let go of past grievances.  Transition from being stuck in the past to looking forward to the future.  Emphasis on building a supportive network to sustain growth.    Real-Life Scenarios and Personas:  Eli: Committed to personal growth through new routines and reflections.  Samantha: Integrates healing practices into daily life with dedication.  Lewis: Actively pursues a better life through deliberate actions and community involvement.  Nia: Reclaims energy and tries new experiences, embracing life with enthusiasm.  Marcus: Explores new pathways and hobbies, driven by curiosity and a quest for fulfillment.    Transformative Power of Stage Four:  The shift from focusing on past betrayals to envisioning and creating a new future.  Encouragement to embrace new opportunities and interests.  The importance of self-love and self-encouragement during this stage.    Moving Forward:  Discussion on the necessity of a supportive environment to maintain progress.  The role of the PBT Institute in providing resources and community support.  Encouragement to leave behind what no longer serves your growth and embrace new possibilities.    Conclusion:  Recap of the transformative nature of Stage Four.  Encouragement to seek support and remain committed to personal growth.  Invitation to rate, review, and share the podcast with others.    Call to Action: If you’re enjoying the podcast, please rate and review it, and share it with someone who would appreciate it. For more support and resources, visit The PBT Institute. 

Links and Resources: 

The PBT Institute: Break free from the pain of betrayal and find safety, love, and trust again.  For the betrayed – Reclaim: Heal from your betrayal and take your life back.  For the betrayer – Rebuild: Heal yourself and help heal the heart you broke.  Are you healed or hardened? Take the quiz