Narcissists confuse us by lying to us and gaslighting us. It can be awfully hard to figure out what is true, and what is false. However, there are some simple sentences that can help us ungaslight ourselves a bit after dealing with narcissists.

We can choose to aim upwards - narcissists will aim downwards, and try to drag everyone down with them.

Narcissists hide their manipulation behind word salad that sounds like logic, but that does not resist the test of logic. In this episode, I give some examples of how to take apart faulty logic, and show why this logic is... illogical at best, and dishonest at worst.

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I recently witnessed a narcissist verbally assault cabin crew on a plane. Luckily I was there to help them realise this woman was not just a bit weird, but was positively crazy and toxic!

Getting over narcissists and getting our life back on track can be really tough. Of course, we want to understand better what happened. AND at the same time, there are some simple (but not easy) things we can do to make things better. In this episode I share some ideas.

Narcissists despite their partners. Especially if the partner leaves them. This can be baffling. But there is a very, very logical reason for this.

Narcissists believe they are literally "1 in a million". So, what does this really mean? Join us to find out.

Hurt people hurt people. Ok great, now what? Well, some people don't intent to hurt others. And some people intend to hurt others, with glee, and blame their victims for "forcing them to hurt them".

One key helps us decode a narcissist's lies. And there is one tell that helps us recognise a narcissist's victim.

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When there's a disagreement, how can you tell who is being unreasonable - so you avoid "wrestling with pigs"?

I share two stories and some tips about how to find more clarity.

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Narcissists often make snarky remarks and claim they are "only joking". We might be tempted to believe them. But there is an objective method to determine if what they say actually qualified as a joke. Or if it is just being mean. Tune in to find out what this method is.