Willard F. Harley, Jr., Ph.D. earned his Ph.D. degree in psychology from the University of California at Santa Barbara in 1967 and has been a Licensed Clinical Psychologist in Minnesota since 1975.

Dr. Harley is best known as the author of the internationally best selling book, His Needs, Her Needs: Building An Affair-proof Marriage.

Dr. Harley's ground-breaking mental-health approach to marriage therapy has saved countless marriages over the decades, and continues to do so today. He has written 23 other books and continues to write, speak, and lead seminars throughout the US and Canada.

Dr. and Mrs. Harley also host a daily one-hour call-in show, Marriage Builders® Radio. It can be heard on radio stations and on the Internet. They have been married for 54 years and live in White Bear Lake, Minnesota. They have two adult children, who are now working with them as marriage coaches, and four grandchildren.

Mentioned:

• His Needs, Her Needs, by Willard Harley

In this episode, Dr. Bill Harley and Dr. Jessica Higgins discuss:

• The four emotional needs that must be addressed in order to fall in love, stay in love, or get love back again.
• Breaking the "love busters" to create an environment where a date would actually be a mutually enjoyable experience.
• How finding things you enjoy doing together, and encouraging each other's individual passions can build connection.
• Using the "Love Bank Inventory" to measure what areas of love building need more attention.

"No matter where you are in your marriage, dating can create a great marriage for you. It can solve all of your communication problems, it can solve all the struggles that you've been having, trying to make decisions. And I just challenge couples to recognize that 15 hours a week of undivided attention is the answer." — Dr. Bill Harley

Connect with Dr. Bill Harley:

Website: Marriage Builders® - Successful Marriage Advice

Twitter: Marriage Builders (@marriagebuilder)

Facebook: Marriage Builders - Home

YouTube: MarriageBuilders

Show: Marriage Builders Radio

Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins:

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Twitter: @DrJessHiggins

Website: drjessicahiggins.com

Email: [email protected]

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