Divorce with Sam and Leah

Missing your kids after divorce can be one of the hardest parts of shared custody. In this episode, we’re sharing 10 actionable tips for moms to cope with time apart, navigate the emotional ups and downs, and start finding peace when the kids are away.

Whether you’re in the early days of your custody schedule or still struggling years later, these strategies will help you shift your mindset, create healthy routines, and make the most of the time you have to recharge.

💬 In this episode:

• How to handle the first nights without your kids

• Tips for coping with shared custody and missing your kids

• Healthy ways to fill your time and ease the loneliness

• Why taking care of yourself benefits your kids, too
  

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Making the decision to leave your marriage is never easy—and knowing what to expect once you do can feel overwhelming. In this episode, Divorce Coach, Lawyer, and Mediator Karen Covy shares how to tell if you’re truly ready to go, what steps to take before filing, and how to prepare for the legal process ahead. We talk about common fears that keep people stuck, the documents you’ll want to gather early, and how to set realistic expectations for what divorce might look like. Whether you’re still on the fence or already preparing to file, this conversation will give you the clarity, confidence, and practical tools to move forward with less conflict, expense, and drama.

To connect with Karen, visit https://karencovy.com/

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What happens when the financial picture in your divorce is way messier than you expected?

In this powerful episode of Divorce with Sam and Leah, we’re joined by Certified Financial Planner and Divorce Financial Analyst, Morgan Murray, who walks us through real-life divorce finance horror stories—and the critical lessons that came out of them. From hidden accounts to unmanageable debt to last-minute retirement plan saves, this episode is packed with red flags to watch for and smart steps to take.

Whether you’re still in the process or already divorced, this episode will open your eyes to what really happens when the money gets messy—and how to protect yourself.

We cover:

• What to do if your ex controls all the finances
  

• How “weaponized incompetence” delays the legal process
  

• Why that house might not be the asset you think it is
  

• How to untangle financial messes with the right professionals
  

• Why speed, communication, and transparency matter more than ever
  

Real stories. Real strategies. Real empowerment. Don’t miss this one.

Connect with Morgan: https://abri.io/

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If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking, “I should’ve known better,” or “I’m failing my kids,”—this episode is for you.

Negative self-talk after a toxic relationship or divorce is so common, and yet, nobody really talks about how damaging it can be. The guilt, the shame, the feelings of failure… We’ve felt it all. And for a long time, we believed every harsh thing we said to ourselves.

But learning how to shift that inner voice? It changed everything—how we showed up as moms, the decisions we made for our future, and the way we saw ourselves.

In this episode, we’re sharing:

• The sneaky ways negative self-talk shows up

• Why your inner critic isn't actually your voice

• 10 powerful tools to stop the spiral and start rebuilding confidence

• How to start talking to yourself like someone you love

Because you’re not broken—you’re rebuilding. And you deserve to feel safe, seen, and whole in your own mind.

Let’s quiet the mean girl in your head and help you reconnect with your truth.

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If you're constantly putting your toxic or abusive ex’s feelings above your own—this episode is for you.

So many divorced moms stay stuck in fear, walking on eggshells and avoiding things they want to do because they’re terrified of their ex’s reaction. Whether it's setting a boundary, taking a vacation, or even just showing up happy—if you're still shrinking yourself to avoid his triggers, this conversation will help you shift that mindset.

We’re breaking down:

• Why his reactions are not your responsibility

• How fear keeps you stuck in old patterns

• 5 empowering reminders to help you stop prioritizing him over yourself

• What it really means to choose you (and show your kids how to do the same)

It’s time to stop managing him and start reclaiming your peace. 💥

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In this powerful episode, we’re sharing the raw, honest truth straight from teens who lived through their parents’ divorces. These aren’t expert opinions or textbook strategies — they’re real insights from kids who know firsthand what helped, what hurt, and what they wish their parents had done differently.

From the value of therapy and structure, to the emotional damage of oversharing and being stuck in the middle, this episode breaks down seven impactful lessons every divorced parent needs to hear.

