Creating Midlife Calm: Coping Skills for Stress & Anxiety in Family, Work & Relationships

Have you ever had one of those days where the tiniest thing sets you off—like your partner’s chewing suddenly drives you nuts? That’s the science of a bad day at work in your brain and body.
You don’t have to let one bad moment spiral into a bad day, or worse, a bad week.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
1.    Why midlife stress and anxiety are wired into your brain and body
2.    How to use the RESET coping skill
3.    How to build your own reset ritual so you can stop anxiety and stress from stealing your energy in midlife.
 Take 12 minutes to reset your mind and reclaim your calm—you’re worth it.

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About the Host: 

MJ Murray Vachon, LCSW, is a seasoned clinician, educator, and host of the podcast Creating Midlife Calm, recognized by Maria Shriver as a “Listen of the Week.” Over the past 40 years, MJ has led more than 50,000 therapy sessions and developed the Inner Challenge mental wellness program and the Inner Challenge Master Class, practical tools for emotional regulation, self-awareness, and resilience taught for more than 30 years in junior high schools and at the University of Notre Dame for freshman football players. Through her podcast, teaching, and coaching, MJ helps people build calmer lives, stronger relationships, and healthier communities.

Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support. 

Can Taylor Swift’s approach to calm help you manage midlife stress and anxiety this holiday season? (OMG, is she really talking about holidays???)
You’re not alone — even the most grounded people feel the pull of pressure and expectation this time of year.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
1.    How Taylor Swift’s choice to protect her peace can inspire your own midlife coping skills.
2.    Why setting intentions now helps reduce stress, anxiety, and overwhelm later in the season.
3.    Simple, science-backed ways to trade pressure for presence and design the calm you crave.
 Take 8 minutes to shift from holiday stress to midlife calm — you’re worth it.

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About the Host: 

MJ Murray Vachon, LCSW, is a seasoned clinician, educator, and host of the podcast Creating Midlife Calm, recognized by Maria Shriver as a “Listen of the Week.” Over the past 40 years, MJ has led more than 50,000 therapy sessions and developed the Inner Challenge mental wellness program and the Inner Challenge Master Class, practical tools for emotional regulation, self-awareness, and resilience taught for more than 30 years in junior high schools and at the University of Notre Dame for freshman football players. Through her podcast, teaching, and coaching, MJ helps people build calmer lives, stronger relationships, and healthier communities.

Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support. 

What if one of the world’s most famous women just shared the secret to reducing anxiety in midlife?

You’re not alone if endless scrolling leaves you feeling drained, distracted, and anxious.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

1. The conscious choices Taylor Swift makes to protect her peace and reduce stress.
2. How attention, not time, may be your most valuable coping skill in midlife.
3. Why less scrolling and more creativity can transform anxiety into calm.

🎧 Take 9 minutes to reclaim your calm and refocus your attention—you’re worth it.

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About the Host: 

MJ Murray Vachon, LCSW, is a seasoned clinician, educator, and host of the podcast Creating Midlife Calm, recognized by Maria Shriver as a “Listen of the Week.” Over the past 40 years, MJ has led more than 50,000 therapy sessions and developed the Inner Challenge mental wellness program and the Inner Challenge Master Class, practical tools for emotional regulation, self-awareness, and resilience taught for more than 30 years in junior high schools and at the University of Notre Dame for freshman football players. Through her podcast, teaching, and coaching, MJ helps people build calmer lives, stronger relationships, and healthier communities.

Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support. 

Why does your inner critic keep pushing you harder even when you already know how to get things done in midlife?
Your inner critic often hides behind “truth,” “motivation,” or “standards.”
In this episode, you’ll discover:
1.  Why tracing the roots of your inner critic matter and how giving it a midlife update can free you to trust yourself and enjoy your life
2.  How self-criticism wires your body for stress and anxiety—and what you can do to shift into calm
3.   A simple, science-backed coping skill that helps you move from judgment         to  gratitude, confidence, and self-trust 

 Take 11 minutes to rewire your inner critic, ease anxiety, and increase calm in midlife—you’re worth it.

