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  • What Does Psychosis Actually Feel Like? (Separating Fact vs. Fiction)

    Understanding psychosis can feel overwhelming, but separating myths from facts helps remove the fear. In this episode of Ask Kati Anything, licensed marriage and family therapist Kati Morton breaks down what psychosis actually is, how delusions and hallucinations develop, and what recovery looks like.


    Timestamps

    00:00 Introduction to Psychosis and Common Misconceptions

    01:47 Does Having Psychosis Mean You Have Schizophrenia?

    07:07 What Does Psychosis Actually Look Like? (Hallucinations & Delusions)

    14:09 Breaking Down the DSM Criteria for Schizophrenia


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    19:30 Hearing Your Name vs. Experiencing Real Psychosis

    24:12 Grief-Induced Perceptions vs. Psychotic Episodes

    27:56 What Is the Brain Doing During a Delusion?

    39:59 Can Sleep Deprivation, Stress, or Drugs Cause Psychosis?

    48:26 Memory Gaps and Trauma Memories During Psychosis

    56:15 How to Respond to Someone Experiencing Paranoia

    58:34 Is Violence Common in Psychosis? (Media vs. Reality)

    01:00:52 How to Help Someone Who Lacks Insight Into Their Illness

    01:03:30 Full Recovery, Early Intervention, and Managing Relapse Fear


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    Disclaimer:

    The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical or mental health advice. It should not be used to diagnose or treat any health problem or disease. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional for diagnosis and treatment. Viewing this content does not establish a therapist-client relationship.


    Ask Kati Anything ep. 335 | Your mental health podcast, with Kati Morton, LMFT

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    1 hr 15 min
  • What Is Dependent Personality Disorder (DPD)?

    What Is Dependent Personality Disorder (DPD)? Do you struggle to make decisions without someone else’s approval? Do you constantly seek reassurance, fear being alone, or stay in unhealthy relationships because the thought of leaving feels terrifying?

    In this episode of the Ask Kati Anything Podcast, licensed therapist Kati Morton takes a deep dive into Dependent Personality Disorder (DPD). We explore the official DSM-5 diagnostic criteria, how DPD differs from anxious attachment, codependency, and borderline personality disorder (BPD), why DPD develops, and practical steps to rebuild self-trust and confidence.


    EPISODE SPONSOR

    Specialized virtual trauma treatment is available through Rebound. Founded by survivors and psychologists, Rebound provides clinically effective trauma therapy covered by leading insurance plans: https://hellorebound.com/askkatianything


    Timestamps

    00:00 - Introduction: Understanding Dependent Personality Disorder (DPD)
    01:31 - Q1: Am I Needy, Depressed, Traumatized, or Is It DPD? (DSM-5 Criteria)
    10:30 - Q2: Capable at Work, But Indecisive at Home (Capability vs. Self-Trust)
    15:15 - Q3: Asking Multiple People Before Making Decisions: Advice vs. Permission

    18:54 - Advice vs. Reassurance: Finding What You Really Think

    20:42 - Q4: Backtracking During Disagreements & Fear of Conflict
    24:00 - Q5: Why Staying in Bad Relationships Feels Safer Than Being Alone
    29:31 - Q6: Urgently Jumping Into Rebound Relationships
    35:40 - Q7: DPD vs. Anxious Attachment, Codependency, BPD & Avoidant PD
    44:33 - Q8: Where Does DPD Come From? (Genetics, Childhood, Overprotective Parenting)
    53:32 - Q9: Why Does Reassurance Never Feel Like Enough? (The Reassurance Cycle)
    56:31 - Q10: Transferring Dependency onto Your Therapist
    01:02:03 - 5 Actionable Steps to Build Self-Trust and Overcome DPD
    MY BOOKS

    Why Do I Keep Doing This?

    Traumatized
    Are u ok?
    ONLINE THERAPY - Enjoy 10% off your first month
    If you're looking for a therapist, BetterHelp can connect you with a licensed online professional: https://betterhelp.com/kati - a portion of your signup helps support the podcast at no extra cost to you.
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    Disclaimer:

    The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical or mental health advice. It should not be used to diagnose or treat any health problem or disease. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional for diagnosis and treatment. Viewing this content does not establish a therapist-client relationship.

    Ask Kati Anything ep. 334 | Your mental health podcast, with Kati Morton, LMFT

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    1 hr 8 min
  • What Is a Trauma Bond? Signs of an Abusive Relationship

    What is a trauma bond, and why is it so hard to leave an unhealthy relationship even when you know you deserve better? In this episode, licensed marriage and family therapist Kati Morton breaks down what trauma bonds actually are, why intermittent reinforcement and the "hope trap" keep us stuck, and how to finally break free.


