Why do some women with ADHD rush through the courting stage? Dr. Monica Johnson explains what happens in the ADHD brain during courting.

From intense texting to early intimacy, the courting stage can look very different for women with ADHD. In this episode, find out what happens in the ADHD brain during courting. Learn how to recognize the difference between real chemistry and manipulation. And get tips on how to manage. 

For more on this topic: 

• ADHD and dating: Why crushes feel so intense
• Tips from an ADHD Coach: Is it love or is it dopamine?
• Sorry, I Missed This: Online dating with ADHD

Timestamps:

(00:00) Intro

(01:07) What is courting?

(01:40) The ADHD brain and courting 

(02:58) How emotional dysregulation impacts relationships

(04:42) Why courting can be challenging with ADHD

(08:37) How to tell chemistry from manipulation 

(12:46) Tips for managing the courting stage

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