Emotionally Uncomfortable

During this episode I talk about:

• How can I become what I need to get?
• Our Ego vs. Child's spirit
• Over parenting, because it's serving our own need to be needed
• Get a life, so your kid can have one
• Raising children today for adulthood burnout

Julie Lythcott Haims CLICK HERE TO WATCH HER TED TALK

author of, How To Raise A Successful Adult

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"The bad news is time flies. The good news is you're the pilot." -" ― Michael Altshuler TODAY'S PODCAST SPONSOR: AUDIBLES www.audibletrial.com/heatherchauvin {WORKSHOP} ENERGETIC TIME MANAGEMENT - September 9th www.momisincontrol.com/time Dr.Shefali's EVOLVE Conference www.momisincontrol.com/evolve

"I think that the best thing we can do for our children is to allow them to do things for themselves, allow them to be strong, allow them to experience life on their own terms, allow them to take the subway... let them be better people, let them believe more in themselves." ― C. JoyBell C.

In this episode I interview my 12 year old son and we chat about his experience spending a month away from home this summer.

I also talk a little about my experience as a mother during this time and what I needed to let go of to make this happen.

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"Every thought we think is creating our future." - Louise Hay

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In today's episode I talk about why we need to focus on managing our energy NOT our time.

These are the 5 steps I talk about, in the show I go into more detail:

Step 1: Get Clear On What You Want

Step 2: Get Clear On How You Want To Feel

Step 3: Identify Your Energy Leaks

Step 4: Plan It Out

Step 5: Take Action

Are you ready to up your time game and start feeling like you have the space to breathe and become the person you truly want to me?

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Discipline: The practice of training people to obey rules or a code of behavior, using punishment to correct disobedience.

Synonyms:Control, training, teaching, instruction, regulation, direction, order, authority, rule, strictness,

Punishment: The infliction or imposition of a penalty as retribution for an offense. Synonyms: penalizing, punishing, disciplining.

Natural Consequence: A result or effect of an action or condition.

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3 Journaling Strategies To Help You Get Clear On What You Want

1) I Want List: Keep asking yourself, 'what do I want?', write down every thought that comes to your mind.

Example: A bath, a long walk, a new outfit, to start my own business, red lipstick etc...

2) Connecting To Source: Write with a stream of consciousness. Every thought, phase and sentence that comes to mind write it down. Keep writing, the more you write the more clarity will come.

3) The Braindump: This strategy is great for overwhelm. Dump everything you're thinking on a page. Get it all out. Walk away. Then once you've taken a break organize your thought and making a decision on your next highest leveraged task.

" Thoughts are energy, energy is matter, and matter doesn't disappear. Pay attention to coincidence. You can choose your identity and a recent one: Only the present moment matters." ― Wunder Wend

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The reality is I want to write a book. It's taken me a long time to come to terms with this. Now it's all about aligning the writing process with how I want to feel.

In this episode I share my very OPEN and RAW experience of what I'm doing to push through the resistance and owning the fact that I'm a writer.

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"I can't do this" "I'm not good enough" "I'll never be as good as her" "What if I fail?......" "O god what if I succeed?" "I feel like such a fake and a fraud" "I don't even know where to start?" "What if I'm not who they expect me to be? Can I keep this up? Be who they want me to be, even if I don't feel like it?" "I hate how my life is right now" I hate being a mum"

In 2013 Bree became one of the worlds first Creatrix® Facilitators and to date remains one of the most experienced in this unique for the female brain program.

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