From gang life and juvenile detention to martial arts mastery and life coaching - Sensei Dave Armstrong's journey is a testament to human resilience. After facing prostate cancer at 50 and experiencing profound betrayal when his wife of 11 years left during his darkest hour, Dave shares the powerful tools that helped him rebuild and find hope again. Living retired in Greece with an ocean view, he now dedicates his life to helping others transform their trauma into strength. 

Sensei Dave Armstrong is a resilience coach, martial arts instructor, author, and motivational speaker. Having overcome gang involvement, foster care, juvenile detention, and illiteracy, Dave now lives in Greece and helps others navigate life's most challenging moments. He's the author of "Why Me, My Fight for Life" and holds a degree in psychology. 

Key Takeaways 

The Power of Perspective 

• "Why not you?" - We're not exempt from life's challenges, and that's okay 

• Trauma can either define you negatively or fuel your growth - you choose 

• Building internal strength is like developing a muscle - it requires consistent practice 

Boundaries as Non-Negotiables 

• Clear boundaries prevent neediness from driving poor decisions 

• Some boundaries have no margin for compromise 

• Weak boundaries create unnecessary chaos in your life 

The Healing Process 

• Don't rush to fill voids with new relationships during healing 

• Allow yourself to feel difficult emotions without forcing solutions 

• Have multiple "tools" ready for different emotional scenarios 

Building Resilience Through Mentorship 

• Quality mentors can change the trajectory of your entire life 

• Hope is the foundation for all positive change 

• Self-confidence develops through successfully navigating challenges 

Notable Quotes 

"I was never hopeless. I was always hopeful. And that's what I try to instill - because even if you don't have the skill sets, there's hope to acquire and change." 

"We have agency over our response to trauma. Why not choose the positive impact rather than the negative?" 

"I see the God in everyone. Unfortunately, life will start to hit us and we'll harden our shell. But you can't get out of what you've built to protect yourself." 

Timestamps 

• [00:00] Introduction to Sensei Dave Armstrong 

• [05:30] Cancer diagnosis and betrayal story 

• [12:15] Childhood trauma and gang involvement 

• [18:45] The mentors who saved his life 

• [25:20] Developing resilience as a skill 

• [32:10] Setting and maintaining boundaries 

• [38:45] The healing journey after betrayal 

• [44:30] Current life philosophy and message 

Resources 

• Book: "Why Me, My Fight for Life" by Dave Armstrong 

• Website: www.senseidave.com 

• One-on-one coaching: upna.net 

• Instagram: @MrMotivation 

• ThePBTInstitute.com 

• The PBT Institute Certification Program