    Timestamps

    00:00 Introduction to Trauma Bonds

    02:39 Shared Trauma vs. Trauma Bonds

    08:22 Why You Can Miss Someone Who Treated You Terribly

    12:51 Intermittent Reinforcement and the "Casino" Effect

    22:10 Can You Genuinely Love Someone Who Hurts You?

    26:42 Trauma Bond vs. Anxious Attachment vs. Codependency

    32:55 Why Do We Keep Going Back?

    39:59 Why Leaving Feels Worse at First (Cognitive Dissonance)

    46:36 Childhood Trauma and Vulnerability

    49:08 Grief, the Death of the Dream, and Practical Autonomy

    53:03 Is "No Contact" Always Necessary? (Safety First)

    56:30 How to Actually Break a Trauma Bond

    MY BOOKS
    Why Do I Keep Doing This? https://geni.us/XoyLSQ
    Traumatized https://geni.us/Bfak0j
    Are u ok? https://geni.us/sva4iUY
    ONLINE THERAPY - Enjoy 10% OFF your first month!
    If you're looking for a therapist, BetterHelp can connect you with a licensed online professional: https://betterhelp.com/kati
    This is an affiliate link, which means a portion of your signup helps support the podcast at no extra cost to you.
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    Disclaimer:
    The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical or mental health advice. It should not be used to diagnose or treat any health problem or disease. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional for diagnosis and treatment. Viewing this content does not establish a therapist-client relationship.


    Ask Kati Anything ep. 334 | Your mental health podcast, with Kati Morton, LMFT

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    1 hr 14 min
  • Avoidant Personality Disorder: Why You Think You’re Better Off Alone

    Are you constantly craving connection but terrified of rejection? Avoidant Personality Disorder (AvPD) goes beyond typical shyness or introversion—it can keep you trapped in a cycle of loneliness and an intense fear of judgment.


    In this video, we explore the distinct symptoms of AvPD, how it heavily overlaps with social anxiety, and why someone might desperately want friends but actively avoid them. We discuss how this pervasive pattern develops, the role of a negative cognitive bias, and the practical steps and therapies (like CBT and Schema Therapy) that can help you finally build meaningful, lasting relationships.


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    • 🎙️ EPISODE CHAPTERS

      00:00 What is Avoidant Personality Disorder?
      04:08 The DSM-5 diagnostic criteria for AVPD
      10:08 What makes AVPD a personality disorder rather than just a preference?
      16:50 Social Anxiety vs. Avoidant Personality Disorder
      23:56 Avoidant Personality Disorder vs. Avoidant Attachment
      27:08 Why we automatically assume people won't like us
      32:16 Skipping opportunities and making your world smaller
      36:49 The paradox of canceled plans and sudden loneliness
      40:18 Where does Avoidant Personality Disorder come from?
      46:58 The struggle of needing proof before letting people in
      50:15 Is it fear of rejection or a negative cognitive bias?
      54:15 Why avoidance feels safe but costs you deep connections
      56:12 CBT, Exposure, and Schema Therapy for treating AVPD
      1:00:18 Can you fully recover from a personality disorder?


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      • Traumatized https://geni.us/Bfak0j

      • Are u ok? https://geni.us/sva4iUY

      • 💻 ONLINE THERAPY

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        📱 CONNECT WITH KATI

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        • PARTNERSHIPS

          Nick Freeman | [email protected]

          Disclaimer: The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical or mental health advice. It should not be used to diagnose or treat any health problem or disease. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional for diagnosis and treatment. Viewing this content does not establish a therapist-client relationship.

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          1 hr 5 min
        • What Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder Actually Looks Like (OCD)

          Are disturbing intrusive thoughts a sign of OCD, or are they just severe anxiety? Licensed therapist Kati Morton explains how Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder is clinically diagnosed, why common expressions like Pure O and taboo obsessions are frequently misdiagnosed, and how to tell the difference between tidy preferences and true compulsions. Learn the neuroscience behind the obsessive-compulsive cycle, why constant reassurance backfires, and how exposure and response prevention (ERP) therapy helps you break the loop.

          SPONSOR
          Specialized virtual trauma treatment is available through Rebound. Founded by survivors and psychologists, Rebound provides clinically effective trauma therapy covered by leading insurance plans: https://hellorebound.com/askkatianything
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          ONLINE THERAPY
          If you're looking for a therapist, BetterHelp can connect you with a licensed online professional: https://betterhelp.com/kati - Enjoy 10% off your first month!(this is an affiliate link, which means a portion of your signup helps support the podcast at no extra cost to you)
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          DISCLAIMER
          The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical or mental health advice. It should not be used to diagnose or treat any health problem or disease. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional for diagnosis and treatment. Viewing this content does not establish a therapist-client relationship.
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          1 hr 7 min
        • Signs You’re Dealing with the Dark Triad (Psychopath, Narcissist, or Machiavellian?)

