Rob and Tami discuss some of the challenges a betrayed spouse might go through when learning to love and trust their addict again. Tami shares her thoughts about polygraphs and why they’re not the end-all solution many betrayed spouses are hoping for. All of this and more on this week’s episode!

 

TAKEAWAYS:

[0:55] My SA has been lying to his CSAT. What should I do to prepare for our CSAT session together? His birthday is also coming up. How can we still have a good time?

[3:45] What do you need to do to take care of yourself?

[5:55] Do you currently trust your addict? If not, do not celebrate his birthday.

[6:30] My SA has cancer. Doctors say his libido will decrease. Does that mean he is less likely to objectify women?

[10:00] Dr. Rob, can you talk more about the polygraph and how accurate it is?

[17:05] I am in recovery from chem sex. Am I improving or am I still objectifying my partner?

[20:15] The affair will always feel exciting, but it is not real.

[22:00] What is the definition of a love addict?

[26:10] Dr. Rob offers his thoughts on couples therapy and why it still always starts and ends with you.

 

RESOURCES:

Seekingintegrity.com

Email Tami: [email protected]

Sexandrelationshiphealing.com

Intherooms.com

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