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Lost weight, found savings, still dodging man-babies. 🏃‍♀️💸👶🙄

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This week on Worth The Weight, Sarah and I are covering everything from GLP-1 chaos to the emotional rollercoaster of being noticeably smaller and mildly uncomfortable about people noticing. We're navigating the weird headspace of validation vs. self-worth vs. “am I doing this for me or for other people to say something?”

Then we dive into the absolute circus that is dating while on GLP-1s — featuring stories of men who get weird when they find out you used to be fat, dudes who are terrified you might gain weight back, and the age-old question: why are men so fragile?

PLUS: Sarah introduces me to The Ugly Stepsister — a Norwegian Cinderella retelling where tapeworms, sewn-on eyelashes, and sheer desperation meet our collective obsession with being effortlessly beautiful. Spoiler: the tapeworm is basically a metaphor for the emotional hunger we’re all carrying.

And finally, we debate whether you owe your date an explanation for not drinking, whether being sober requires disclosure, and whether men actually care how women lose weight (spoiler: men barely understand how GLP-1s work at all).

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We're back, and so are the ladies! In this episode, we break down everything from And Just Like That Season 3, Episode 1 — the moments that worked, the ones that made us cringe (Looking at you, Aidan), and the plotlines we’re already side-eyeing.

From Carrie's bizarre acceptance of Aidan's request to put their relationship on pause for five years, to Seema's refusal to settle, to Miranda’s deflowering Sister Mary One Night Stand, and everything in between — we’ve got thoughts.

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From Carrie's bizarre acceptance of Aidan's request to put their relationship on pause for five years, to Seema's refusal to settle, to Miranda’s deflowering Sister Mary One Night Stand, and everything in between — we’ve got thoughts.

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In this episode, Sarah and I dive into the internet backlash aimed at a dating coach who had the audacity to admit she married a “nice nerdy guy” without feeling an instant spark — and she’s happy. Naturally, the internet lost its damn mind.

We talk about why the obsession with “zsa zsa zu” is keeping women stuck in toxic patterns, and why the absence of anxiety doesn’t mean the absence of attraction. We also unpack the insidious nature of emotional manipulation, the reality of trauma bonds, and how chaos gets misread as chemistry.

And if that’s not enough? We read aloud a truly cursed “feminine energy” post that suggests sighing softly and smiling sadly to get a man’s attention — because nothing screams empowered like trying to out-manipulate someone who already doesn’t give a shit.

Highlights include:

• Why “no spark at first” doesn’t mean you settled — it might mean you finally chose peace.

• How unpredictability creates trauma bonds (and why some men count on it).

• Why calm confrontation > emotional gymnastics.

• And most importantly: you are not a dating strategy.

If you’ve ever been told to “give the nice guy a chance,” or if you’re rethinking what actual safety feels like in a relationship — this one’s for you. Chin up, tits out.

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Aging, ADHD, and the lie that weight loss fixes everything. Plus: Healing means circling back — this time with more clarity and fewer breakdowns.

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This week, Sarah and I dive into the latest on GLP-1s and why women seem to have a different experience with them than men (spoiler: hormones, age, and maybe how you jab yourself). We talk about what’s not being said — like how losing weight doesn’t always come with a confidence boost. Personally, I’ve become a little self-conscious about how much weight I’ve lost in my face. There’s this weird disconnect between how I feel and how I think I’m supposed to feel.

We also talk about healing — real healing. The kind that’s messy and nonlinear. I’ve had moments where I thought I was “over” something, only to revisit it and feel that intense reaction all over again. But that’s not regression; that’s revisiting the pain with more awareness. And sometimes that’s the most powerful kind of progress there is.

I also share how I’ve been getting my ADHD chaos under control — or at least trying to. I’m journaling more, using a planner (shocking, I know), and sticking to a to-do list that doesn’t instantly get buried under ten tabs and a pile of dog hair. These tools have helped me process some really tough emotions, especially after losing Sam. It’s been less about “getting back on track” and more about creating structure that actually supports me.

If you’ve ever felt emotionally scrambled while also trying to get your life together, this one’s for you.

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This week, we’re diving into dating patterns, gut instincts, and the uncomfortable truth that sometimes… it’s your trauma playing matchmaker. We break down a listener letter from someone who thought she finally found a unicorn — until he bailed out of nowhere. Was it anxiety? Or was her intuition picking up on something real?