          What is the Dark Triad, and how can you tell if you’re dealing with a narcissist, a psychopath, or someone high in Machiavellianism? In this episode, licensed therapist Kati Morton breaks down the core traits of dark triad personalities, the key differences between them, and the common myths surrounding manipulation and empathy. You'll learn the 6 telltale signs of interacting with someone who has dark traits, what the psychological "D-factor" really means, and whether people with these patterns can truly change.

          Timestamps
          0:00 - Introduction to the Dark Triad
          01:02 - Is the Dark Triad a Diagnosis or Framework?
          02:13 - Trait Narcissism Explained
          04:22 - What is Machiavellianism? Origins & 5 Core Traits
          12:42 - Psychopathy vs. Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD)
          19:15 - Key Differences: Impulse Control & Dark Triad Overlap
          23:26 - 6 Signs You’re Interacting With a Dark Personality
          35:09 - The "D-Factor": Are We All a Little Manipulative?
          42:54 - Myth 1: Are Dark Personalities More Charming & Attractive?
          46:53 - Myth 2: Do Psychopaths Make Great CEOs?
          49:23 - Myth 3: Is Sadism Part of the Dark Triad? (The Dark Tetrad)
          50:58 - Can Psychopaths Feel Empathy? Cognitive vs. Affective Empathy
          54:54 - Nature vs. Nurture: Can Dark Traits Change Over Time?
          1:01:10 - How to Protect Yourself & Set Boundaries
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          Why Do I Keep Doing This?
          Traumatized
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          • ONLINE THERAPY

            If you're looking for a therapist, BetterHelp can connect you with a licensed online professional: https://betterhelp.com/kati (enjoy 10% off your first month) This is an affiliate link, which means a portion of your signup helps support the podcast at no extra cost to you.
            PARTNERSHIPS
            Nick Freeman | [email protected]
            Disclaimer:
            The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical or mental health advice. It should not be used to diagnose or treat any health problem or disease. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional for diagnosis and treatment. Viewing this content does not establish a therapist-client relationship.
            Ask Kati Anything ep. 330 | Your mental health podcast, with Kati Morton, LMFT

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            1 hr 4 min
          • Dissociation: From Zoning Out to Depersonalization

            Have you ever felt completely disconnected from your body, lost hours of time, or wondered why you feel numb when overwhelmed? In this episode, licensed therapist Kati Morton explores dissociation and the full spectrum of dissociative disorders, including depersonalization-derealization (DPDR), dissociative amnesia, and dissociative identity disorder (DID). You'll learn the neuroscience behind why your brain pulls the ripcord to protect you, how to distinguish normal spacing out from trauma responses, and somatic grounding techniques to regulate your nervous system.


            To see if specialized trauma therapy with Rebound could be the right next step for you, head to https://hellorebound.com/askkatianything where you can check your insurance, book a free call with one of their care specialists, and find out more.

            Timestamps
            00:00 What Is Dissociation?
            00:55 Spacing Out vs. Dissociating
            02:03 How the DSM Defines Dissociative Disorders
            03:11 Dissociative Episodes vs. Diagnosable Disorders
            06:03 Why Your Brain Pulls the Ripcord (Nervous System Protection)
            10:05 Hypoarousal, the Freeze State & Emotional Dampening
            12:28 Depersonalization-Derealization Disorder (DPDR) Criteria
            14:53 Reality Testing: DPDR vs. Psychosis
            21:02 How Common Is Dissociation? Statistics & Comorbidities
            25:25 Dissociative Amnesia vs. Normal Everyday Forgetting
            30:42 What Is a Dissociative Fugue?
            35:07 Localized, Selective & Generalized Amnesia
            36:15 Brain Networks & Memory Suppression Mechanisms
            40:02 Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) Explained
            40:40 Parts Work vs. Alters in DID
            46:00 Cultural Context & What DID Is Not (DID vs. Schizophrenia)
            47:18 The Dissociation Spectrum: Maladaptive Daydreaming to DID
            50:07 Childhood Trauma & The Role of Protector Alters
            54:37 How to Tell If You're Dissociating or Just Zoning Out
            56:00 Somatic Grounding Techniques for Dissociation
            58:45 Nervous System Regulation, Qigong & Calming the Amygdala
            60:34 Therapy Approaches for DID: System Cooperation vs. Integration
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            MY BOOKS
            Why Do I Keep Doing This? https://geni.us/XoyLSQ
            Traumatized https://geni.us/Bfak0j
            Are u ok? https://geni.us/sva4iUY
            ONLINE THERAPY
            If you're looking for a therapist, BetterHelp can connect you with a licensed online professional: https://betterhelp.com/kati (enjoy 10% off your first month)
            This is an affiliate link, which means a portion of your signup helps support the podcast at no extra cost to you.
            PARTNERSHIPS
            Nick Freeman | [email protected]
            Disclaimer
            The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical or mental health advice. It should not be used to diagnose or treat any health problem or disease. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional for diagnosis and treatment. Viewing this content does not establish a therapist-client relationship.

