On this episode of the Been There Got Out Podcast, we welcome retired judge and family lawyer Anthony Bompiani (TikTok @anthonybompiani) for more reality checks and wisdom on how to handle our children being forced to go with a toxic parent, being under the microscope of family court, self-validation, what to ask before hiring an attorney, vexatious litigation, his answer to family court reform, and other questions straight from our audience.

Be sure to check out his latest webinar, programs, and merch which you can find under the link in his bio on Tik Tok!

Remember, if you are struggling in a high-conflict relationship, divorce, custody battle, or co-parenting hell which requires PERSONALIZED attention, let us HOLD YOUR HAND along the way, while providing EXPERT, STRATEGIC guidance based on one's years of success (representing myself in court!), coupled with the other's High Conflict Divorce Coach certification.

Recorded August 17th, 2021

On this episode of the Been There Got Out Podcast, we welcome superstar coach, author, and podcaster Matt Phifer (Instagram @mattphifercoaching), who talks about trauma bonding and its impact on making a separation or divorce much more difficult, why knowing your rights is IMPERATIVE, and why it's essential to cut all ties other than with the kids during the court process.

Remember, if you are struggling in a high-conflict relationship, divorce, custody battle, or co-parenting hell which requires PERSONALIZED attention, let us HOLD YOUR HAND along the way, while providing EXPERT, STRATEGIC guidance based on one's years of success (representing myself in court!), coupled with the other's High Conflict Divorce Coach certification.

Recorded August 4th, 2022

In this episode of the Been There Got Out Podcast, we welcome back our great friend, Dr. Barb Hughson (Instagram @drbarbh), a professional mediator and therapist with a strong background in child psychology, decades of experience, and unrivaled EMPATHY.

We talk about how to prepare for mediation, make it as successful as possible when dealing with a high conflict personality, ways to avoid future litigation, and a unique concept where a child's voice can be heard and included.

Remember, if you are struggling in a high-conflict relationship, divorce, custody battle, or co-parenting hell which requires PERSONALIZED attention, let us HOLD YOUR HAND along the way, while providing EXPERT, STRATEGIC guidance based on one's years of success (representing myself in court!), coupled with the other's High Conflict Divorce Coach certification.

Recorded June 6th, 2022

In this episode of the Been There Got Out Podcast, we welcome the host of the Slam the Gavel podcast, Maryann Petri.

After years of peacefully co-parenting, Maryann suddenly found herself fending off allegations of child abuse by her ex-husband and his new wife (who also worked at the courthouse). The experience caused severe physical, emotional, and financial damage. Forced to go pro se, Maryann appealed in superior court and achieved a victory that proved to be life-saving.

Remember, if you are struggling in a high-conflict relationship, divorce, custody battle, or co-parenting hell which requires PERSONALIZED attention, let us HOLD YOUR HAND along the way, while providing EXPERT, STRATEGIC guidance based on one's years of success (representing myself in court!), coupled with the other's High Conflict Divorce Coach certification.

Recorded May 14th, 2021

In this episode of the Been There Got Out Podcast, we welcome California Family Law Attorney Brian Pakpour (TikTok @brithefamilyguy), who talks about realistic expectations in divorce agreements with a high-conflict partner, the nitty-gritty details that should be included in parenting plans, and then, for the first time publicly, shares an emotional, personal story from his own life as a child of divorce.

Remember, if you are struggling in a high-conflict relationship, divorce, custody battle, or co-parenting hell which requires PERSONALIZED attention, let us HOLD YOUR HAND along the way, while providing EXPERT, STRATEGIC guidance based on one's years of success (representing myself in court!), coupled with the other's High Conflict Divorce Coach certification.

Recorded January 26th, 2022

In this episode of the Been There Got Out Podcast, we welcome back Steve the Bodyguard (Instagram @protectionfromabuse @thebodyguard.official), who offers a wealth of information about the nature of STALKING, why restraining orders actually are more than just a piece of paper, and the importance of a weapon to protect yourself if you are in an abusive relationship (and what the best option is and why), plus much, much more!

You can call his FREE National Domestic Violence safety chat line for more information at 833-657-7683.

Remember, if you are struggling in a high-conflict relationship, divorce, custody battle, or co-parenting hell which requires PERSONALIZED attention, let us HOLD YOUR HAND along the way, while providing EXPERT, STRATEGIC guidance based on one's years of success (representing myself in court!), coupled with the other's High Conflict Divorce Coach certification.

Recorded June 6th, 2022

In this episode of the Been There Got Out Podcast, we  welcome our new friend, Coach Chris Jackson (Instagram @the_kineticlife_coach), an adult child of a narcissistic father, who managed to stop the cycle of intergenerational trauma, put his energy into sports resulting in a career as a professional football player, and then become a successful entrepreneur helping others realize their dreams.

We talk about the effects on children growing up in a toxic family, why it's important to express anger, the ladder of liberation, and how to move forward in life once you're out of the muck.

Remember, if you are struggling in a high-conflict relationship, divorce, custody
battle, or co-parenting hell which requires PERSONALIZED attention, let us HOLD
YOUR HAND along the way, while providing EXPERT, STRATEGIC guidance
based on one's years of success (representing myself in court!), coupled with the
other's High Conflict Divorce Coach certification.

Recorded July 21, 2022

In this episode of the Been There Got Out Podcast, we welcome back our friend, narcissistic abuse expert, coach, and best-selling author Tracy Malone (Instagram @tracyamalone), who talks about her new book, “Divorcing Your Narcissist: You Can't Make This Sh*t Up.”

We also discuss what Tracy calls the “three-bucket strategy” of telling people about your divorce, the importance of parenting plans, and how to deal with lies, smear campaigns, and false allegations, both in and out of court!

Remember, if you are struggling in a high-conflict relationship, divorce, custody
battle, or co-parenting hell which requires PERSONALIZED attention, let us HOLD
YOUR HAND along the way, while providing EXPERT, STRATEGIC guidance
based on one's years of success (representing myself in court!), coupled with the
other's High Conflict Divorce Coach certification.

Recorded May 24th, 2022

In this episode of the Been There Got Out Podcast, we welcome therapist and addiction specialist Rebecca Ishida (Instagram @rebecca_ishida), who gets into lying by omission and why gaslighting is so devastating, why people defend abusers, and the nature of living a double life.

Remember, if you are struggling in a high-conflict relationship, divorce, custody
battle, or co-parenting hell which requires PERSONALIZED attention, let us HOLD
YOUR HAND along the way, while providing EXPERT, STRATEGIC guidance
based on one's years of success (representing myself in court!), coupled with the
other's High Conflict Divorce Coach certification.

Recorded February 17th, 2022

In this episode, the Been There Got Out Podcast welcomes back our friend, psychotherapist, author, and narcissistic abuse expert Chelsey Brooke Cole (Instagram @chelseybrookecole).

We get into the various ways narcissists use social media to get what they want, through four specific types of posts and smear campaigns. We also talk about how they specifically use it during a high conflict divorce or custody battle, and what you can do to recognize this insidious type of behavior.

Remember, if you are struggling in a high-conflict relationship, divorce, custody battle, or co-parenting hell which requires PERSONALIZED attention, let us HOLD YOUR HAND along the way, while providing EXPERT, STRATEGIC guidance based on one's years of success (representing myself in court!), coupled with the other's High Conflict Divorce Coach certification.