Why do kids echo negative statements from a high-conflict co-parent? In this episode, we dive into the motivations behind this behavior, exploring how high-conflict parents use children as a tool and why it’s so impactful. Understanding the root cause is the first step to responding with strength and protecting your kids from emotional harm. Join us for insights that will prepare you to handle these challenging moments with confidence. For the full training, visit The Next Chapter!

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In this episode, we sit down with Sandra Fava, a seasoned family law attorney and founder of Fava Law, to discuss everything you need to know about navigating high-conflict divorces and custody battles. Sandra shares invaluable insights on how to find the right attorney, the key questions you should be asking, and why being prepared ahead of time can make all the difference.

From understanding the benefits of mediation to managing high-stakes situations like child custody and spousal support, Sandra provides practical advice and expert tips to empower you during one of life’s most challenging transitions. Whether you’re in the early stages of divorce, facing a contentious co-parenting situation, or simply want to be informed, this episode is packed with actionable strategies and encouragement.

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In this insightful episode, we’re joined by Bev Mitelman, a Certified Attachment Practitioner, to explore the profound impact of attachment theory on our lives. Bev explains the different attachment styles and how they influence our relationships, parenting, and coping behaviors. We discuss practical steps for fostering secure attachments in children, identifying and understanding your own attachment style, and healing attachment wounds post-divorce to build healthier relationships. Whether you're new to attachment theory or looking for tools to grow and heal, this episode is packed with actionable insights for navigating relationships with confidence.

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In this episode, we dive into the difficult issue of parental alienation, where one parent tries to undermine the relationship between their child and the other parent. This can be emotionally taxing, especially when you notice sudden shifts in your child’s behavior or feel unjustly blamed.

We’ll explore the signs of parental alienation, including when your child expresses negative feelings toward you without cause or when false claims are made to disrupt your bond. We also discuss the damaging effects of loyalty conflicts, where children are pressured to take sides.

You’ll also learn how to handle these situations with resilience. We cover radical acceptance to cope with the reality of alienation, how to use effective communication by keeping detailed records, and how to maintain a stable environment for your child. Plus, we talk about the importance of seeking professional and legal help to protect your relationship with your child.

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In this episode, Leah and Sam dive deep into the world of parenting plans, breaking down what they are, who needs one, and why they're essential, especially when you're co-parenting with a high-conflict individual. They discuss the key components of a parenting plan and why having a clear, written agreement can help reduce stress and improve the co-parenting dynamic. The conversation also touches on the important distinction between an amicable co-parenting relationship and a high-conflict one, offering tips and insights for managing both effectively. Whether you're navigating a difficult co-parenting situation or looking for ways to streamline your parenting plan, this episode provides valuable tools and guidance.

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In this episode, Leah and Sam dive into the challenges and joys of celebrating Christmas after divorce. They discuss whether or not you should buy your ex a present from your kids, how to handle the feeling of not being able to compete with your ex’s gift-giving, and the importance of creating new traditions post-divorce. The conversation also touches on shifting the focus from material gifts to creating meaningful experiences for your children. And of course, Sam shares her famous scavenger hunt that has become a favorite tradition in her family! Tune in for a heartfelt and practical discussion on how to make the holidays special for you and your kids, even when co-parenting feels complicated.

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In this episode, we dive deep into how to prepare for the holiday season, offering practical tips and strategies for making it through with your peace intact—and your kids' well-being at the forefront.

You don't have to celebrate on the actual holiday! We'll share how to adjust your schedule and make the season work for you, without compromising your sanity. Plus, we talk about setting boundaries with family members—so you're not answering uncomfortable questions or rehashing your divorce or your ex in front of the kids.

We also cover the inevitable: your ex will likely try to ruin your plans or change the custody schedule last minute. We'll teach you how to anticipate this and still stay in control of your holiday experience. Throughout, we emphasize the most important thing: your kids. Learn how to create holiday memories that are focused on joy, rather than conflict.

If you're co-parenting through the chaos, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in for expert insights and actionable steps to help you navigate the holiday season with confidence.
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Navigating co-parenting when your ex introduces a new significant other can bring up all kinds of emotions—jealousy, insecurity, even frustration. In this episode, we dive into the most common challenges moms face when their co-parent moves on with someone new. From feelings of being replaced to concerns about boundaries, we’ll address the real and complex emotions many moms experience. Plus, we’ll share actionable steps to help you find your footing, protect your peace, and keep your focus on what truly matters: building a loving, stable environment for your kids. Join us for a compassionate, no-nonsense conversation that offers both practical tips and emotional support to empower you in this new chapter.

Feeling Guilty for Initiating Divorce? In this episode, we’re breaking down the complex emotions that come with making the tough decision to leave a marriage, especially when guilt and sadness creep in. Together, we’ll explore practical ways to manage these feelings, keep your focus on your 'why,' and find peace knowing you’re doing what’s best for both of you long-term.

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In this episode, we dive into navigating the spooky season of Halloween while managing high-conflict co-parenting dynamics. With the holiday approaching, we discuss critical things to watch out for to ensure a smooth experience for both you and your kids. We also take a look at our most viral TikTok videos from the past week, sharing insights and laughs that resonated with our community.

As we reflect on the transformative journey of divorce, we emphasize that this is your time to explore, experience, and discover everything you've ever wanted to do. It’s a season of self-discovery and growth! We also highlight an important red flag to watch for when dating: if someone claims that all of their exes are “crazy,” it might be time to take a step back and assess. Holding yourself accountable and recognizing the role you played in past relationships is crucial for personal growth and healthier future connections.

Join us as we unpack these topics and more, offering encouragement and insights for anyone navigating the complexities of co-parenting and post-divorce life.

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