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            1 hr 6 min
          • Do You Have CPTSD? Symptoms, Flashbacks & Treatments

            What is Complex PTSD (CPTSD), and how does it differ from traditional PTSD or Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? In this episode of Ask Kati Anything (Ep. 328), licensed therapist Kati Morton breaks down the ICD-11 diagnostic criteria for Complex PTSD, the impact of chronic emotional abuse and neglect, emotional flashbacks, and practical treatment modalities like TF-CBT, EMDR, and DBT.

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            TIMESTAMPS
            00:00 - Introduction to Complex PTSD & ICD-11 Criteria
            01:45 - What Makes PTSD "Complex"? (Judith Herman & Prolonged Trauma)
            04:08 - Can Chronic Emotional Abuse, Neglect, or Bullying Cause CPTSD?
            12:08 - Big "T" vs. Little "t" Traumas & Resilience
            15:15 - Core Differences Between PTSD and Complex PTSD
            18:54 - Emotional Dysregulation: Hyper-Arousal vs. Hypo-Arousal
            23:20 - Why Trauma Triggers Make You Relive the Past
            25:40 - Pete Walker’s Concept of Emotional Flashbacks & Dissociation
            29:30 - Negative Self-Concept, Shame & Externalizing Trauma
            35:48 - How to Heal When There Was "Never a Before"
            41:00 - Childhood Trauma vs. Adult CPTSD
            43:30 - How Complex PTSD Affects Relationships & Trust
            50:20 - Why We Isolate Even When Craving Connection
            54:35 - Complex PTSD vs. Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)
            01:03:00 - What If Your Childhood Doesn't Feel "Traumatic"?
            01:10:30 - Effective Treatments: Trauma-Focused CBT, EMDR & DBT
            01:15:50 - What to Do If Trauma Therapy Isn't Working
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            Ask Kati Anything ep.328 | Your mental health podcast, with Kati Morton, LMFT
            MY BOOKS
            Why Do I Keep Doing This? https://geni.us/XoyLSQ
            Traumatized https://geni.us/Bfak0j
            Are u ok? https://geni.us/sva4iUY
            ONLINE THERAPY
            If you're looking for a therapist, BetterHelp can connect you with a licensed online professional: https://betterhelp.com/kati (enjoy 10% off your first month)
            This is an affiliate link, which means a portion of your signup helps support the podcast at no extra cost to you.
            PARTNERSHIPS
            Nick Freeman | [email protected]
            Disclaimer:
            The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical or mental health advice. It should not be used to diagnose or treat any health problem or disease. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional for diagnosis and treatment. Viewing this content does not establish a therapist-client relationship.

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            1 hr 21 min
          • How Narcissism Actually Works: Love Bombing, Gaslighting, Flying Monkeys

            Narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and NPD get thrown around constantly online, and most of what circulates is wrong. In this episode, licensed marriage and family therapist Kati Morton walks through what narcissistic personality disorder actually is (all nine DSM criteria, and why five or more are required for a diagnosis), the difference between covert and overt narcissism, and the specific behavior patterns that make a relationship abusive: love bombing, gaslighting, trauma bonding, DARVO, flying monkeys, isolation, and intermittent reinforcement. She also covers the gray rock method, the signs you're walking on eggshells in your own home, and how healing from narcissistic abuse actually works.

