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If you’ve ever been told “just stop restricting” and felt more confused than helped, this episode is for you. We’re defining restriction in a way that actually supports recovery: not every “no” creates pressure. The kind of restriction that fuels binge eating is excessive, distress-based scarcity—and learning the difference is how you build steadiness without swinging into chaos. 

In this episode, we cover

• Why “never say no” isn’t recovery—it’s a different trap 
• The key distinction: regulation vs. scarcity (limits aren’t the problem; distress is) 
• Two types of “restriction”:
  • Practical boundaries that create stability 
  • Deprivation-based restriction that drives rebound eating 
• Why deprivation backfires (biology, psychology, and nervous system threat) 
• How to tell, in real time, whether a “no” is supportive or scarcity-based (the 3 questions) 

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If you want support building your middle path—without swinging between extremes—coaching details can be found at ConfidentEaters.com. Or, send me an email at [email protected]. 

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Welcome to Season 2 of Breaking Up With Binge Eating. This 12-episode series walks you step-by-step from distress around food to something steadier and more workable—without perfection. In the Season 2 opener, we challenge the idea that loss of control is a character flaw and replace it with a more accurate frame: pressure exceeds capacity. We’ll unpack how restriction, stress, exhaustion, and emotional overload narrow your thinking and spike urgency around food, and why “clamping down” tends to increase the pressure you’re trying to reduce. You’ll leave with a gentle practice for the week—one question that lowers shame and raises capacity: What pressure was my system responding to?

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Episode Summary

In this episode, Georgie Fear explores the psychological chain reactions behind binge eating, revealing how it often serves as a rebound effect from excessive restraint and self-sacrifice. Through the story of Marta, a busy mom juggling family and business, listeners learn how binge eating isn't about selfishness—it's actually a compensation for too much selflessness.

Key Topics Covered

• Why binge eating doesn't occur in isolation—it's a rebound or "ricochet" from preceding circumstances
• The intersection of restraint and entitlement in disordered eating
• How excessive self-sacrifice during the day leads to compensatory eating behaviors
• The difference between healthy restraint and harmful restriction
• Why taking away the "problem food" isn't the solution

Main Story: Marta's Journey

Marta is a married mother of four who runs a home business while managing her children's busy schedules. Despite loving her life, she struggles with eating entire boxes of cookies in her car between errands. Georgie reveals how Marta's binge eating is actually an aftershock of practicing too much selflessness—skipping meals, ignoring her own needs, and constantly serving others.

Key Insights

• Binge eating behaviors can be understood as a solution rather than just a problem
• Strong emotional attachments to binge behaviors are normal—even when you desperately want to stop
• The solution isn't more restraint; it's learning to ease up on the excessive ways we restrict ourselves
• Not all restraint is bad—healthy restraint allows balanced decision-making

Action Steps Discussed

1. Allow yourself to rest when tired
2. Make time to eat proper meals
3. Give yourself permission to daydream and think about your own wants
4. Dedicate time to activities just for yourself
5. Explore what you want—not just what others need

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Losing weight is probably one of the most common reasons we hear that people want to end their binge eating. It's the physical symbol of success and is most apparent to the world. Reasons for wanting to change their current state may also include bothersome achy knees, elevated blood pressure, or distress about not being a healthy role model. But the big thing that hurts them on a daily basis is the size, shape, or weight of their body. 

If you want to stop binge eating mostly because you want to lose weight, that's a perfectly fine reason. The goal for today's episode is to help alleviate the frustration that can grow when you're doing the right things to stop binge eating, but your weight hasn't budged. Because if we don't address that frustration, it leads people to lose focus on binge eating recovery and start focusing instead on moving the scale. 

We will discuss how the order of the stages of recovery matter, why weight loss before conquering binge eating doesn't work, and learn about the steps toward achieving both goals. We want to equip you with strategies to navigate your own journey to complete food freedom, including deliberate weight loss behaviors and maintaining long-term success. 

Episode Timeline:
00:00 Introduction to the Podcast

00:26 Client's Weight Loss Frustration

01:09 Understanding the Root Causes

04:28 Stages of Binge Eating Recovery

04:47 Initial Phase: Establishing Regular Meal Patterns

05:53 Building Self-Awareness

08:02 Re-patterning Responses

11:11 Optional Stage: Deliberate Weight Loss

15:05 Final Phase: Maintenance

16:54 Conclusion and Next Steps

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Have you ever thought, "I know what to do, I just need to consistently do it"? Who hasn't? Sometimes we need accountability. Sometimes we need specific strategies, new tools, or a bit of help. If you are want help to become a confident, sensible eater with 1:1 personalized attention, sign up at ConfidentEaters.com.

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Have to do this. Can't eat that.

Over and over, these mandates drive a person crazy. Many of our clients say that it builds up over time, and they snap. They just want to eat and eat, in opposition to feeling pushed around by all the responsibilities and demands on them. They want to feel free, like they can have or do whatever they want in at least one small area of life. Can't food be the one place they get to cut loose?

In this episode, listen to Sarah's candid journey about her relationship with food and feelings of resentment. Discover three key strategies to overcome limiting beliefs and emotional eating: transforming 'have to' and 'can't' statements, engaging in activities that make you feel powerful and free, and accepting the realities of how food choices impact your well-being. Tune in as we dive into breaking habits, boosting motivation, and embracing the power of food for a healthier, happier life.