We talk about the difference between anxiety and intuition, why emotionally available partners can feel “off,” and how repetition compulsion makes you chase familiar pain — not because you’re broken, but because your brain is trying to fix the past. Spoiler: it never works.

Plus: Fuck That Guy Summerfest continues with a sweaty mustache bro who’s out here raw-dogging the sidewalk with bad boundaries, peak audacity, and zero self-awareness.

We get into:

• Trauma as a matchmaker

• Repetition compulsion in dating

• Anxiety vs. intuition — how to tell the difference

• Ghosting, self-trust, and breaking the cycle

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This week on F*ck That Guy Palooza 🎉

We’re serving up a buffet of walking red flags and emotional immaturity—bring your appetite. First course: a man who’s clearly past his dating app expiration date but still insists he’s entitled to a woman “out of his league” (whatever that means). Next up, a guy who treats his date’s romantic past like it’s a crime scene and somehow thinks he deserves answers. And finally, a man drooling over the idea of a threesome—as long as it’s emotionally convenient and doesn’t threaten his fragile ego.

Then, we pivot to something that truly touched us: a beautiful message from a longtime listener who credits this podcast with helping her leave a toxic relationship and choose herself. Spoiler: it ends in love, green flags, and a baby. Yes, we cried. Yes, you might too.

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This week on Worth the Weight, I open up about an emotional moment with my sister that triggered my Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria and unearthed some deep-rooted feelings of being “too much” or “in the way.”

We also talk about how RSD messes with our body image and makes it hard to feel at home in our own bodies—because when you’re constantly bracing for rejection, self-trust goes out the window.

It’s vulnerable, it’s reflective, and yeah—it’s a little spicy.

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When you shrink yourself to keep them, you lose yourself in the process.

This week, Sarah and I are getting into a topic that, honestly, I wish more people were talking about: self-abandonment in relationships. We got a listener letter that really hit home — it’s from a woman caught in that all-too-familiar loop of feeling like she’s giving way more than she’s getting back. You know the drill: inconsistent texting, weirdly distant behavior, and that gut feeling that you’re trying harder than they are.

As we read her letter, we unpack all the little signs of self-abandonment — saying yes when you want to say no, keeping your feelings quiet so you don’t seem “too much,” and hoping that if you’re just patient enough, they’ll change. (Spoiler: they usually don’t.)

We also talk about how these patterns often come from early life experiences (yes, I got personal — I shared a story about my own father that really shaped the way I viewed love and approval). If you’ve ever found yourself over-explaining, over-giving, or just plain exhausted from trying to “earn” someone’s affection, this episode is for you.

Pour yourself a drink, get cozy, and let’s talk about why you deserve to stop shrinking yourself for someone else’s comfort.

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Influencers are lying, your body’s in survival mode, and we’re done pretending otherwise.Enjoy a teaser of this week's Worth The Weight episode!

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This week on Worth The Weight, we’re diving deep into how living in a constant state of fight or flight impacts our mental health, our relationship with food, and our bodies.Chronic stress keeps our cortisol levels elevated, which can lead to anxiety, burnout, emotional eating, and stubborn weight gain. But it often goes deeper than everyday stress — unresolved trauma can wire our nervous system to stay in survival mode long-term. We unpack how past trauma keeps us stuck in this heightened state, hijacking our hunger cues, sleep, mood, and metabolism, and share strategies for breaking the cycle and calming the body.

We also get into the viral story of body-positive influencer Remi Bader, who recently revealed on Khloé Kardashian's podcast that she secretly had gastric sleeve surgery to lose weight. Her revelation left her followers feeling blindsided and betrayed.

We explore the toxic dynamics of parasocial relationships, the pressure influencers face to appear “authentic,” and whether Remi owed her community more transparency. Plus, we take a hard look at the culture of dishonesty in influencer spaces and what it means for those of us seeking real, honest conversations about body image and wellness.

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In our new segment, Worth the Weight, we dive into our personal experiences with GLP-1 medications, sharing the highs, lows, and everything in between. We’re getting real about why we chose to use them, how they’ve impacted our lives, and the societal pressures women face regarding beauty and weight. From unrealistic beauty standards to the stigma around weight loss, we’re unpacking it all. Join us as we challenge the narratives, explore the controversies, and navigate our journeys toward body autonomy and self-acceptance.

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