            If you've been wondering whether what you experienced counts, or whether the person in your life is a narcissist or simply selfish and hurtful, this one is for you.
            Timestamps
            0:00 Everyone thinks everyone's a narcissist
            1:07 What narcissistic personality disorder actually is: five of nine criteria
            3:20 Covert vs. overt narcissism
            9:22 What narcissistic abuse means
            9:48 Love bombing, and how it differs from someone just being kind
            13:49 Gaslighting
            19:11 No accountability, no apology, no repair
            22:19 Monitoring, isolation, and turning you against the people who love you
            24:22 Trauma bonding and the abuse cycle
            27:25 DARVO
            30:45 The gray rock method
            34:30 Flying monkeys
            36:57 Why they aren't nasty all the time
            40:02 Intermittent reinforcement
            40:47 Signs you're living in this dynamic
            43:50 How healing actually happens
            46:27 Reconnecting with the people you lost touch with
            49:16 A better question than "what's wrong with me"
            53:33 Afraid you'll end up with another narcissist
            This episode is brought to you by Rebound, offering specialized virtual trauma therapy in all 50 states, founded by survivors and psychologists. Head to https://hellorebound.com/askkatianything to learn more and check your insurance.
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            Ask Kati Anything ep. 327 | Your mental health podcast, with Kati Morton, LMFT
            MY BOOKS
            Why Do I Keep Doing This? https://geni.us/XoyLSQ
            Traumatized https://geni.us/Bfak0j
            Are u ok? https://geni.us/sva4iUY
            ONLINE THERAPY
            If you're looking for a therapist, BetterHelp can connect you with a licensed online professional: https://betterhelp.com/kati (enjoy 10% off your first month)
            This is an affiliate link, which means a portion of your signup helps support the podcast at no extra cost to you.
            PARTNERSHIPS
            Nick Freeman | [email protected]
            Disclaimer
            The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical or mental health advice. It should not be used to diagnose or treat any health problem or disease. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional for diagnosis and treatment. Viewing this content does not establish a therapist-client relationship.

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            58 min
          • “I ruin every relationship I care about.” - BPD

            Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is deeply misunderstood, heavily stigmatized, and far more complex than just "being emotional". In this episode of Ask Kati Anything, licensed marriage and family therapist Kati Morton breaks down the official BPD diagnostic criteria from the DSM, explaining how BPD symptoms actually present in real life, therapy offices, and everyday relationships. She explores the underlying fear of abandonment, idealization and devaluation (splitting), identity disturbances, and why BPD so frequently overlaps with PTSD, trauma, and ADHD. Plus, discover actionable evidence-based BPD treatment options like Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Schema Therapy, and Mentalization-Based Therapy (MBT) to help manage emotional dysregulation, navigate relationship boundaries, and work toward long-term remission.

            Timestamps
            00:00 - Introduction to Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)
            01:00 - Why "Personality Disorder" is a Misleading Term
            01:55 - How BPD is Diagnosed: DSM Criteria Overview
            02:55 - BPD Symptom 1: Fear of Abandonment & Attachment Styles
            04:45 - BPD Symptom 2: Splitting, Idealization & Devaluation
            07:25 - BPD Symptom 3: Identity Disturbance & Chronic Emptiness
            08:31 - BPD Symptom 4: Impulsivity in Daily Life
            12:05 - BPD Symptom 5: Recurrent Suicidal Behavior & Self-Harm
            16:05 - BPD Symptom 6: Affective Instability (BPD vs Bipolar Disorder)
            18:18 - BPD Symptom 7: Chronic Feelings of Emptiness
            19:22 - BPD Symptom 8: Inappropriate, Intense Anger
            21:53 - BPD Symptom 9: Stress-Related Paranoia & Dissociation
            25:14 - Is it BPD or Just Being Emotional?
            26:46 - What Does Having "BPD Traits" Mean?
            28:49 - BPD vs. Anxiety, ADHD, and PTSD Overlaps
            33:25 - The Deep Link Between Childhood Trauma and BPD
            40:21 - Why People with BPD Push Loved Ones Away
            41:35 - What is Quiet BPD?
            43:33 - Can You Have a Healthy Relationship with BPD?
            47:53 - Setting Healthy Boundaries Without Triggering Abandonment
            53:05 - Can BPD be Cured? Understanding BPD Remission
            56:23 - BPD Treatment: Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Explained
            01:04:33 - Alternative Therapies: MBT, Schema Therapy, & TFP
            01:08:30 - The Role of Medication in BPD Treatment
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            MY BOOKS
            Why Do I Keep Doing This? https://geni.us/XoyLSQ
            Traumatized https://geni.us/Bfak0j
            Are u ok? https://geni.us/sva4iUY
            ONLINE THERAPY - Enjoy 10% OFF your first month
            If you're looking for a therapist, BetterHelp can connect you with a licensed online professional: https://betterhelp.com/kati This is an affiliate link, which means a portion of your signup helps support the podcast at no extra cost to you.
            PARTNERSHIPS
            Nick Freeman | [email protected]
            DISCLAIMER
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            Ask Kati Anything ep.326 | Your mental health podcast, with Kati Morton, LMFT

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