Episode Timeline:

00:00 Introduction to the Podcast

00:26 Sarah's Struggle with Food Limits

01:27 Understanding Resentment and Emotional Eating

03:02 Breaking Free from Resentment

03:25 Reframing 'Have To' and 'Can't' Statements

07:16 Finding Power and Freedom in Other Activities

08:36 Accepting the Reality of Food Choices

11:02 Conclusion and Key Takeaways

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 "I eat really clean", Kyle said "Even my binges are on healthy things. That's why it's confusing. I'm a fit guy. I'm a healthy eater who binge eats."  Kyle's words bring up a number of misconceptions about binge eating and the people who suffer from it. In today's episode, we'll delve into why clean eating can lead to or exacerbate binge eating.

Join us to discover how the fitness industry's sometimes extreme dietary advice can lead to disordered eating and why it’s common among athletes and gym-goers. We'll discuss the misconceptions around binge eating, the dangers of food morality, and practical steps to regain a healthy relationship with food.

If you are a fitness enthusiast who eats perfectly most of the time, but you find yourself caught in the cycle of clean eating and binge eating, then this episode is for you.

👉Dietitian Bonnie Roney's Facebook post mentioned in the episode.

Episode Timeline:
00:00 Kyle's College Fitness Journey
01:34 Misconceptions About Binge Eating
02:56 Fitness Industry's Influence on Eating Disorders
06:03 Kyle's Misconceptions and Realizations
08:00 "Healthy" Binge Food Is Still Binge Food
10:24 Fit People Can Also Struggle With Disordered Eating
12:24 Steps to Overcome Disordered Eating
14:36 Anticipating Resistance and Moving Slowly
16:56 Unrealistic Male Body Standards
18:50 The Role of Marketing in Eating Habits
21:45 Conclusion and Listener Support

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In this Episode:
Our philosophy on treatment includes supporting people in many areas of life in addition to meeting their nutrition needs. Eating disorder recovery certainly involves modifying your eating, but if someone only works on the food piece of their life, they often can't completely escape from the symptoms. They may relapse into binge eating again, or they might replace it with a different coping behavior. That's why this podcast covers such a broad spectrum of topics, aside from food.

You may remember my client, Allison, from an episode in September, 2025, where we talked about how including joyful activities just for her was a critical missing piece of her recovery from binge eating disorder. Today you'll hear another recording of one of my sessions with Allison this time hitting on some new themes.

Join us as we explore the crucial habit of managing your energy levels throughout the day. If you often find yourself drained and only capable of brain-dead scrolling, it's likely because you've run your battery all the way down. We discuss the importance of inserting rest periods before reaching total exhaustion and how small adjustments, like a regular walk, can recharge your battery.

We can all be learning, strengthening ourselves, and winning together. If you feel like taking a rest or doing something just for fun, seems uncomfortable, unacceptable, or even impossible, this episode is for you.

Episode Timeline:

01:35 Challenges of Taking Breaks

03:42 Struggles with Work-Life Balance

06:10 Strategies for Overcoming Habits

08:16 Setting Personal Policies

12:44 Reflecting on Choices

12:58 Opportunities for Rest

13:23 The Pressure to be Productive

17:21 Responding to Sabotaging Thoughts
21:13 Concluding Thoughts and Next Steps

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Show Notes: 
Have you ever had the thought 'I don't deserve good things'? This pervasive belief can be subtle, but it's not harmless. Today we are going to explore what's really going on with this belief.

When we peel back the layers, we can see that the belief of "deservingness" is rooted in conditional worth messaging, internalized shame, and fear- which can all impact our food choices and self-care. It's time to challenge these beliefs and embrace the idea that you are inherently worthy of good things, without needing to earn them. 

You will learn more about how these patterns manifest in everyday life and receive guidance on transforming these thoughts to promote healing and self-compassion. We can't wait for you to listen!

Episode Timeline:
00:51 The Concept of Deserving

02:11 Origins of the Belief

02:38 Internalized Shame

03:49 Conditional Worth Messaging

06:20 Fear of Impermanence

07:24 Negative Core Beliefs

09:19 Deservingness and Food

11:07 Challenging the Deservingness Belief

13:39 Extending Generosity to Yourself

15:04 Conclusion and Support

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Olivia emailed us sharing her personal journey with Semaglutide, a GLP one receptor agonist, and how it helped her manage binge eating disorder. Olivia's experience was so compelling and we believe it sheds light on the silence around GLP one drugs and their potential benefits beyond weight loss.

Join Georgie as she discusses the implications, potential benefits, and risks of using these medications for binge eating disorder. She also delves into the future of research and the pharmaceutical industry in this space. This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about the real-life impacts of GLP one drugs on binge eating disorder.

For more information, check out these references below:
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2667368123000268

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0924977X24000646

https://doi.org/10.1016/j.dsx.2020.03.009

00:00 Introduction to Olivia's Story

01:33 Olivia's Background and Binge Eating Journey

05:03 Starting Semaglutide: Initial Experiences

09:03 Impact on Mental Health and Relationships

18:38 Public Perception and Stigma

25:16 Opening Up About Personal Struggles

27:42 The Impact of Medication on Binge Eating

30:55 Alcohol and Medication Effects

33:07 Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Mental Space

38:21 Redefining Life Without Food Noise

40:44 Final Thoughts and Recommendations

46:26 Research and Future Directions for GLP-1 Drugs

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