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About the Host: 

MJ Murray Vachon, LCSW, is a seasoned clinician, educator, and host of the podcast Creating Midlife Calm, recognized by Maria Shriver as a “Listen of the Week.” Over the past 40 years, MJ has led more than 50,000 therapy sessions and developed the Inner Challenge mental wellness program and the Inner Challenge Master Class, practical tools for emotional regulation, self-awareness, and resilience taught for more than 30 years in junior high schools and at the University of Notre Dame for freshman football players. Through her podcast, teaching, and coaching, MJ helps people build calmer lives, stronger relationships, and healthier communities.

Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support. 

Why do your efforts to silence your inner critic never seem to last?
You’re not alone—midlife anxiety and stress often thrive when criticism becomes a daily habit.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
1.  Why calming your outer critic is the real key to quieting your inner critic
2.  How midlife stress, anxiety, and overthinking are fueled by cultural patterns of criticism
3.  The surprising science of what criticism does to your body—and the coping skill that rewires your brain in real time
 Take 11 minutes to silence your critic, ease midlife anxiety, and lower stress—you’re worth it.

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About the Host: 

MJ Murray Vachon, LCSW, is a seasoned clinician, educator, and host of the podcast Creating Midlife Calm, recognized by Maria Shriver as a “Listen of the Week.” Over the past 40 years, MJ has led more than 50,000 therapy sessions and developed the Inner Challenge mental wellness program and the Inner Challenge Master Class, practical tools for emotional regulation, self-awareness, and resilience taught for more than 30 years in junior high schools and at the University of Notre Dame for freshman football players. Through her podcast, teaching, and coaching, MJ helps people build calmer lives, stronger relationships, and healthier communities.

Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support. 

Can fifteen brave seconds really be enough to move you out of loneliness in midlife?

You’re not alone—many people feel stuck in midlife loneliness while also battling anxiety and stress.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

1. Why Mel Robbins’ 200-hour friendship rule doesn’t capture the reality of connection in midlife
2. How self-knowledge and social intelligence can make friendship easier and quicker to build
3. Why anxiety—not time—is the real barrier, and how just fifteen seconds of bravery can help you break free from loneliness

🎧 Take 10 minutes to see how one brave choice can ease midlife loneliness, calm anxiety, and reduce stress—you’re worth it.

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About the Host: 

MJ Murray Vachon, LCSW, is a seasoned clinician, educator, and host of the podcast Creating Midlife Calm, recognized by Maria Shriver as a “Listen of the Week.” Over the past 40 years, MJ has led more than 50,000 therapy sessions and developed the Inner Challenge mental wellness program and the Inner Challenge Master Class, practical tools for emotional regulation, self-awareness, and resilience taught for more than 30 years in junior high schools and at the University of Notre Dame for freshman football players. Through her podcast, teaching, and coaching, MJ helps people build calmer lives, stronger relationships, and healthier communities.

Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support. 

Does your busyness cover up midlife loneliness without truly easing your anxiety and stress?
You’re not alone—belonging often fades when school, church, or work communities disappear, leaving a quiet ache.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

1.     Why loneliness in midlife reminds us that busyness doesn’t equal belonging.

2.     How belonging shifts once familiar communities disappear—and why creating connection becomes a DIY project.

3.     Three practical coping skills to rebuild community and ease midlife loneliness, anxiety, and stress.

🎧 Take 10 minutes to reclaim calm and connection in midlife—you’re worth it.

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About the Host: 

MJ Murray Vachon, LCSW, is a seasoned clinician, educator, and host of the podcast Creating Midlife Calm, recognized by Maria Shriver as a “Listen of the Week.” Over the past 40 years, MJ has led more than 50,000 therapy sessions and developed the Inner Challenge mental wellness program and the Inner Challenge Master Class, practical tools for emotional regulation, self-awareness, and resilience taught for more than 30 years in junior high schools and at the University of Notre Dame for freshman football players. Through her podcast, teaching, and coaching, MJ helps people build calmer lives, stronger relationships, and healthier communities.

Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support. 

Do you know how the natural comfort of Fall can be used as a science-backed way to calm anxiety?
You’re not alone—many in midlife overlook how the season itself can offer coping skills that reduce stress and restore resilience.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
1.    How to add physical comfort in ways that calm your nervous system and reduce midlife stress
2.    Simple but powerful psychospiritual coping skills for anxiety
3.    How environmental and social comfort can strengthen calm and ease midlife anxiety in everyday life
 Take 12 minutes to reduce stress and anxiety with four science-backed coping skills that lean into the comfort of  Fall!

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About the Host: 

MJ Murray Vachon, LCSW, is a seasoned clinician, educator, and host of the podcast Creating Midlife Calm, recognized by Maria Shriver as a “Listen of the Week.” Over the past 40 years, MJ has led more than 50,000 therapy sessions and developed the Inner Challenge mental wellness program and the Inner Challenge Master Class, practical tools for emotional regulation, self-awareness, and resilience taught for more than 30 years in junior high schools and at the University of Notre Dame for freshman football players. Through her podcast, teaching, and coaching, MJ helps people build calmer lives, stronger relationships, and healthier communities.

Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support. 

Are you overlooking the comfort of fall that could become a powerful coping skill for midlife stress and anxiety?
You’re not alone—many people miss how seasonal routines and autumn comforts can ease anxiety and strengthen resilience.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

1. How the comfort of fall can anchor you in calm and reduce stress and anxiety in midlife
2. The surprising difference between soothing and comfort—and why only one truly restores your energy
3. Why the science of comfort proves it’s not indulgent but a powerful coping skill for lasting midlife resilience

🎧 Take 10 minutes to reduce stress and anxiety with autumn comfort—you’re worth it.

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About the Host: 

MJ Murray Vachon, LCSW, is a seasoned clinician, educator, and host of the podcast Creating Midlife Calm, recognized by Maria Shriver as a “Listen of the Week.” Over the past 40 years, MJ has led more than 50,000 therapy sessions and developed the Inner Challenge mental wellness program and the Inner Challenge Master Class, practical tools for emotional regulation, self-awareness, and resilience taught for more than 30 years in junior high schools and at the University of Notre Dame for freshman football players. Through her podcast, teaching, and coaching, MJ helps people build calmer lives, stronger relationships, and healthier communities.

Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support. 

What if science could show you a way to finally get free from anxiety in midlife?
You’re not alone—so many believe anxiety is something they just have to manage, but research and real-life practice prove otherwise.
In this episode, you’ll discover:

1. Why your amygdala often misfires and fuels unnecessary anxiety
2. How blame and avoidance quietly keep you stuck in midlife stress
3. The one science-backed coping skill that retrains your brain and helps you move beyond anxiety for good

 Take 13 minutes to learn the coping skill science shows can free you from anxiety—you’re worth it.

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About the Host: 

MJ Murray Vachon, LCSW, is a seasoned clinician, educator, and host of the podcast Creating Midlife Calm, recognized by Maria Shriver as a “Listen of the Week.” Over the past 40 years, MJ has led more than 50,000 therapy sessions and developed the Inner Challenge mental wellness program and the Inner Challenge Master Class, practical tools for emotional regulation, self-awareness, and resilience taught for more than 30 years in junior high schools and at the University of Notre Dame for freshman football players. Through her podcast, teaching, and coaching, MJ helps people build calmer lives, stronger relationships, and healthier communities.

Creating Midlife Calm is a podcast designed to guide you through the challenges of midlife, tackling issues like anxiety, low self-esteem, feeling unworthy, procrastination, and isolation, while offering strategies for improving relationships, family support, emotional wellbeing, mental wellness, and parenting, with a focus on mindfulness, stress management, coping skills, and personal growth to stop rumination, overthinking, and increase confidence through self-care, emotional healing, and mental health support.