From Betrayal To Breakthrough

385: The Power of Choice when Healing from Betrayal


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Introduction: In today's episode, we discuss the challenges and strategies for coping with reminders of betrayal, such as old pictures, and how to turn these painful triggers into opportunities for growth and healing. 

Key Points: 

Coping with Painful Reminders:  Addressing the pain caused by old pictures and other triggers that remind you of betrayal.  Strategies to reframe these memories and use them as measures of your progress in healing.    Community Insight:  Real-life example from a recent Q&A call where a community member asked about handling painful reminders.  Practical advice shared within the community and by our expert coaches.    Practical Suggestions:  Focus on the positive aspects of the memory, if any.  Use reminders as a way to track your healing progress.  Consider the experiences of others, such as how children might have enjoyed the moment.    Managing Triggers:  The importance of managing triggers like photos, music, TV shows, and movies.  Understanding that while triggers lose their power over time, it’s important not to overwhelm yourself.    Mindset vs. Choice:  The significant difference between mindset and choice in the healing process.  Empowering yourself by making deliberate choices to not let painful reminders ruin your day.  The concept of a "choice point" where you decide not to let the trigger control you.    Intentional Healing:  Avoid indulging in painful thoughts and making a deliberate choice to focus on your well-being.  Using choice as a tool to prevent giving power to negative experiences.    Self-Induced Life Crisis:  The concept of a self-induced life crisis as a pivotal moment where you decide to change your old ways.  Making decisions that lead to new and positive outcomes, even if the path is uncertain.    Support and Transformation:  The importance of having support through the healing process.  The role of The PBT (Post Betrayal Transformation) Institute and its programs, such as Reclaim and Rebuild, in helping individuals and couples heal and transform.    Conclusion: Betrayal is a painful experience, but by making deliberate choices and reframing your mindset, you can reclaim your power and move towards healing. The journey is challenging, but with the right support and strategies, you can transform your life. 

Resources Mentioned: 

The PBT Institute  Reclaim Program  Rebuild Program  Join the Community: If you're ready to move through the five stages from betrayal to breakthrough, join our PBT community. We offer support from specialized coaches in areas such as reconciliation, rebuilding, separation, self-growth, mindset, somatic body-based healing, and grief. 

Contact and Further Information: 

Visit thepbtinstitute.com for more details on our programs and to join our community.    Subscribe: Don't forget to subscribe to our podcast for more insights and support on your healing journey. 

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