Whether you're in the thick of it or already years out, this conversation will help you show up for your kids in ways that actually matter.

Because healing isn’t about perfection — it’s about presence, consistency, and choosing love over drama every single time.

Your kids might not say it out loud, but these are the things they need you to hear.

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Not all attorneys are created equal—especially when you're navigating divorce or a high-conflict custody battle. In this episode, we’re calling out the red flags you need to know when it comes to working with a divorce lawyer.

If you’ve ever wondered, “Is my attorney really fighting for me—or just running up the bill?”… this one’s for you.

We’re breaking down the top 10 signs your attorney is stirring the pot for profit instead of supporting your best interest. From unnecessary court filings to shady communication patterns, we’re pulling back the curtain and giving you the insight you deserve.

Whether you’re already working with an attorney or still searching for the right one, this episode will help you protect your peace, your wallet, and your future.

If you’re a divorced or divorcing mom ready to heal, rebuild, and take your power back—come join us inside The Next Chapter Membership. We’ve got the tools, support, and sisterhood to help you thrive: https://www.samandleah.com/services

Ever wonder why you keep getting triggered by the same things—no matter how much healing work you’ve already done?

In this episode, Sam and Leah break down the top 5 reasons emotional triggers keep showing up (especially after divorce), and what you can start doing right now to finally shift the pattern. From unhealed wounds to subconscious hooks, this conversation is a must-listen if you’re tired of feeling stuck, reactive, or emotionally drained.

Plus, we share a powerful invitation to go deeper with us inside The Next Chapter membership, where we’re bringing in artist and creative healing facilitator Lisa Brown for a special live workshop. She’ll teach you how to gently access your emotions, uncover what’s keeping you stuck, and reconnect with your true self—no art experience required.

🎧 Tune in to learn:

• Why some emotional triggers never fully go away

• What’s underneath the anger, sadness, or shutdown

• How creativity can unlock healing in a totally different way

• A sneak peek at our upcoming Art as Therapy workshop

You’re not broken—you’re just carrying too much. Let’s change that.

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If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I the high-conflict co-parent?” — this episode is for you. In today’s honest and eye-opening conversation, we’re talking about the moms who second-guess themselves, feel guilt over their decisions, and just want to do what’s best for their kids. (Spoiler alert: the fact that you're asking this question is a sign you're not the problem.)

But even if you’re not the narcissist, you might still be unintentionally feeding the high-conflict dynamic. From engaging in every argument to trying to co-parent like it's a team sport — we're breaking down 10 ways you might be enabling your high-conflict co-parent without even realizing it.

Whether you’re dealing with gaslighting, boundary-pushing, or constant chaos, this episode will help you shift out of reaction mode, stop fueling the fire, and protect your peace.

In this episode, we cover:

• Why narcissists never ask, “Am I the problem?”

• Subtle behaviors that enable high-conflict dynamics

• Why parallel parenting may be your best strategy

• The role of guilt, reactivity, and lack of boundaries

• What to do instead — and how to reclaim your power

✨ Ready to stop second-guessing yourself and co-parent with confidence? Inside The Next Chapter membership, you’ll get the tools, support, and weekly guidance you need to heal, set boundaries, and raise emotionally healthy kids — even with a high-conflict ex.

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Co-parenting with a narcissist or high-conflict ex who refuses to compromise is emotionally draining and can feel like an endless battle. In this episode, Sam and Leah break down the Top 10 truths about co-parenting with a narcissist — including how to stop reacting, start protecting your peace, and shift the dynamic in your favor.

Whether you're dealing with gaslighting, manipulation, or a complete lack of cooperation, this episode gives you clarity, validation, and strategies to navigate the chaos with strength.

And don’t forget — inside The Next Chapter, we hosted an exclusive live workshop with internationally renowned conflict expert and author Hesha Abrams, who will teach you how to communicate clearly and hold the calm — even when it feels impossible. This replay is now available inside the member library!

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